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good guy bad guy >advice anyone?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 9:19 pm
I swear it was love at first sight, because ever since the first day I met jason he's the only guy I ever thought about. The problem is we're in a non dating relationship and its his choice! One day I went to see him and ran into a few of his freinds who said he was with this really hot girl and I never said anything to him about it because we're not official. But he knows I care about him more than anything in the world but he will not cave he is not going to have a real relationship with me now and maybe ever. I feel like the girl he can fall back on but he says its not like that. He says that he cares about me and im the only girl he does anything with but he's not ready to commit. Now there is this other guy chris he is my ex and we jus...
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What To Do?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 9:14 pm
Sorry if this may be long, I ramble.
A couple months ago my friend's brother was just kidding around and gave one of his friends my number and told him to talk to me cause I'm cool/funny or something, well his friend actually did. And since then, we've basically texted eachother every day, all day long. The only time we don't tetxt is whenever I'm either working or one of us is hanging with a friend ( sometimes we even text then anyways ).
Well during this couple month span, I've talked to him in person a couple times, but there's always been my friends there with me seeing as I don't drive, so I've never been able to be alone with him. But over the time we've been talking, I'm grown to really like him, we have...
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im sweet like...
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 8:31 pm
so there is this guy we are really close friends. i like him alot, but im scared to tell him. here are some reasons 1. he and his family are really close they tell each other everything and he will tell them i like him and it will be really awkward. also one of his sisters are really protective of him. she dont like girls liking him. i know she cant make him not like me but she is my friend also. also a girl we just met she is sort of our friend likes him. im not really worried about that though. The worst thing he will say is that he dont like me more than a friend but that is still devasting. but he might also like me because i think he used to have a crush on me but it went away. but you never know because he treats all the girls he know...
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What to wear.....
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 6:49 pm
The next time I see my ex boyfriend who I want to get back together with. Any suggestions would be appreciated..Thanks.
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I'm dealing with my own craziness!
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 6:17 pm
I'm a 19/f, and I've been with my boyfriend (also 19) for almost a year. While this isn't my longest relationship (yet), I feel very deeply for him, and I trust him with everything in the world. We've had our share of fights, but we've always been able to work things out. We're talking about starting to save up for an apartment in the future, and we have my parents support, as long as we're ready.
the problem is, that lately ALL I've been thinking about is how badly I want to have a baby with him. I KNOW this is crazy, because I'm still in community college and we're not even talking about marriage yet, but I keep doing research on childcare and newborns. Is this my hormones? Or am i just nuts?
PS- we practice...
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Trying to not be so clingy
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 6:06 pm
I'm getting close to having a new boyfriend after 2 years of being single. With my past boyfriends, the relationship has been very clingy and we spent way too much time together which eventually led to the break ups. I don't know if it was my fault or theirs, but I'm looking for some advice.
I know there aren't specific answers, I just want to hear from your experiences so I can get a good idea of how to go about this.
Appx. how often should you hang out with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Is it necessary to text or call everyday? Is it acceptable for me to hang out one-on-one with my best guy friend while having a boyfriend or vice versa?
Thanks for your advice.
(17/ Female)
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How to be friends after you stop talking ?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 5:41 pm
I recently stoped seriosly talking to a guy , we were very close to going out but diffrences mades us decide that it would be better for us to be friends , i still have strong feelings for him . Should i try to contuine to be his friend or is it not helping me get over him ? I do care for him alot but is it possible to be " just friends ".
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boyfriend problem
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 2:14 pm
I have a boyfriend for 4years and 4months now.. we are deeply in love with each other, and yeas we are old enough to know what love is.. Anyways, lately my boyfriend and I havent really been hanging out or talking to each other much becoz he is always busy, he works and after work he goes straight to his aunt house(which is across the street fum where he works) hes been going there because they been having family problems and want to start going back to church...Anyways, since then we havent really spend time with each other because his always busy with work and his family...I love him so much, and I dont wanna lose him, but when im not with him I get really depressed and stressed out becoz we dont spend time with each other..I dont know ho...
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5 years is long enough
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 12:35 pm
15/f
Okay, so I have had a crush on this guy ever since the 6th grade. Well, infatuated. I'm going to the 11th grade now and I haven't seen him since the 8th. He moved to Arizona in the 10th grade. In 9th grade I decided to forget about him, since I lost all hope. But, this was hard to do because he kept popping up! One of his friends put some pictures of him up on a forum that I happened to stumble upon. I thought of it as a mere coincidence. Then, in May I was in Wal-mart and saw a picture of promise rings that just happened to have our names inscribed in them. I even took a picture of it to make sure I wasn't hallucinating lol. So, after a while, I decided that I would at least tell him how I feel. I know that he liked me back in ...
