Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
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last night i was looking at my boyfriend Facebook and some girl posted a status saying "I hate sleeping alone, I need a boyfriend with money" he clicked on like and told her "I have money, a living room and a kitchen" she just said "hehehe" but every time she wrote something he would like her comment! There is another girl that i don't want him talking to because she has feelings for him and he knows this. Well last night she wrote a status saying"I didn't went to school!~My clock" He licked her status. Why would he do that.? I just don't understand him. I don't want to tell him anything because I already talked to him about it, but look now. Im so confused. What do you suggest me to do? or if you were in this situation what would you do? :'( (link)
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The same situation I used to be in. he has no respect for you and probablly doesnt take you seriously. guys like that dont wont change thier bad habbits unless you teach them a lesson. Talk to him and tell him that you feel disrepected talking to any girl about the covo and the girl you dont like. And if he acts like he doesnt care break up with him. He shouldnt be talking to other females in that way. Speak up dont let him take advantage of your kindness. Communication and trust is key
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Hello im 19 and my boyfriend who is 21 wants to join the army/military. Not full blown army but like working with computers and such. He asked me what i thought yesterday and it was kind of a shock. He said him and one of his friends were talking about joining and he convinced him to go. He basically is just waiting my "approval" but i want him to do what makes him happy. He said after he goes for basic training he will only have to leave one weekend out of the month for like 2 years. Im not really sure how anything works. He just brought this upon me yesterday. The only downfall is that he will be gone for 10 months touring afghanistan or something. We've been together for about 2 years now and 10 months is a long time and i dont think we can go without seeing each other that long. He is basically only going into the army for the money. We are very serious and he said when he comes back he'll have money so we can plan a wedding and maybe some other big stuff. If he goes i dont know how im going to cope with him being gone we see each other every day! Any ideas or suggestions? I do rate!
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honey,
he is doing this for your own good. he wants to be a better person and a great husband when you two get married. Being an army wife would be tough at first but you will get used to it after a while. the 10 months he leaves to Afghanistan will go by so quick.. if you really love him, which i can tell you do, please do not break up with him. soon or later you will get married and lived together where ever he gets station at. He needs all the support he can from you in order to be safe out there. No matter what people say about breaking up with him because he is leaving you for a period of time, i advise you to dont. i repeat time will FLY.
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Hey everyone, if you go to google and look up "William Suh arrest". Im the victum in that change. I dont know what to do, i still love that man and the people dont even have the facts stright about any of it! they are making himout to be a horrible person and he is NOT. I love him and belive he did nothing wrong, i really want to talk to him, but i cant sit here and listen to the horrible things people are saying about him. They dont know him, I DO!
what do i do T_T (link)
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lmao ur just as sick as him...i tell it how it is. if you dont like what i said about that guy well its too bad, you need more than mental help...n like you said everyone is entitled to their own opinion and what i said i mean it.i dont care what you think about..deal with it.
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Hi remember me?? I'm the one who asked you about this guy to see what you thought if he cared or not.Well thanks for your advice,jsut to let you know,I probably wasn't being to specific in the question but he does know I like him,Ive been very specific to him.But anyways I'm starting to notice that when he comes and sees me,he looks at me so intensly and he is about to ask me the "big question" but then he backs off.I seriously think he is shy.lol But yet again I dont know;one of my friends talked to him and well he told her that he was going to make the day that he asked me out unforgettable. (link)
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hi yes i do remember you..hey if i were you ill have nothin to worry about, now you know that he wanna make you his and soon some day he will ask you out. Seem like to me that he already had this planed. I think its cute and ill just wait for that special day for ya to become offical. He sounds like a keeper foreal. Give him time to ask you out, cause once ya make it offical theres no turning back lol.
