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hai everyone.I'm in my teens but very mature for my age.
i can help you in any way possible.
i absolutly love helping people.
and i'm very very kind!
message me!(:
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im 14 male and for awhile now i realise that im really into and attracted to guys i really like a guy but im too nervous to tell him hes also 14 im worried he might reject me i havent told anyone that im gay not even my parents not sure how to go about it im worried what peeple might think i really have strong feelings for this guy do i talk to him how do i go about it? do i talk to my parents?
well are your parents understanding?
you could talk to this boy about your feelings, but 14 is a harsh age. people spread crap. i would be careful about what you do. ask your parents, they should understand.
contact me with more specific details if need be.
Tay_ta_mali@hotmail.com
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im 15 male and im from a christian family my parents are quite religious and well im gay
and i dont want to come out for awhile yet and im not sure how to talk to them about it not sure how they will react and ive met this guy weve really hit if off weve become really close over the last few months and recently he told me hes gay and he likes me a lot we want to be together and im worried about it getting out so i like him a lot should i just go for it?
totally!
be proud that you're gay!
if you really like him and he really likes you.. go for it!
hi, my name is destiny im 14. im so depressed, well im crying as im writing this,i dont know who i am anymore. i used to smile all the time. i took a picture of myself to put on my myspace profil and i realized i just cant smile the way i used to. im homeschooled and ever since i left school i fell like i am falling into darkness and wont ever find my way out. im a cutter and it geting so bad i told my bffaa (best friend forever and always) that i wanted to kill myself. and i did but she told me what i would loose and who i would hurt and i didnt but i cant keep holding on to nothing. it seems like everything i do i just screw up. she knows how i feel in some ways but she has a way out. she goes to school. im around my family 24/7. it just feels like everyone around me hates me. i hate myself. i feel pain all the time and i cant get rid of it. i just want to end it. please, please help me. i need something someone to tell me theres a reason to keep fighting. please. i dont know life anymore. ps. i have t hide my feelings around my family and it only gets worse everyday.
aww honey its okay.
one of my very good friends felt the same way, and i told the counsler.
first off you absolutly need to call the suicide hotline or talk to your mom about it.
there is help out there.
life is a blessing, pray to God and He will get you through it.
my heart goes out to you, you just have to keep reminding yourself that you cant give up.
you were put on this earth for a reason.
try to find a talent you have or something you love to do.
ask your family if you could go back to school.
think of the pros and cons.
why are you sad? is it because you never see your friends anymore?
life is tough, but you have to look it in the eye and tell it you will get through it.
what would you do if you new could not fail?
look in a mirror and tell yourself you are someone, you have a purpose.
try to stop going on myspace as much.
looking at how much other people have can make you wish you were them.
be proud to be you.
if you need anymore help feel free to contact me
at Tay_ta_mali@hotmail.com
i really hope i changed your mind.
think positivly, you can do this!
i beleive in you.
16/male my girlfriend is also 16 and weve talked about sex weve been taking it slowly ive held back a little im nervous my penis is quite small and im worried i wont be any good i wont be able to please her do girls care if a guy i small?
will i be able to please her?
you probably will be able to.
it all depends on what she likes i guess.
ask her about it!
15/male my girlfriend is also 15 and the other day we were dry humping and we both had our underpants on i had my penis out a little and after awhile i came is there any chance she might be pregnant?
only if the cum got into her. or if there was some chance it couldve. she should check just to make sure.