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Dreams
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 12:26 pm
I had so far two dreams that i was pregnant. What can this mean? As of now i know that im 100% not pregnant. Im just worried about the dream.
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18 year age difference, but is he the one??
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 10:57 am
So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he ...
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He just stopped talking to me!
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 1:36 am
So there's this guy that I was "talking" to for about maybe 4 weeks.I went on vacation for two of them and he talked to me every single day,for the majority of the day on texts.I came back and we were good for maybe like 4 days and then I noticed he was talking to another girl too,but they weren't going out so i figured i maybe still had a chance.
He hangs out with me and my friends a lot and on the 4th or 5th day after I came back and after him hanging around my friends he said that he just wanted to be friends because it would be "awkward" around our friends if we dated.So that kind of made me feel like crap because I'm wondering what I did.He stopped talking to me on texts and IM's but he still calls to hangout...
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I am crying & depressed. Please help me...
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 8:37 pm
so i like this guy verrry verry much and he said he liked me a whole lot. he seemed like the right one for me.. we had so much in common, he sent me the sweetest text messages.. whole package.
earlier today, we were talking and i told him (to be open with him), that i had sexual intercourse with a girl 4 years ago, drunk, disoriented, and "went with it" like drunks do during sex.... and when i told him, he freaked and said it wouldn't work, i am disgusting, i am not good enough.. a few mins later he deleted me off myspace and is ignoring me
i wanted to tell him to prove to him i don't want to hide anything from him.. and i looked past his flaws. but when i mention 1 flaw he dumps me.
wh...
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Help Im confused and hurt
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 8:13 pm
I swear it was love at first sight, because ever since the first day I met jason he's the only guy I ever thought about. The problem is we're in a non dating relationship and its his choice! One day I went to see him and ran into a few of his freinds who said he was with this really hot girl and I never said anything to him about it because we're not official. But he knows I care about him more than anything in the world but he will not cave he is not going to have a real relationship with me now and maybe ever. I feel like the girl he can fall back on but he says its not like that. He says that he cares about me and im the only girl he does anything with but he's not ready to commit. Now there is this other guy chris he is my ex and we jus...
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help!
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:42 pm
theres this guy, but we would only talk online. i feel uncomfortable talking on the phone. know what i mean?
and we never have anything to say.
he asked me out, i said yes.
and it's the summer.
what am i supposed to do!!
help me please!
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sexual activities
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:25 pm
is it considered cheating if i let my ex girlfriend shit and/or piss on my chest?
or sniff and lick their butthole?
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Did he just suddenly stop??
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:18 pm
Okay well I am a 14 year old girl and he is a 15 year old boy (soon to be 16). So we met awhile ago and we always say we want to hang out but we've never gotten around to it... We text all the time and at night we will talk on the phone for like hours. I feel like I really know him and I really like him. But we STILL haven't hung out. I don't get it. He goes to a different school too, so I don't know, it's wierd. Like a week ago he told me that he really liked me and could see himself dating me, and he used to flirt like 24/7 with me. But recently he's been giving one word answers, when I bring up hanging out he's just like "Yeah" and it just seems like he's not interested. I directly asked him "do you still want to hang out?...
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is love not enough??
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:15 pm
my fella walked out on me after 8 months of bliss for his ex whom he has a child with. she cheated on him and he left her then met me. we are both mad about eachother and still are,but he feels he will never for give him self if he doz not give her a 2nd chance for there little girl.he admited he doz not love her and that he is head inlove with me.she only wants him back because she sees him happy wit some one else and her fella dumped her and of course so she can have her socail life back.i no its me he wants. how can i make him see she is using him and he is making a mistake.and saying ''get a life'' or ''move on'' wont help me did any body here go through this b4 ???
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i think i like my best friend
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:06 pm
k my bestfriend and i hang out every day at lunch and for the last week i have bin wanting to kiss him and stuff and im really confused do i talk to him about it or just ignore my fealings??we always have sexual jokes but i dont know if hes not joking. Sam 14 girl
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girls
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 7:06 pm
please give me some tips on getting a girl
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