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im 15 year old girl and a sophomore and my ex boyfriend whos 16 but is this year a senior went out for about 5 months.. we had sex after 2 months and then he cheated on me. he cried about and and everything and i know he truly felt bad but our relationship had been on the rocks.. we broke up and got back together about a month later. we were so in love, he said he would always love me no matter what. we broke up again and he said he still loved me he just couldnt commit with football and school starting again. the whole school year we were on and off friends but he acted like he hated me alot of the time. in january i went over his house and we hooked up and after that he didnt talk to me again but i cold tell that day somethin was weird that he wasnt into it cause he wasnt acting like the jonathan i went out with. he recently started to text me and it was so random because i thought he hated me.. he texted me about every morning and nighgt and he said we should hang out and we did. i once again fell into his trap and we hooked up but only kissed/made out and after that he hasnt texted me. but the difference is when we hung out the other day he WAS acting like the boy i fell in love with and went out with last year. he acted the same and was nice and into everything that was going on. im so in love and dont want to let him go, so what should i do ? (link)
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sorry be it seems like he doesnt want a relationship right now..he wants to just have sex with you and do him at the same time..He cant be using school as an excuse to not being with you..Coz he if really wanted to be with you nothing would stop him from being with you. As for him texting you is becoz he wants some cheeks and den have nothing to do with you untill he gets lonely again and text you....He changed and i dont think he would be the same guy you knew and fell in love with..you need to move on! hes a senior now, next year he'll be in college and im sure hes not gunah want to be in a relationship also..he is at a stage where he doesnt know what he wants..if u really love him then maybe in the future he will be yours again..but for now stop falling into his little trap becoz its making you feel worst and catch more feeling towards him.. its time to move on.
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"Does he Care"
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 11:59 am
Hey everyone!
Well to start off,I am 19 years old and I'm still single.What I mean by "still"single,is that I've never had a boyfriend.And that is not because no one has approached me,its just the simple fact that I want somethin serious and I know what I'm looking for.Well this past december I met this guy at a dance,and he asked me to dance with him.After that night he figured to get my number from my knephew who had gone with me.He called me and he started tellin me that he really wanted to talk to me.He liked how I was...now,i let him know that I didnt want anythin at the time,cuz i was talking to someone else.I left to Mexico for the two weeks of Chirstmas vacations,and at a 15th,my cousin had told me that he had talked to a guy,that apperantly was "IN LOVE" with me.He started talkin about me and about how great i was without havin to know the guy he was talkin too was my cousin.I came back in January and well,things didnt go to well with the other guy i was talkin too.So when i get back to tx,the guy from the dance calls me and while we are chattin he kept insisting about getting to know each other....months passed and I always let him know that I wasnt lookin for anything more but friendship.I had just got out of somethin and i didnt want issues.He would bring me flowers,gave me a ring for valentines day,(i didnt accept)when he didnt even know me as much.Till this day he insists.THE THING IS...he got back from canada(work)and I bumped in to him.He asked me if I was talkin to anyone,and I honestly told him YES.I met this guy at the island and well,I really like him.Now,The guy I like KNOWS i like him,and well I know he likes me too.We hava a mnth talkin...anyways I let him know about Frank(the guy from the dance).I told him that just two days ago he dropped some flowers off at my house even after i told him i was talkin to someone and the only thing he responded was"you do what makes you happy,if you feel happy with him,then GO AHEAD!"
So my question is....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HIM?lol does he not get that the one i like is him and not the guy who has been in back of me for months.????it makes it seem as if he is not even trying or as if he hardly cares....
So wat do you advice me?
Shouldnt it make him try harder knowin another guy is trying their best to win me over?
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you shouldnt be playing games with the guy you like, coz he cant guess that u like him!! you telling him that you talking to someone else will only push him away not try to win your love..be real and truthful to him. You need to tell him that you like him, and that he shouldnt have to feel as if he is in a competition with the other guy...tell him that the person you like is him dont play the guessing games anymore. Its gunah be to late by the time if u dont tell him.
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Hi Guys,
It seems like lately me and my friends are drifting apart. I knew this would happen when we all started new colleges and we are meeting new people. I have met some amazing people at my college, but I still love my old friends. I still speak to my old friends every day and I see them reguarly. But it seems like we don't have barely anything in common anymore.
