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How do i create a look like this -
http://es.tinypic.com/r/rtkif6/6
but for BROWN eyes? I like the sleepy-eye makeup look,but seldom see it being done on people with brown eyes like myself. I'd reaallly like to know, because I really like this look :P.Though I wouldn't want this look all the time you see, and also wouldn't want to deprive myself of the little sleep I already get to get it :). So, any advice? Pictures of brown eyed girls with this look would also be helpful. Thanks so much and Happy Holidays! (link)
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Look up Kim Kardashian, she has dark eyes and does them smokey and she looks HOT! :)
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15/f
*sigh* sorry if it's long, I'll try to make it brief.
Okay, so last summer the love of my life died. He was the best b/f ever and I knew I wanted to marry him and spend forever and more with him. The thought tragically ended when he was hit by a drunk driver--he didn't even make it too the hospital :'( . Ever since then, I have not been able to have feelings (like a crush) for any guy at my school. I know at least two guys that like me, and they are really great but my mind keeps picking at the things that annoy me about them and I just can't have feelings back.
Well, I haven't had any crush or any feeling at all since September--until now. I'm starting to like one of my guy friends and I think he kind of likes me. The problem is, whenever we get close or make physical contact I feel this terrible guilt. It's like a stabbing pain and I can't get past it. I want to be able to form a relationship but everytime I get close or even think about my friend I feel like I'm commiting murder or something. It's so bad it has come to the point where I burst out crying when he hugged me. I can't control it. I don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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I think that maybe you are just not ready to move on yet.
You cant rush these things as they take time and that can only depending on you.
You have been through a great deal and i admire how strong and well you seem to be handling it, but you need to cut yourself some slack.. if you are starting to like this other guy then thats great because you are beginning to move on, but you are consumed by guilt because you feel you still need to remain faithful to this other guy.. but you cant spend the rest of your life like this, it does have to stop one day, but maybe that day isnt today and maybe that day is tomorrow.. but that day will come when you are ready, and you will know in yourself when you are truly ready to move on, until then, stay strong darling.
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i am 18 years old and pregnant with my second child. I have a two year old. He wont listen to any one. he has slight hearing loss in his right hear and i am having tubes put in. I have been stressed out with being pregnant and the terrible twos. When you put him in time out, weather its a chair or his bedroom he throws a fit screaming crying and just gets back up you yell at him and he just does it again. he gets into everything when you tell him to stop he just acts like he does not hear you. when he gets yelled at he will smack him self in the arm or face? why does he do that? i took him to the phone store with me and we had to stand in line and he just started screaming and yelling throwing him self on the flooor. (link)
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he is a 2 year old.. what can you expect? They are all like that but will grow out of it with the right dicipline, which isnt yelling. When he is getting into things, just speak firmly and show your authority. Yelling at him is teaching him that its ok to yell and scream when your annoyed or dont get your own way.
and the naughty corner probably wont work until he is at least 3 or 4, 2 is still such a young age. be patient. :)
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Ok well im 17 and my girlfriend was 15. She broke up with me because she's to scared to lose me. She said when were together she feels like nothing can go wrong. But we don't get to see eachother as much as we want to and she starts missing me. She thinks alot and it always ends up ending what we have (its happened before). I love her but she says she wont be able to handle it when i leave for college. Which is only a couple of miles away, but we wont be seeing eachother at school. I tried to convince her that everything would be alright but she wont trust me. She said she wants to be friends so nothing will go wrong and she wont have to worry.
We see things very differently. She wants to be close friends and i dont. I see it as im looking at someone who i care about more then a friend but cant have. And she sees it as someone that she had a good relationship with.
I dont know what we are or what we are going to be. But i want us to be together, i want her to trust me. But i dont think thats going to happen. I dont know if this would change anything but she said that she's unhappy that i dont talk to her family alot.
My question is what do you think about this? What do you recommend that i do? And how is she feeling?
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Well as you pointed out she is doubting your relationship.
I think she is trying to get out of it before she is to far in, she is doing it to prevent herself from getting hurt.
She thinks that if you stay together she will start liking you more and more, so that when you leave, it will only be worse for her, and you cant blame her for thinking you will get with someone else, you have seen the movies havnt you? Girl likes boy, boy goes off to college and starts sleeping with every girl he sees, girl finds out and dumps his ass over the summer (quote from american pie beta house haha)
I hope i have made sense.. if you have any questions just ask me :)
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--- In answer to your other question that you left me, If she comes back again then she obviously feels at the time that she would rather be with you even if she doubts you, then not at all. But she cant keep doing that and walking all over you because that is not fair so you have to sort let her know that she cant keep playing you that way just because she can't make up her own mind.
