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I hope this makes sense.. I'm just confused about myself


Question Posted Monday August 17 2009, 3:25 pm

Ok... this may sound strange but I have too much going on in my life right now so I didn't know what to ask.

I think the root of it all is.. no one is like me. I face problems all the time because of my differences to others in every sphere of my life, social, romance, family, work, I'm just not like anyone else I know. It's harming relationships, has terminated some of the most important ones in my life, I'm just past it now.. the only reason I'm asking this is for lack of a better question out of the thousands raging in my head. Every day at my home is another day of torment so I try to stay away from home but my parents try to restrict that, our relationship has unfortunately reached a point beyond repair now. I get hurt because of my expectations from other people, I'm just sick of being attacked from every side of my life. When I think everything is right something always goes very very wrong... I just want to move out, away, away from it all... I'm too clingy, want too much in relationships, don't like balance when it comes to things I love, maybe I just need to be alone because I don't want to expect things I can't get anymore. It's not fair on other people around me. What's going on?


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erin_gee answered Monday August 17 2009, 8:44 pm:
I think you really need to try to turn your whole outlook on life around. Everything you said here was so negative. Maybe if you took things one step at a time and tried to be a little more positive things may turn around for you. Maybe find an outlet to let all your sorrows go. Whether it's exercising, finding someone you could talk to, or just writing; it may be a better way to find balance. Write down your goals and what you wish to accomplish. Maybe its being less hard on people, or
just finding some good in others. It would probably be a good idea to just slowly start trying to sort through your head for a solution to each problem and
to try to dwell less on them. good luck, and if you need anything else.. feel free to ask. <3

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itstimetoknow answered Monday August 17 2009, 7:27 pm:
oh my gosh.
it's that bad? that's horrible :[
all i can really think of is stay true to yourself.
be who you wanna be, not what others want.
think, is everyone you possibly know hurting you?
or maybe they think its funny when you don't see it that way.
just be nice to people, look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself im going to make this a good day.
just look back on the day when its over and write down what you liked and what you didnt.
dont change yourself.

good luck!
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