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is love not enough??
my fella walked out on me after 8 months of bliss for his ex whom he has a child with. she cheated on him and he left her then met me. we are both mad about eachother and still are,but he feels he will never for give him self if he doz not give her a 2nd chance for there little girl.he admited he doz not love her and that he is head inlove with me.she only wants him back because she sees him happy wit some one else and her fella dumped her and of course so she can have her socail life back.i no its me he wants. how can i make him see she is using him and he is making a mistake.and saying ''get a life'' or ''move on'' wont help me did any body here go through this b4 ???
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I've been there. My fella left me for his ex because she threatened suicide and he also felt he had an obligation to give it antoher try.
Long story short, I said goodbye, though I was devastated. It broke my heart, but wouldn't you know it...I ran into his best friend about a year later and he told me that my fella's ex left him again, this time for another man and she filed divorce. His friend said to me, "He always loved you and I know he would want to get back together again. Why don't you call him, he isn't the same person anymore" Apparently, he was a basket case knowing what he gave up with me and what he ended up with.
I never did go back with him, or even talk to him again and I'm glad I didn't. If he could hurt me the way he did (and he did) then, to me, the relationship couldn't be the same after that.
I did meet another guy that I fell in love with and married. Been married for 15 years next week and he's the best thing that ever happened to me. I didn't have the fireworks I had with the other guy, but, who needs fireworks when you have someone who will stand by you come hell or high water?!
Forget this guy and move on. There are just tooooo many good fish in the sea.
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