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Player Or for Real?
I have this one friend, he comes off as a player, I guess you can say. He hits on pretty much any girl that comes his way.
But him and me have been good friends for a while. And I think I like him. Yeah. Not a good choice.
But I'm not sure if he likes me back.
He calls me pretty much everyday.
He wants to hang out whenever we can.
He calls me 'sexy'
But when he says 'I love you' I think he just means it, as if we're just friends.
"I'm just kidding, I love you" would be something he would say.
Any advice on what I should do next? Or where I stand?
Thanks =DD
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hmm sounds like me and you have a few simularites in the friend department. Ive got a friend the exact same way. If he's single then its only normal for him to hit on girls, hes free and probably looking. If you calls you sexy and pretty he is obviously attracted to you. If your worried about him being a player think back to when he had a girlfriend last, was he loyal? you see my friend will hit on a whole bunch of girls but when he gets a girl is completely devoted to her. Tell him you like him and see what happens. I know it doesnt seem like a good choice. believe me i know considering i like my friend too. Its gets annoying that he hits on girls all the time but hes loyal like i said. Just think back to that and watch him a little more closly there will be hints if he is a player. If you feel confident you can trust him then go for it :)
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Talk to him and ask him where he stands and how he feels.
If he calls you every day and calls you sexy that has to mean he has some sort of feelings for you. Cause if a guy has a best friend that he doesnt like more than that he would most liekly never call you sexy.
Just make sure that if you guys have something that you talk and make sure that you guys stay friends if it doesnt work out.
Hope i helped =]
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When a guy hits on almost any girl that passes by, it normally means that he is trying to find a girlfriend. Try telling him you like him and if i'm right, he'll want to be your boyfriend.
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Well he is obviously interested in you, and if you like him, well then just go with the flow, but I highly suggest keeping your guard up. Don't expect a perfect relationship, and don't expect him to stop flirting with other girls once he's with you (IF, he ends up with you if he in fact likes you), because chances are it won't happen.
As for him calling you sexy and telling you that he loves you, I would call that friendly flirting, but they're could be deeper meaning behind it. Just take things very very slow physically and you'll see if he's there for the right reasons.
~Maria, 18
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