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16/f
me and my boyfrend have been dating for a year but have been close since 8th grade. we are in 11th grade now. he has been depressed since 5th grade, he has been hearing voices since 8th grade and in 9th grade he stopped trusting everyone and didnt talk to anyone but me. which is weird because he is a very popular guy. captain of the football team, class clown, theatre, lax, and an all A student. in 10th grade things got weird when he started having anger problems and the worst mood swings. the bad part was that he didnt remember some of the things he did or said during these mood swings. it was like it wasnt him living the mood swings... it was someone else. or another part of him. its always been hard but lately we got in a long distance relationship when he moved. now we are 9 hours away from eachother by plane and our parents wont let us see eachother. a week ago, he had been telling me he couldnt handle anymore of this not seeing me and that he needed to be with me so bad. wel this week i told him i was coming to visit next week and he said im not so sure about that. i said why? he said because of my mental state. i know he had been alot downer than usual and had had a mental breakdown a few days before but i didnt think it would stop him from seeing me. i am understanding of his mood swings so i just said ok and left it at that. he said that the reason he didnt want me to come was because he had been having vivid dreams of killing me. the part that really freaked me out was when he said that after he killed me, he felt happy like a lifelong dream had been accomplished. i know that at times he despises me yet loves me at the same time. its hard to explain but this is why i think hes schitzophrenic. there are 2 parts of him. 1 part is the loving guy i know who would do anything for me and tells me he wants to be with me forever and thanks me for putting up with him and all his problems. the other part is the guy who has a deep hatred and jealousy of me. but even wen he is the 2nd part, he still calls to make sure im ok and still tells me he loves me. even though he hates me. he tells me all the time that i need to find a better guy because i am worth so much more than a guy with so many moodswings who acts like such an asshole. he doesnt understand that i love him more than anything and he is skeptical of what i want from him. i dont know how to get through to him that i love him more than anything and just want to be with him. he calls me a teenager and says i dont know what i want. even though he is younger than me.... haha he is very mature though. but anywho, i feel like im dating 2 different people. i hate the asshole side that wants me to die at times and is cynical and dark and doesnt trust me that i love him unconditionally. but i stick around because i love the sweet side of him whos my best friend and is there through anything no matter if hes in a mood swing or whatever. we both know that we love eachother more than anything and have a much deeper connection than 16 year olds are supposed to get. but i dont know if thats enough to help him and save our relationship. he needs help real bad and im really scared for him. he wants to be a marine because in society he cant deal with everyone. he refuses to see a psychiatrist or get medicated but i know thats the only thing that will help him. please help. he went from being the most popular guy in school to the most antisocial guy who just wants to write depressing songs and play piano all day. its really sad. im only 16 and this is so hard to handle. i love this boy so much and i cant imagine what hes going through. he wants to die so badly and i almost want him to die too so he can escape this world that hes not meant for. but id miss him too much so thats why im here. please help me save him (link)
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He needs help.. no matter how much he denies or doesnt want to go, he needs to find a phycologist before he hurts you or himself. It sounds like he does have schitzophrenia and if he does then you cant leave him untreated. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, hurt him to save him. Somehow MAKE him see a phycologist, i dont know how but it needs to happen now!
What have his parents said to you? I think you should call them and explain the whole situation, or even just show them what you have written to us, so they can also help you to help him.
I hope everything works out for the two of you :(
xoxox
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K, so sometimes I just feel invisible. I feel like people don't notice me and it makes me feel bad. I don't have a boyfriend and haven't had one in like 2 years and people always forget what my name is. Sure, I'm not the loudest person ever but it's not like I sit in a corner and don't talk to anyone. I don't get it, I mean people always tell me I'm pretty and nice, etc. but it always seems like when I get along really well with a guy and I think things arer gonna work out, he goes out with one of my friends, even if we talk more and get along better. I'm just wondering: what can I do to make guys and other people notice me ? I always feel so left out when my friends are all talking about their boyfriends and guys that like them, and I'm just like, "Um, yeah." I'm sick of it. So, yeah, any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks. (link)
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Quiet people are really easy to ignore, its not usually on purpose because I myself even forget that the quiet people are even there.. just try add more to conversations, laugh, smile and talk.
Think of a friend who is outgoing and is well liked, and (copy) her a bit.. not her clothes or her hair, but just how she acts if you know what I mean.. kind of hard to explain.. but what I mean is that if you are shy but want a way to be noticed you sometimes have to act as someone for a while, only until your happy with the level of attention.. by then you should be comfortable to keep talking and being outgoing, and also being you.
