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Did he just suddenly stop??
Okay well I am a 14 year old girl and he is a 15 year old boy (soon to be 16). So we met awhile ago and we always say we want to hang out but we've never gotten around to it... We text all the time and at night we will talk on the phone for like hours. I feel like I really know him and I really like him. But we STILL haven't hung out. I don't get it. He goes to a different school too, so I don't know, it's wierd. Like a week ago he told me that he really liked me and could see himself dating me, and he used to flirt like 24/7 with me. But recently he's been giving one word answers, when I bring up hanging out he's just like "Yeah" and it just seems like he's not interested. I directly asked him "do you still want to hang out?". He respnoded with "I want to"... Okay? Like what now? I just don't know how to like make a date I guess?? I don't know, I don't want to be pushy so I don't want to bring it up again, but I feel like he just lost interest. What should I do?
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ok.. well it seems that maybe he has lost interest,maybe because the game feels over to him, he was chasing you, now that your caught, its boring.. maybe try to make him chase you again, dont txt or message him first, if he wants to talk to you, he has to make some effort. Since his one word answers started, have you begun wanting to talk to him more.. scared that he will lose all interest?
if thats the case, then you either need to make him interested again, like making him chase you again, you dont want to come off as the eager and easy to get girl.
Or.. he might have a girlfriend or someone else at his school and feels bad to tell you about it because he knows that you two used to have something going on, he may be trying to lose (ditch) you nicely..
But i dont know him, so im really not sure. Sorry love.. I hope Ive helped..x
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I'm a guy. Coming from experience, the majority of males are terrified of asking a girl they really like on dates. Maybe you should take the lead, he could be shy, He may never ask you if you want to go out. Just ask him if he wants to meet you somewhere.
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