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Should I leave him?
Hi, I'm 14 and I have a problem...my boyfriend is really really short and I'm rather tall, I'm about 6 inches taller than him. Everyone at skool makes fun of us whenever we're together all all the stuff. And he sucks at kissing. My friends have told me to break up with him because of our height difference, but I'm very close to loving him. I like him alot and I really don't wanna break up with him, but I don't know if I can stand the jokes anymore. What should I do? And is it true that shorter guys have big dicks?
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look dont care about what ppls say..if he makes you happy then what is the problem? When are you going to start making descion on your own & stop listening to ppls..You could loose a nice guy & end up with a jerk. Seriously, if you dont want to break up with him then dont......seems like ya got haters everywhere.& let them keep hating.
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Dear "Should I leave him",
Now I don't want to sound horribly mean but to be brutaly truthful, dear, you should leave him.
If you are honestly considering breaking up with him because he's shorter than you and because your friends say you should, then he's better off with out you. No one deserves that. If you really like him, than it shouldn't matter what other people say or if people make fun of you for any of those things. The reason you break up with someone is between you and the person you are dating.
You say you're close to loving him. If that's true, then don't treat him like he's an accessory that should look good and make you popular. Also, think about his feeilngs. He's getting made fun of too honey, you aren't the only one in the relationship. He could just as easily dump you because you're tall.
Maybe I've been a little harsh, and I apologize, but it sounded like you needed a reality check. Give me any rating you want, but I think you needed to hear those things.
You can fix the kissing. And no, there is no study showing that shorter guys have larger packages.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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Just because your friends say to break up with him doesn't mean you should.
Just because you're taller than him is NOT a reason to even consider breaking up with him.
If you really, actually WERE close to loving him, you wouldn't let something like height get in the way. Part of true love is accepting the other person's flaws, and loving them regardless of their physical appearance.
Don't break up with him if you like him. Your friends suck for making you consider it. Just because he's short doesn't mean he's not a great guy. It's really not a big deal, or at least, it shouldn't be.
-Laura (17-f)
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Don't let anyone else decide for you whether or not you should break up with him. Its your love life, and if you like him so much, then you should stay with him. Learn to love his flaws is how I see it, you can work on the kissing, and who cares if you are taller than him? People unfortunately can be very mean, but just remember "sticks and stones can break your bones, but words will never hurt you." Its cheesy but it is so true. Ignore what they say, and I promise you it will go away, theres nothing he can do to make himself any taller, and he probabaly doesn't feel too good about it either.
Good Luck!
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If you seriously think you should break up with a guy because someone else makes a joke, I think you're too immature to be in a relationship.
Anyway, if he's a bad kisser, train him:
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And you cannot determine the size of a guy's penis by using any method besides looking at it.
Size of hands, feet, whatever. Doesn't matter.
-LM
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Don't ever let other people influence you to do something you don't want to do. all i can really tell you is to follow your heart, and your heart seems to be telling you to stay with him. Who cares how tall or short he is .. what matters is your feelings for eachother, and the truth is, people will always joke about it because they are immature idiots who don't know the first thing about loving someone. Don't let them ruin something potentially good for you. and i bet as much as the jokes are taking a toll on you, they are also taking a toll on your boyfriend, so talk to him about it. and if he's a bad kisser, tell him what you like or what he can do better to improve in that category, guys like feedback :] trust me, if they can do something better, they're gonna wanna know. and uhm, the dick thing ? I think it's different for every guy hahaa, it depends on the genes. but the size of his dick shouldn't matter..
good luck ! hope i helped and keep me updated :] xxo.
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