I love going to parties and meeting new people and I am much more confident than I was a year ago. But my old friends aren't into this sort of stuff. I don't know what to do because my old friends are my best friends. I want them to come to parties with me, but if they don't want to come then I feel bad for going with one of my new friends.
I feel like I am the only one who has changed and all my other friends have stayed the same. I don't know why but it's made me feel so lonely and slightly depressed. And that's not who I am at all, i'm usually happy all of the time but it's been getting me down lately. I don't want to stop seeing my old friends, because they're my best friends, but they are not into the same things as me.
Please help...xoxo (link)
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people do change but you gotta know how to make time with your old friends. its ok if they dont wanna party. party with your new friends once in awhile, then go out with your old friends. do something they enjoy doing...you gotta keep the same balance....they both should be equal..enjoy life!
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Okay, i asked a previous question about this, but if you havent seen it, this is basically what happened. there was a party, my girlfriend went with her friends, i was working so i didnt. at the party some guy was hitting on her, then grabbed her ass, she pushed him off, he pushed her over onto the pavement, shes got a big bruise and scraped up her arm and hands. yeah well so i wanted to beat the shit out of him, but my gf told me to leave it alone, and forget about it. yeah. i didnt. i found him a few days later, and tried to kick his ass. hes a big fellow, but i walked away better which was what i wanted. my girlfriend found out and is PISSED at me. she doesnt get it though. i couldnt leave it alone. she wouldnt even let me talk her into pressing charges(which is what i was planning) she refused so i pretty much had to do what i did. but she doesnt get it. i tried to explain to her that when someone messes with your girlfriend, they cant just get away with it. she doesnt understand, but i did apologize. shes still pissed though and i do feel bad because i guess i made her feel guilty which is crazy, because if anyone should feel guilty, its me. i mean if i had been at the party, this would never have happened. i dont know what to do now. she feels bad, and shes mad as hell at me. any help?
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she'll get over it soon...u did what u had to do which was to protect her now he wont mess with her nomore!
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Many people have their own opinons on family romance and im curiouse what are your thoughts? (link)
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NASTY!!!!! very nasty...Her own FATHER..your friend is sick and so is he! they both need help..& your no good in agreeing with them havin a relationship!!
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Alright I'm 14/F and the guy is 16/M. Pretty much, when he asked, I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he stopped talking to me. I really liked him. He told me he could see himself dating me and that he cared about me. Well he obviously doesn't care that much if he would just drop me like that because I wasn't going to let him do me. Like what the hell? Who does he think he is? I'm not a toy he can just fool around with (we had made out) and then drop when he found out he couldn't get in my pants. I want to get back at him SO bad but I don't know what to do. Help? (link)
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hes more mad coz he didnt get want he want so you already got at him and thats the best thing you could of ever done...Move on with it dont let him talk to you again
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so there was this party the other night. my girlfriend went with her friends but i couldnt because i was working. there were kids from other schools there too. well the way i heard it was that this one dude was messing with my girl all night. flirting with her and stuff and that about halfway into the party he grabbed her ass. she slapped his hand away and i guess he flipped out. he pushed her over and kicked her. i want to kill him. shes got this huge nasty bruise and she scraped up her arm and hand when he pushed her onto the pavement. i dont think ive ever been this furious. i feel guilty too that if i had been there to protect her, it wouldnt have happened. i know who he is because ive played him in football, and i want to kick his ass. it would upset my girlfriend who told me that i shoudl just leave it alone. but at this point i would rather kill this kid and have her be pissed at me then just sit around and let him get away with it. im thinking about just doing it and not telling her. he should have the balls to not go crying to anyone about it right> might not be a good idea though... what do you guys think? (link)
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dont kill him but if u see him on the street why not confront him and show him a little something...no guy should ever hit a girl!!
