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Loves me, but doesn't want me.
So I was in this relationship with this guy.
He was perfect, but we ended it.
We barely saw each other.
The day we broke up, he went to his friend's house,
because he was upset.
His friend, who is a girl, confessed her feelings for him, which continued with him asking her out.
They had sex that night, as well.
I don't believe in pre-marital sex,
yet, he does.
very, very much so.
Anyways, we got into another right because
he kept saying how amazing she was compared to me,
and blah blah blah.
So we stopped talking.
On my birthday, he texted me.
And we became friends, again.
We talk on the phone every night, since then.
Later the next day,
his girlfriend broke up with him.
She wanted to be single for the summer.
(What a hoe, right?)
He was pretty upset,
so while we were talking that night,
he was venting.
He told me he loves me, but doesn't want me.
And he doesn't love her, but wants her.
I'm still in love with him, and he knows.
But, What should I do?
I'm so confused.
HELP.
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He is using you and her. He likes her cause of the physical things and you for your personality. You need to tell him that he needs to choose because he cant have both of you. And if he decides that it is you, he has to know that you are not having sex until marriage. If he picks the other girl than he wasnt good enough for you anyway. good luck
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It sounds like he only went to this other girl for sex. That girl used him for sex, which explains her breaking it off immediately when summer started. He likes you for your personality and he likes the other girl for her looks. Personality is more important than looks. He needs to be reminded that you're better for him than the other girl. Start out with that and see where it leads to.
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I'd forget about him if I were you. He isn't sure about what he wants and you can't keep waiting around for him to make up his mind.
And you really shouldn't judge this other girl. If she wants to be single for the summer, why does that make her a hoe or a slut? Lots of people stay single for the summer. There's nothing wrong with meeting new people & seeing where things go. You shouldn't judge just because someone doesn't believe in the same things you do. Not everyone believes in waiting for sex like you do.
But seriously, forget about him. I'm sure you can find someone else that you see a lot more & that believes in the same things you do.
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