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Does he care
"Does he Care"
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 11:59 am
Hey everyone!
Well to start off,I am 19 years old and I'm still single.What I mean by "still"single,is that I've never had a boyfriend.And that is not because no one has approached me,its just the simple fact that I want somethin serious and I know what I'm looking for.Well this past december I met this guy at a dance,and he asked me to dance with him.After that night he figured to get my number from my knephew who had gone with me.He called me and he started tellin me that he really wanted to talk to me.He liked how I was...now,i let him know that I didnt want anythin at the time,cuz i was talking to someone else.I left to Mexico for the two weeks of Chirstmas vacations,and at a 15th,my cousin had told me that he had talked to a guy,that apperantly was "IN LOVE" with me.He started talkin about me and about how great i was without havin to know the guy he was talkin too was my cousin.I came back in January and well,things didnt go to well with the other guy i was talkin too.So when i get back to tx,the guy from the dance calls me and while we are chattin he kept insisting about getting to know each other....months passed and I always let him know that I wasnt lookin for anything more but friendship.I had just got out of somethin and i didnt want issues.He would bring me flowers,gave me a ring for valentines day,(i didnt accept)when he didnt even know me as much.Till this day he insists.THE THING IS...he got back from canada(work)and I bumped in to him.He asked me if I was talkin to anyone,and I honestly told him YES.I met this guy at the island and well,I really like him.Now,The guy I like KNOWS i like him,and well I know he likes me too.We hava a mnth talkin...anyways I let him know about Frank(the guy from the dance).I told him that just two days ago he dropped some flowers off at my house even after i told him i was talkin to someone and the only thing he responded was"you do what makes you happy,if you feel happy with him,then GO AHEAD!"
So my question is....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HIM?lol does he not get that the one i like is him and not the guy who has been in back of me for months.????it makes it seem as if he is not even trying or as if he hardly cares....
So wat do you advice me?
Shouldnt it make him try harder knowin another guy is trying their best to win me over?
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Hello???!!! He's trying to get you to MAKE A DECISION! He's respecting your boundaries (you admitted you had another "love interest") and he's trying not to push you. You're the one with the other person, not him. If you want to be with him, you'll have to tell him. If there were no third party involved I would say wait for him to express himself on where things are going, but since you created this whole situation, you need to deal with it. If you want to be with him, let him know, before he takes the hint (the one it LOOKS like you're giving) and leaves.
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you shouldnt be playing games with the guy you like, coz he cant guess that u like him!! you telling him that you talking to someone else will only push him away not try to win your love..be real and truthful to him. You need to tell him that you like him, and that he shouldnt have to feel as if he is in a competition with the other guy...tell him that the person you like is him dont play the guessing games anymore. Its gunah be to late by the time if u dont tell him.
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