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Matt AND Jason ♥Help
okay so my sitiuation is complicated and completely my fault, but im stuck and need advice on how to get out of it.
ok so theres these two guys jason and matt and they are both so incredibly amazing, and thats the problem.
Jason Is a guy I can completely see myself being with and being happy. We have our relationship times and our times when we can just be freinds and have no care in the world. He's the one I cant stop thinking about no matter what Im doing or who Im with.
Matt on the other hand is somewhat of a very big player, but when I see him he always brings me to this place I never knew existed. I could sit and kiss him for the rest of my life. He makes me feel like the prettiest most amazing girl in the world. He tells me the sweetest things and he sings to me. But with matt if we're not all over eachother we're nothing, we are unabled to be "just freinds".
So My problem is Im falling in love with two guys and did I mention they're best freinds? So its not so easy on them either when one of them see's me with there best freind. At first it was jason I wa always with and I never thought of matt like that and now that I've formed relationships with both of them I just cant break myself away from either of them. I dont know what to do they make it impossible for me to breath because they are always asking me which one I like better and the truth is I have no clue. can someone give me some advice that might actually help me? sorry it was so long
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I agree with Darby Jason is a better choice if your looking for a realationship. If your looking for a one night stand Matt is your guys cause from the sound of it he will tell you anything to get in your pants
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From what you've said, Jason is probably the better choice. He can be a best friend and a boyfriend, and that's what a good, solid relationship needs. Not to mention the fact that you were with him first. If you chose Matt over him at this point, you would likely ruin your relationship with Jason and Matt's friendship with Jason.
The fact that Matt is a big player isn't great either. That means he could mess things up with his running around. You don't want to date a guy that plays the field like that. You're just setting yourself up to get hurt. It sounds like the relationship with Matt is a sexual one for the most part. It's nice that he sings to you and makes you feel good; but who knows who else he's doing that for?
The bottomline is, Jason has proven his feelings and devotion to you by standing by and being a good friend, even after you started hooking up with his best friend. That fact alone simply amazes me. He must really like you. If a guy I was with started hooking up with my best friend, I might very well punch him in the face. It shows that Jason still cares about you, even when you're not doing the best of things.
In the end, it's your choice. And if you can't choose between them, you just might have to choose neither and move on. What you need to do is make a list and really weigh out the pros and cons of each person. You've already said that you can really see yourself being with Jason. It seems like your mind is made up, but you're crushing on Matt and it's confusing you.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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