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Hi guyz im meg. Im really confused about this guy i really like. His names is kris and ive known and been friends with him for about 3 months. Ive been attracted to him the day i met him but we never said how we felt about eachother until about 6/7 weeks ago. He told me he really likes me && his friends have told me he likes me. Yet 4 some reason im still questioning if he does or not.
Basically we kiss and cuddle when we are together. Sometimes i think yea he likes me and other times i think he doesnt (for example, when hes with his friends he will sometimes ignore me and focus on his friends) Im not the kind of person who wants attention all the time, i love him being with his friends. But sometimes he will be moody with me for no reason, and he does this regularly(usually when hes drunk) Does this mean he doesnt like me as much anymore? Im really confused and its upsetting me bcoz i really like him =(
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Tell him how you are feeling. Relationships always have to have balance, like with bf/gf and friends. Say how it really hurts that he ignores you when hes with his friends. See how he reacts. If it goes bad, move on. And if it goes good, than great.
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It sounds like he doesn't wanna be seen as whipped in front of his friends. If he's crazy about you around everybody but his friends, he doesn't want his friends to see how lovesick he acts around you. You should sit him down and tell him what you wrote here and tell him how his actions affect you. He probably doesn't realize that you feel hurt by his actions, and if he really does care about you, then he'll try to change his actions. Don't expect him to change overnight.
Hope this helps!
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