14 yr old guy and for awhile now ive been attracted and have strong feelings for another guy hes also 14 we are friends and we hang out a lot together we spend a fair bit of time together weve become close and i really like him i havent told him im a bit nervous to say anything not sure he will react im nervous i havent these sort of feelings what can i do? is this a normal feeling?
there could be a couple reasons why your feelings the way you feel.
we all sometimes think of what it would be like with the same sex. that may be it for you and it's completly normal.
it's also completely normal to be bi-sexual, or gay. not everyone is, but the people that are it's fine.
take some time to analyis whether or not it's because you are wanting to experience something with a man or if it's because you like who he is.
hope this helped you!
im male im nearly 15 and well this is embarrassing my penis is really small im worried not sure if theres something wrong with me will it grow? am i normal?
oh yeah thats perfectly fine.
dont worry about it.
it will grow in time, and your normal.
i'm starting cross country really soon. i get cramps all of the time...is there anything i can do so i can make sure i don't get them? i heard bananas work and to stay hydrated...any advice? thankyou
drink tons and tons of water. itll help ALOT
more than anyone knows.
and stretch all of the time.
no joke, like a lot. even if your not with the group at that time.
stretch by yourself.
its important.
if the cramps keep comin then see a doctor.
hope i helped(:
and good luck(:
-T,
14/Male
Lately ive started to masturbate a lot it feels really good and last week my sister caught me she just walked in and i only had my underpants on it was really embarrassing and im a bit nervous about doing it again and getting caught what can i do?
its a natural thing.
your sister should understand if shes old enough.
just keep doing it but maybe when noones home.
or lock your door.
or find some private area where you could.
dont worry about it, everyone does it!
good luck(:
-Tay,
So basically on December 21st, 2012 around 11:11pm the world is supposed to end, and Im freaking out haha. opinions on this?
if you believe in the bible and all of that stuff it says that Jesus will come down and rule for 100 years.
is he down here yet?
nope.
How does the cooling system of a car operates/funtions?
http://auto.howstuffworks.com/cooling-system8.htm
thats the best site i could find for you.
im not much into cars but i know many mecanics.
hope that helps(:
good luck!
-Tay,
i love my boyfriend but most of the time when he ask me to have sex with him i say no not cause i dont want to but because i dont want that to be the only thing he wants from me and sometimes i dont think im that good but he says i am do you kno any ways i can please him ????
well if you dont want sex try dry humping.
im 15/male and my gf and i are getting closer we make out a lot and she says she wants to see my penis im a bit nervous about showing her what she will think my penis is almost 5 inches long is that an ok size?
Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)
thats what the smart science poeple say it is.
but i think they come in all different sizes.
dont worry about it.
if she really loves you she wont care how long it is.
good luck(:
-Tay,
hey im a band mannager and im booking a show and someone asked me what my demographic is..what exactly is that?
http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary_1861603644/demographic.html
dont worry if you dont know it or not. you may be new.
(:
good luck!
-T.
your silent song resonates
chords strike me like an idea
i don't understand and never will
i always want you here
your eyes are always bright and wide
is it dawn or dusk?
this tinted, blue october sky
dissonance sounds just..
perfect
keep it simple?
no one taught me how
you and me sounds tricky, too
this is how a bleeding, beating heart sounds
i love you, i need you
i've got a twisted toothpick spine
it's an arch you say you adore
i'm proud to call you mine
if you'll always call me your's
spare me a plastic ring, maybe tin
because the concept feels alright
let the bad times roll in
i'll smile with scars from every fucked fight
it's nothing like what they tested and taught
it's nothing ideal
but you stole every second thought,
tell me how this feels
What comes to mind at all when you read this?
im thinking about relationships.
getting a new one and then looking back on the old horrible ones.
I have to choose between a softball banquet, nags head, or a mud bog this weekend. and I've decided that the banquet would be lame, sooooo someone help me decide on the other two!
f/14
mud bog sounds awesome!
i say do that.
but if whatever a nags head is if you think itll be fun go for it!
just think of how all of them will play out for ya.
hope i helped(:
-Tay.
Ok... this may sound strange but I have too much going on in my life right now so I didn't know what to ask.