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i am living with my boyfriend at home with my mum i am 16 & he is 25 & i have been with him a year now i know about our age diffrence but i love him so much and i want to be with him forever but we have been arguing latly and one day i went on his imesh a website were you can download music and meet people and he had set his own account up and he had pictures of himself with no top on and o the acount it asks a question 'what i'm here for and he has clicked the date and hook up choice i confronted him about it and neally kicked him out but he got really upset and told me it was a mistake i forgave him but now he should be making up to me but hes just acting the same way as he always did and i am startin to wonder wether i had made the right decision ???? (link)
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i dont know why he would get upset, oh yeah becoz he wants to reverse this all on you..He got mad when you wanted to kick him out so that you can feel sorry for him and let him stay...instead of getting mad he should of told you the truth & said sorry and meant it..seems like to me that he got you like that....You need to show him that you dont play no games & he shouldnt eiether...If it help to confirm if he was doing anything on the site ask for the password, if he says no then you deff. know he was up to something & thats when you gotta put your foot down & striaght up kick him out the house.
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Hi, I'm 14 and I have a problem...my boyfriend is really really short and I'm rather tall, I'm about 6 inches taller than him. Everyone at skool makes fun of us whenever we're together all all the stuff. And he sucks at kissing. My friends have told me to break up with him because of our height difference, but I'm very close to loving him. I like him alot and I really don't wanna break up with him, but I don't know if I can stand the jokes anymore. What should I do? And is it true that shorter guys have big dicks? (link)
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look dont care about what ppls say..if he makes you happy then what is the problem? When are you going to start making descion on your own & stop listening to ppls..You could loose a nice guy & end up with a jerk. Seriously, if you dont want to break up with him then dont......seems like ya got haters everywhere.& let them keep hating.
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Why do guys take so much pride in "protecting" their girlfriends when it just comes off as jelous and overprotective to the girl? (link)
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because they dont want noone else to have them.. they would say "your only mine". If this happens is because the guy really likes the girl..bcoz someone who didnt wouldnt feel as they need to be overprotected with their girl..They wanna feel manly & feel like they got the control.
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19 femaleeeee:)!
so i've always had a little crush on my best guy friend. he was going out with his girlfriend for THREE years, agh horror! hahaa. anyways they recently broke up which made me happy because he's a single guy now and we get to hangout more! but him and her are still really good friends, i mean they didn't end it bad, feelings just weren't there anymore but she still goes over to his house and hangs out with them because they are so close, i mean three years! who wouldn't be close? i understand that but it's just so hard for me seeing her still hang out with them, i still get so jealous.
am i weird for feeling like this? am i being selfish? me and him have a connection, we are attracted to each other but i just feel like that wall is still there, and that things won't move anywhere between us as long as him and her still talk, do you believe this is true?
i understand couples who break up do stay friends sometimes, but i always have a feeling that they're going to get back together.
ughhhhh any suggestions on what i should do? am i totally just blowing things out of proportion? any thoughts would be nice! (link)
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honestly i dont think that they are over each other...so if you want him you gotta tell him you like him before its too late...let him know how you been feeling about him, you never know he might feel the same way for you.
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I am 15 years old, and I have known my boyfriend for 4 years, he also happens to be my best friend's 13 year old brother. Just recently he and I became eachother's first boyfriend and girlfriend after we told eachother that we've always liked one another. It's been a few months now, we see eachother alot and just act silly and play like we always have....but it doesn't feel any different to me. I really wish to hold his hand or at least have him show the ways that he cares for me in person, instead of only showing them on-line :P. Then a few days ago he emailed me and told me that he cares for me so much but he doesn't feel mature enough to be in a relationship. He has also heard (from my best friend) that lately there have been some guys my age making moves on me...which of course i have no interest in tham at all! I was very understanding of his feelings, though it does make me sad. But he says that it makes him feel like a wimp that he hasn't made a move yet..He just feels nervous that he's going to mess up being romantic and he says that i deserve more than that. I really need some advice! I really truly like him, but should I just let this go and try dating someone my own age in the future?( which i can't imagine right now) What could I possibly do to help him with being more brave to show how he feels about me? Should I just be patient and let him start being romantic when it feels right for him? (link)
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this is too cute....I remember back in 2005 i was 15 & i meet this boy from church who happened to be 13...yes i like him alot & he also felt the same about me..he asked me out & i gave him a chance.Of course we were both inexperience & very shy expressing our feeling in person so we would write emails or little love notes to each other saying how much we like each other...the first couple of months we didnt do anything but just kiss & hang out...We were still both shy to hold hands & all that other stuff..Anyways the point is that up 2 this day me n him are still together =)(more than 4yrs now)....Im now 19 & he is 17...& we are deeply in love.. Girl i say dont rush anything in the relationship becoz its better to wait for all the good things ya both can share & do together, its a wonderful feeling being with that guy who you truely love.. my bf thought that since i was older i was going to leave him for someone around my age..but i proved him wrong because he was the one i wanted to be with...You gotta believe in your relationship, make the first move if you have too & live everyday without regrets. Tell him that your not going anywhere & together ya would be..& to not feel as if you going to leave him.....ya are young but it can happen =) Stay with him, ya would mature together.
