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for guy's..or girls who can read guys well.
okay..this is a really long story..and i'm sorry for such a long question..
okay..so me and this guy are kinda friends that are thrown together..cause our parents are best friends. he's older..but he's got a girlfriend and the last time i heard..maybe about two months ago..maybe more, he was in love with her. she's still in love with him..she plans on having kids with him..i'm not too sure about him though. so anyways..me and him are kinda friends..we text. and he's always really flirty with me..and it seems like he has feelings for me. the things he say..the way he acts..all this. he's always randomly texting me to ask what i'm doing. but he acts different at different times..like some nights he'll be all over me..other nights he's just okay..others he's ignoring me. and this one time we were talking about relationship labels and he said.." well what if me and you had feelings for each other and were in a relationship?" and another times he's always asking me to help and he usually makes sure were alone. and he's always asking to hang out and stuff. and this one time me and him were both sitting outside at night just me and him and he had a good conversation with me. about his girlfriend..he told me that he wasent sure he wanted her to come camping with us, cause she wants to grow up too fast, and he dosent.
so idk really what to think about it anymore..my best friend thinks he likes me..but i dont really know anymore..so what do you guy's think?
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It sounds like he's playing games. If he liked you, he would be consistent. It definitely sounds like he doesn't want to grow up because he's playing games with you and probably his girlfriend too.
Another thing: if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you, he would probably be willing to cheat on you with someone else if/when you become his girlfriend.
So basically what I'm trying to say is if this is the kind of guy I think it is, he runs this game on lots of girls. If you get in a relationship with him [hopefully after he breaks up with the current girlfriend], then he will probably start to text and flirt with someone else. With these kind of guys, the cycle doesn't end until they decide to grow up.
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Sounds like he really likes you. If he ignores you, sometimes it means he's playing hard to get. Guys are afraid to tell a girl he likes them just like girls are. If you really like him, you should tell him you like him. if everything you said in your question is true he will tell you he likes you. sometimes you have to make the first move. good luck :)
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You need to talk to him about it. Find out for sure if he has feelings for you or not. Don't look for 'clues' or anything like that to make you think that he likes you. If he really does, he will most likely be straight forward with you about it. And if he really does have feelings for you, then there must be a reason for why he hasn't said anything to you yet - and it could just be that he was afraid of what you might think or react to it. Anyways, sit him down and have a talk with him about it because it's not fair to you to keep going back and forth like this, especially with him being flirty. Put your foot down about it (unless you don't mind at all). Don't be afraid to talk to him about this, since he also needs to mature about all of this. Hope that helped and good luck.
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