I think the root of it all is.. no one is like me. I face problems all the time because of my differences to others in every sphere of my life, social, romance, family, work, I'm just not like anyone else I know. It's harming relationships, has terminated some of the most important ones in my life, I'm just past it now.. the only reason I'm asking this is for lack of a better question out of the thousands raging in my head. Every day at my home is another day of torment so I try to stay away from home but my parents try to restrict that, our relationship has unfortunately reached a point beyond repair now. I get hurt because of my expectations from other people, I'm just sick of being attacked from every side of my life. When I think everything is right something always goes very very wrong... I just want to move out, away, away from it all... I'm too clingy, want too much in relationships, don't like balance when it comes to things I love, maybe I just need to be alone because I don't want to expect things I can't get anymore. It's not fair on other people around me. What's going on?
oh my gosh.
it's that bad? that's horrible :[
all i can really think of is stay true to yourself.
be who you wanna be, not what others want.
think, is everyone you possibly know hurting you?
or maybe they think its funny when you don't see it that way.
just be nice to people, look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself im going to make this a good day.
just look back on the day when its over and write down what you liked and what you didnt.
dont change yourself.
good luck!
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alright so im a guy and im 16. well my bestfriend and i have been tight since we were like 7, and its always been tough for him (and me) cos his sister is HOT. (she's 16 too, they're twins). and i mean ive always been attracted to her, but ive never made a move cuz shes like off limits ya know? anyway, i went over to his place the other day but he wasnt there and i kind of just ended up chilling with her. shes a really cool chick and since then weve hung out a few times but my buddy doesnt know about it... and i mean i think i really like her (i havent even put my hands on her yet) and i want to ask her out on a legit date but jesus, i do not want to deal with my friend. its pretty out of charachter for me to not fool around with a girl i like so i know that my friend is going to automatically assume that ive been on her if he hears that ive been hanging with her. so im really stuck now. she wants me to ask her out, but her brother is super protective and im scared it might ruin our friendship and/or he'll kick my ass. bros before hoes? i dont know. any advice would be great, thanks.
wow that's tough.
id just straight up tell him about it.
and ask for his permission.
what if he was in your place?
hed probably want the same thing.
so just go up and tell him.
keeping secrets from your best friend isnt right.
but if you really really like her and he disagrees with you guys going out.
then secretly date?
lmao.
good luck.
Okay so basically,I am 19 & I had a misscarriage almost 2 months ago, suffered rape about 3 years ago and suffer with panic attacks and quite severe depression.
The other day I got into a conversation with a friend as I text him saying, are you awake. This was about midnight, he text back with yeah why, I said I feel down and sad, and just wanted to talk to someone.
He asked me what was up and I just said, I was watching a program on tv called ''Underage & Pregnant'', I knew I didn't wanna watch it but at the same time, I had this urge to, so I did. And it left me feeling low.
He basically said, your not the only one whos been through this, my girlfriend had a miscarriage too and we didnt even know she was pregnant, your always so low and upset and your not the only one, and hes pissed off with it.
I text back saying I have a right to be upset still though :( and he said your still doing it, you know i been through the same thing but your still saying about you being upset.''
At that point I felt utterly crap, I truely feel selfish and almost like I am not allowed to grieve for my unborn child. I dont know what to do, and this has made me feel really bad. Could someone expres their opinion on the matter,
I knew
wow.
im sorry :/
that's very sad.
some people take it harder on themselves then others.
you have a right to grieve.
id recommend writing in a journal or talking to a therapist.
this way it doesnt get your friends mad if they think your talking to much about it.
therapists are supposed to listen to everything you have to say, theyll listen.
try it out!
see if it works!
good luck!
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Alright I'm 14/F and the guy is 16/M. Pretty much, when he asked, I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he stopped talking to me. I really liked him. He told me he could see himself dating me and that he cared about me. Well he obviously doesn't care that much if he would just drop me like that because I wasn't going to let him do me. Like what the hell? Who does he think he is? I'm not a toy he can just fool around with (we had made out) and then drop when he found out he couldn't get in my pants. I want to get back at him SO bad but I don't know what to do. Help?
you could be the bigger person and just walk away.
forget about him.
but when another girl comes along, warn them.
unless they want to do it with him.
but still warn.
itd be nice!
good luck(:
T.