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pissed off


Question Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 6:30 pm

Alright I'm 14/F and the guy is 16/M. Pretty much, when he asked, I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he stopped talking to me. I really liked him. He told me he could see himself dating me and that he cared about me. Well he obviously doesn't care that much if he would just drop me like that because I wasn't going to let him do me. Like what the hell? Who does he think he is? I'm not a toy he can just fool around with (we had made out) and then drop when he found out he couldn't get in my pants. I want to get back at him SO bad but I don't know what to do. Help?

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Lianna25 answered Thursday August 13 2009, 4:00 pm:
hes more mad coz he didnt get want he want so you already got at him and thats the best thing you could of ever done...Move on with it dont let him talk to you again

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Darby answered Wednesday August 12 2009, 10:25 pm:
I agree with the answers below me. It's best to just take the high road. Who says that it means he won? He didn't get what he wanted, so he really loses.

It would be nice to scheme some elaborate plan that could make him see that he can't treat you like that; but he probably already knows that since he didn't get in your pants and you guys don't even talk any more.

He does sound like quite the jerk, but it's not really worth starting a huge feud over. Just take it as a learning experience and watch for guys that display the same warning signs (wanting to hook up early, only talking about hooking up, etc..) that this guy displayed.

-Darby(:

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Cux answered Wednesday August 12 2009, 10:14 pm:
You're right; you aren't some toy for him to fool around with.

But just because he got rid of you because you wouldn't put out doesn't mean you have a right to get back at him.

Chances are, he's going to try to ask to have sex with you again, so, the best way to "get back at him" would be to not even give him the time of day.

--Jack
(17/m)

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itstimetoknow answered Wednesday August 12 2009, 10:09 pm:
you could be the bigger person and just walk away.
forget about him.
but when another girl comes along, warn them.
unless they want to do it with him.
but still warn.
itd be nice!

good luck(:

T.

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