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Okay guys or girls, tell me what this means...
Okay, so I really liked this guy. And I totally thought he liked me too. He definitely lead me on. But when my friend asked him if he had any interest in me he simply replied "She's not really what I'm looking for right now." Okay, so I know that's the nice way of putting it. But obviously he meant something else. You can be harsh, that's okay. If you were a guy and you said this, do you really mean it? Or is there another meaning to the words.
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Coming from a guy, that either means:
1. You're not what he's looking for.
2. He's not really wanting a relationship right now.
It could be 1. It could be 2. It could be a combination of both.
Either way, he's not interested in dating you, at least for now.
Sorry.
--Jack
(17/m)
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If a guy told me this, I'd take it as something along the lines of either "I don't want to be in a relationship with you right now." or "You're not the type I'm looking for." I'd probably assume the latter, as that's what it sounds like he's saying to me.
I really don't think there's a hidden meaning encoded in what he said. He was just being honest and telling you the truth.
-Laura (17-f)
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it could mean that he is not into you...you dont fit his catagory of his "idea of a girl" i agree with darby its time to move on..
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I think he probably means that you're not his type. Either your interests aren't compatible or he's just looking for something else, like he said. I doubt there's any deep, twisted meaning behind this. There could be tons of reasons why you're not what he's looking for. I don't know the details of it, so it's hard to know for sure. But examples would be your age, hobbies, looks, personality, ect.. He probably meant what he said though, so it's time to move on to better things (:
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