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please give me some tips on getting a girl
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Well- you can't MAKE someone like you. It has to happen naturally. Sure- you can do nice things for them and hope that they like you more for them- but you shouldn't thrive to make a girl like you. There are plenty of girls out there that will like you for who you are. Here is a list of things you can do to make a girl smile, that I found:
-Tell her she is beautiful (not fine, or sexy)
-Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
-Kiss her on the forehead.
-Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
-When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
-Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
-Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
-Write her notes. (she loves them)
-Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
-Play with her hair.
-Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
-Sit in the park and just talk to her.
-Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
-Let her fall asleep in your arms.
-If she's mad at you, kiss her.
-Give her piggyback rides.
-Bring her flowers
-Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
-Look her in the eyes and smile.
-Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
-Kiss her in the rain.
-If your in love with her, tell her.
If you really want to win a girl over- you need to be confident and always smiling. A shy and timid guy, while somewhat attractive to some girls, will not attract the girls you're looking for. A girl also likes to see success in a guy. She probably won't be attracted to you if you're off smoking pot or drinking alcohol. She will like if you're clean and as successful as you can be at your age.
--Jack
(17/m)
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It really varies from girl to girl. Everybody has different preferences and turn ons and turn offs.
Some girls like athletes, some girls like boys in drama. Some girls like funny, outgoing and social guys, some like quiet shy bookworm guys.
Personally? I'd go for the theater guy over the basketball player, and the bookworm over the socialite. But that's just me ;]
Personality wise, here are my top 5:
1. A good sense of humor.
- A good sense of humor is always beneficial. And not a stupid "that's what she said!" sense of humor, somebody who can genuinely make an original joke. Making a girl laugh is one of the best things you can do in an effort to "win her heart".
2. Intelligence.
-Being smart is good, too. Us girls don't want to talk to somebody who can't count higher than 10, or who doesn't understand what's happening in the world. You don't have to be a total know it all, just smart enough to hold a decent conversation.
3. Nice guys.
- Nice guys DON'T finish last. If you compliment a girl, chances are she won't forget it any time soon. However, if you're mean to a girl, she'll remember for A LOT longer.
4. A good appearance.
- I'm not going to lie and don't think I'm shallow, but looks are all you have to go on for the first few minutes of knowing somebody. So if you're shirts half untucked, your shoes are untied, and your hair is unbrushed and a mess, chances are girls won't be into it.
5. Showing interest/having similar interests.
- I cannot tell you how attractive it is when I'm talking to a guy and he asks my favorite band, and the replies with, "I love The Rocket Summer, too!" Ask questions, and tell her when you like something she likes. If you have a lot in common, your relationship will go a lot farther than if you have nothing in common.
Those, however, are just the things I like but like I said, it's different for different girls. But a good sense of humor and giving a girl compliments are DEFINETE ins.
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First of all, I'm going to say the best way to impress somebody is to be yourself. I know that's it's so cliche, but it's honestly, the best tip I or anybody can give.
I mean, you don't want somebody to start liking you for the way you think THEY want you to act or talk or dress. Why would you want somebody to like you when you're not even being yourself?
Secondly, don't be shy! Just go up and talk to that boy/girl. Confidence is key. Strike up a conversation! Start it with something like, "I see you're wearing a Hit The Lights [or whatever band/sport's team, etc] shirt, are they your favorite?" Or, something like, "So I know we've never talked before, but you seem like a really cool person..."
So be yourself, and show that you're comfortable being just that. Be comfortable in your own skin, and chances are, you'll impress everybody.
-Laura (17-f)
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Number one rule: always be yourself.
because if you act liek someone you're not, they may or may not end up liking the guy you really aren't. so always be true to yourself. with that said, here are some tips :] ...
- make sure you can participate in conversations and have your in put. you NEED to be able to make conversation because it is SO BORING when a guy can't hold a conversation and girls lose interest when that happens.
- making the girl laugh. laughing is the direct way to get to a girls heart haha, being funny makes everything fun and carefree, yuh know ? so crack some jokes when NECESSARY or say something that you know will get her laughing, it will make everything more comfortable :]
- make her smile. if you can get a girl to really smile, she will open up to you and know that you want her to smile, give her a few compliments that you really mean. Don't say something like, oh i like your shoes. if you don't really like her shoes haha. say something meanigful like, "your eyes are really pretty." but only if you mean it, because girls know when you're lying. its easy for us to tell :] haha.
- when talking to her in person, always make eye contact. it shows that you're really concentrated on the conversation going on and she'll love the fact that your eyes are only on her :] haha.
- DO NOT be an e-go maniac, yeah being a little cocky shows your masculinity but if you go over the board with it, she will be turned off. no one likes an incosiderate jerk who is in love with himself more than they are into the girl.
- Dress nicely. don't just look like you walked straight out of bed haha, that's never attractive. look presentable :]
- BE FLIRTY ! its always fun to flirt, us girls love it, and its playful :] fun for us. we love to flirttt. so go along with it but not over the top, just subtly.
anyways, I hope I helped ! good luck and have funn :] xxo.
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Find the right one, that you think may be interested in you and what you like, then of course have the courage to ask for her number. Don't talk about things you know she won't be interested in. Be a sweet gentlemen. Compliment her looks. Call her beautiful. Just compliment her. Say the sweetest things to her, but dont make it cheesy like using pick up lines. Pay for her. Don't get obsessive, and call and text her all day long. But mostly be yourself. No girl likes a phony guy. If you are trying to get the attention of her, try getting a new hairstyle. Grooming yourself, maybe buy some new clothes. Just plain look nice.& also looks aren't everything, try giving other girls a chance too if you are only looking for good looking ones. Before you know it you'll have girls jumpin on you!
Good luck. :)
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be nice, outgoing, sweet, sensitive.
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