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Ok, so basically I've been talking this kid for a little over a year. Never dated, and we were really close last summer and then I went off to school and we didn't talk much then. But everytime I would come home we would talk again, and this summer I think it got even more serious. We talk everyday, and practically see each other at least once a week, (but its with a group of people), and we have hung out alone on several occasions.
And I think I'm really starting to fall for this kid, and I'm actually considering turning it into something more. But here's the thing, we've never done anything more than kissed, which we only did once. Yes ONE TIME! and that consisted of me practically attacking him when I was a little under the influence, but either way it was pretty great. And we do do cute things like cuddle or hold hands sometimes but thats it.
But anyway, we both really really into each other, but I was wondering is it really possible to like someone that much when nothing physical has been done? I mean, I've never really known a relationship I've had where its been otherwise. It's always been mostly physical. So I was just wondering your opinion on how exactly the physical stuff is in starting a relationship? (link)
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this is good...ya never did anything and like each other alot for over a year.i say try to talk things out with him about dating..maybe he is feeling the same way..dont let him go away..It might be too late & end up with another girl..so take action now.
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kay so me and my boyfriend started dating last summer...we broke up in april, then got back together this july. our one year is coming up and we don't know whether to celebrate it or not...cause if we like wait 3 months, its not the same cause he asked me out in august not november and things would get confusing right? we're obviously gonna do what we want but i just want some opinions on what you would do if you were in my situation, thankss :) (link)
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i would celebrate it, becoz ya got back together..dont make things any more confusing just start back from the first time he asked you out.
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Okay, so I really liked this guy. And I totally thought he liked me too. He definitely lead me on. But when my friend asked him if he had any interest in me he simply replied "She's not really what I'm looking for right now." Okay, so I know that's the nice way of putting it. But obviously he meant something else. You can be harsh, that's okay. If you were a guy and you said this, do you really mean it? Or is there another meaning to the words. (link)
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it could mean that he is not into you...you dont fit his catagory of his "idea of a girl" i agree with darby its time to move on..
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14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm really trusting and wanted to believe everything he'd tell me because I really thought he cared. But apparently not.
He begged me to stay with him. He cried after randomly blowing up multiple times at me and apologizing. He did everything to make me believe he cared.
I'm naive and believed him.
Can guys really lie like this, this easily??? Should I not trust guys anymore??? because honestly, I'm scared....I know just saying straight out that I'm scared may seem a bit irrational but...really. I don't want to go through this ever again.
any advice will be greatly appreciated. really any, you have no idea. (link)
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look your only 14 and im sure that the ex was around your age..& if he wasnt he needs to grow up..But the thing is that not all guys are the same, but you cant also trust every guy you just meet bcoz some are real jerks like your ex..2 months really is not long and since you gave it to him quickly and didnt make him wait for it..Im guessing...well everyone always learn from their previous relationship so this is a lesson learned.. You can trust guys but not so quickly, it takes time. you dont want him to think that he got you like that. & honestly i dont think he meant what he said, he must of been mad & went off on you..I say to dont even be friends with him, he sounds like a guy who noone wanna be with. Theres plenty more nice guys out there.
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