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Not needed here anymore..??
Hey You Guys.I Really want some real Advice on this one becuase this has to do with my life and Its a very serious matter to me.Let's not begin things on the wrong hand..I love my Life.I feel like its the greatest gift I was ever given.But Sometimes I feel like Im done With it.For example,I sometimes get the feeling that All the exciting things that will ever happen In my life as come and gon.My head Is so full of dreams and I have a heart of gold but I feel like No one understands me..but me.I try so Hard to get in touch with my spiritual side becuase I so badly want to get closer with god and to understand my purpose here.I see everyone that I love Growing And finding their happiness But me..I cant seem to find happiness any where.Not in friends,not in family members,not even in boyfriends.Dont get me wrong..I love my family soooo much.I love my mommy who has been there for me through everything and Iam so gratful for her.Iam thankful for my step dad who had been in my life since i was two who never said no to anything.Im grateful for my big sister who's the most beatiful person I know and who is my biggest role model.Im even grateful for my annoying lil brother.Im gratful for my home and clothes.But most of all..Iam grateful for my best friend that came out the womb with me and that is my twin sister.When i look at her its like im looking into my heart.We have laughed together,cried together and even schemed together.lol.But that's just it..we HAVE..past tense.Everybody I know Has their own lives now.They have jobs and boyfriends and friends that they hang with allllll the time.I feel like Im no longer needed because im not gettin blessed like everyone else.I just wanna know why Im always left out.Im the type of girl who will ride a star if a could.I will always want to take away any pain that my loved ones are feeling If I could.I want nothing more then to take care of the people who have always taken care of me.Iam seveteen years old and thats my story.Somebody,anybody..What do you think I should do? I would love your feedback...thanks.
Sincerely,
confused girl.
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hey, I sorry you are feeling this way.
When I was 16yrs old I felt the same way. i was stuck. like my life had ended its excitement and I had nothing to live for anymore.
Heres what I had to learn. and here is what helped me.
you are only 17. Believe it or not, life isnt really all that exciting for most people at this age. You are busy with school, going home, school, home. over and over. Dont have a job so cant just get up and spend money at a moments notice.
I have always been very spontaneous, and daring. Calling all my friends at a moments notice and creating some sort of trip. Its hard to do when you dont have the funds and parents wont let you.
if you need more excitement in your life, join more clubs or activities. I joined the KEY CLUB in my highschool and it was a community volunteer club where we helped the community and gave back to people in need. it made me feel great and like I had purpose. but there are several clubs you could join!
even getting a part time job at a coffee shop or something can open up lots of fun and exciting things!
dont stress yourself about this too much right now. just realize that you are still young and your life has just slowed down for now. When its time, things will start to get exciting. =]
hope this helps! =]
steph 21
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You are growing up! These feelings are all a part of that. Sounds like this is a great time to do a little thinking and planning. Now is the time to decide which direction you want your life to go in. What is it you are interested in? What do you want to do in your adult life? What experiences do you want to have? Once you make some decisions, then its time to go out and pursue some of your goals. School? Work? Activity clubs? Whatever the path to get you to your goals, its time to start walking on it. You can't sit and wait for happiness and contentment to come your way. Its something you work toward. You do that my making a life for yourself, setting goals and then pursuing them. You will be fine. It sounds like you've been blessed with a lot of love in your life. Now is the time to find out more about yourself and who you are and who you want to be. All the love and support you have will only help you with this journey.
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