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okay..this is a really long story..and i'm sorry for such a long question..
okay..so me and this guy are kinda friends that are thrown together..cause our parents are best friends. he's older..but he's got a girlfriend and the last time i heard..maybe about two months ago..maybe more, he was in love with her. she's still in love with him..she plans on having kids with him..i'm not too sure about him though. so anyways..me and him are kinda friends..we text. and he's always really flirty with me..and it seems like he has feelings for me. the things he say..the way he acts..all this. he's always randomly texting me to ask what i'm doing. but he acts different at different times..like some nights he'll be all over me..other nights he's just okay..others he's ignoring me. and this one time we were talking about relationship labels and he said.." well what if me and you had feelings for each other and were in a relationship?" and another times he's always asking me to help and he usually makes sure were alone. and he's always asking to hang out and stuff. and this one time me and him were both sitting outside at night just me and him and he had a good conversation with me. about his girlfriend..he told me that he wasent sure he wanted her to come camping with us, cause she wants to grow up too fast, and he dosent.
so idk really what to think about it anymore..my best friend thinks he likes me..but i dont really know anymore..so what do you guy's think?
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It sounds like he's playing games. If he liked you, he would be consistent. It definitely sounds like he doesn't want to grow up because he's playing games with you and probably his girlfriend too.
Another thing: if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you, he would probably be willing to cheat on you with someone else if/when you become his girlfriend.
So basically what I'm trying to say is if this is the kind of guy I think it is, he runs this game on lots of girls. If you get in a relationship with him [hopefully after he breaks up with the current girlfriend], then he will probably start to text and flirt with someone else. With these kind of guys, the cycle doesn't end until they decide to grow up.
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Hi guyz im meg. Im really confused about this guy i really like. His names is kris and ive known and been friends with him for about 3 months. Ive been attracted to him the day i met him but we never said how we felt about eachother until about 6/7 weeks ago. He told me he really likes me && his friends have told me he likes me. Yet 4 some reason im still questioning if he does or not.
Basically we kiss and cuddle when we are together. Sometimes i think yea he likes me and other times i think he doesnt (for example, when hes with his friends he will sometimes ignore me and focus on his friends) Im not the kind of person who wants attention all the time, i love him being with his friends. But sometimes he will be moody with me for no reason, and he does this regularly(usually when hes drunk) Does this mean he doesnt like me as much anymore? Im really confused and its upsetting me bcoz i really like him =( (link)
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It sounds like he doesn't wanna be seen as whipped in front of his friends. If he's crazy about you around everybody but his friends, he doesn't want his friends to see how lovesick he acts around you. You should sit him down and tell him what you wrote here and tell him how his actions affect you. He probably doesn't realize that you feel hurt by his actions, and if he really does care about you, then he'll try to change his actions. Don't expect him to change overnight.
Hope this helps!
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