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he doesnt txt me no more
14/f & 14/m (he'll be 15 in aug.)
so im going to try to keep this short and sweet.
my boyfriend and i try to see each other weekly but when we cant we txt. But lately he hasn't been txtin very much, towards me only. When this first happened i was so scared we were going to break up again, thenn i saw him later on that day and he showed absolutley no signs of breaking up, only more to love. He was very sweet wen we were togeether, so i thought he would keep txtin: still nothing. So...why doesn't he want to txt with me anymore?
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Why don't you try calling him? TALKING (not texting) on the phone is much more fun. ; ].
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When you are starting out in a new relationship, all you wanna do is talk to that person and be with that person. You pretty much just want to get to know them. But then after you get to know them and you know you have that person you dont really need to text or anything as much because its just too much. You need to learn to go on with your days and not text all day. Maybe a few texts a day and then a a long night phone call. Me and my boyfriend had this problem and we realized that we texted so much before because we were getting to know eachother. Now us texting so much is biting us in the butt. Its interfearing with our jobs and family. We have stopped texting so much and are just fine. =] Talk to him about it ya kno?
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[This was an answer I gave to a similar question, obviously try to adapt it to your situation.]
Just to warn you, I'm not yelling at you only, but all those out there on Advicenators who think that JUST because a guy doesn't text you first, it means he can't POSSIBLY like you.
I don't know what it is that makes people think this. Seriously, sometimes we guys don't feel like starting a conversation because we're not always into talking. Sometimes we are. It really just depends.
And something as little as texting, come on, texting, for goodness sake, shouldn't dictate whether a guy likes you or not. The fact that he talks to you should be good enough, you know?
Since I see texting as the lowest form of communication, other than telegrams and letters, I don't see it as a big deal that he doesn't text you first. Maybe he's just busy and doesn't regularly think: Oh dear, maybe I should text this girl or she might think I'm a jerk.
Guys don't think like that.
So aside from my rant, which has meaning, I think that you should only take offense if he doesn't start the conversation first, if the conversation is IN PERSON, not through text. Like if you clearly make eye contact and he doesn't at least say hello or some type of small-talk, then I would say he doesn't like you as any more than a friend.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I'm going to be honest with you and tell you that you are asking the wrong people.
He is your boyfriend, and as a couple, you should be open and honest with one another. Communication is VERY important in any healthy relationship.
SO.
You need to ask him.
Don't send him a text message and ask.
Don't ask over the phone.
Ask him face to face the very next time you see him.
31/f
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well depending on how long you two have been going outt maybee he just getting used to things so he doesnt talk to you as much because he feels theres no need. maybe he just feels comfortable around you and used to you ( i dont thinkthats a bad thing) but if its bothering you and you feel like theres something wrong thenn ask him about it im sure he wont be meaan or harsh about it.
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