But make sure, when you begin getting closer to people, that you dont become to clingy, i once felt sorry for a shy girl in my class so i began talking to her, trying to boost her self-esteem.. she then would always be following me, texting/calling and eventually began to really get on my nerves.. make sure you know where you stand before assuming you are close with someone.
I hope I have helped you love. x
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My best friend Erin is getting on my nerves. Sometimes I just want to kill her or at least smack her. She is moving at the end of summer but I dont think I can hold my anger in anymore. Please help my with me problem. Thankyou!!!!!! (link)
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just put up with her.. she will be gone soon so you wont have to worry about her anymore.. and you cant go around hitting people because they piss you off.. seriously.
whenever she annoys you, just remind yourself that she is leaving soon, just smile. you dont have to say anything back.. also if you really cant stand her, dont hang around her as much, if she invites you somewhere, you can say no, you know.. haha
Stay calm love. x
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17/F... Well me and my bf (19) have only been dating like 3-4 months and things are great. we get along and we always have fun together. I'm the second girl he's has ever dated and the only one he has had sex with. He doesn't really like to share how he feels about me or other things that often(but what guy does). So anyway the problem is that im a junior and he's graduating this year. The college he wants to go to is in chicago for two years. And we live in kentucky. He wants me to try to stay together but the only time I will ever get to see him is when I get my breaks at my school and stuff because he goes all year to school and they hardly ever get out. Should I take the risk if that he wont find someone else in chicago? (link)
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Well either you break up now, and have the memory of a good time but wondering if it could have worked or if he did find someone else...or stay together, always waiting for him to find someone else.. these kind of decisions can't be made by me or anyone else because we dont know the realtionship you to have together.. I think you and your boyfriend really need to talk about it.
Sorry I couldnt be of more help. x
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ok im a 14 year old girl.
and i like this boy at my skool.
he's in 10th.and we exchanged numbers and all.and he say he like me but when i ask him a serious question,thru a text,he doesnt text back or he jus dont text back at all.and then when we are texting it seems like im the only one trying to make conversation.then when i ask him when can we hang out he doesnt text back.but then i ask him does he really like me and he says yea ur koo.then he askes me about all this other unorthodox stuff that has nothing to do with what i want to know.But my question is>>>HOW COME WE EXCHANGED NUMBERS AND WE SAY WE LIKE ONE ANOTHER,HOW COME WE DONT HANG OUT OR HOW COME WHEN I ASK HIM A SERIOUS QUESTION THRU A TEXT,HE DOES'NT ANSWER MY TEXT BACK? please answer this question im in dier need of the answer to this.. (link)
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maybe he just changed his mind..
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Hello,
My good friend's grandmother has just passed away and she seems to be taking it quite hard, she cried a lot, too. Just a while ago, I came to her house and attempted to comfort her, but then I ended up sit down for almost two hours listening to her while she told me stories about her and her grandmother while she was still alive.
I am not a very good comforter so I didn't talk much then, not to mention that I know little about her grandmother. I just sat there and listen and occasionally say one or two sentences. I feel kind of . . . useless and awkward.
So do you have any advice as to what to say or what to give her to cheer her up? It's kind of awkward to just listen the entire time, you see.
Thanks,
P.S. Please don't tell me to put myself in her shoe to know how she feel like the other columnist did. I can't! Even when my grandparents died, I felt a bit sad, but not for long. Because it is inevitable that when you get old, you die. I just take die-of-old-age as part of life. (link)
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well i guess all you can really do is listen. Yeah it will be akward, but letting her talk and let it out is probably the best thing for her right now, she will cheer up in her own time but until then, just try be as supportive as possible, and it already seems like you are doing that. you must be a good friend :)
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I was in a very, very close relationship with a guy last summer. We were in a committed relationship for five months. I was 18, now I'm 19. He was 20, now he's 21. It was our both first real relationship. It seemed perfect.
Anyways, he broke up with me in August. It seemed out of the blue. I cried a lot and was very depressed. In September, we got together because I hoped that we could start a relationship again. He ended up using me for sex and then ignored me. This happened again in late October because I still missed him. So he used me twice, basically.
Then in late December, he contacted me again. This time, I told him that I wanted friendship or a relationship and nothing in between. Of course, he stopped talking to me. Then I moved on.
Last week (June 13), he texted me. He said he beats himself up every day for messing up our relationship. He said he misses me. I told him that I'm still not interested in hooking up. He said he doesn't want that: he wants another chance. So we met up in person. I told him that I don't trust him at all, and that if I do give him another chance, there won't be any sex for a looong time. He said that that is fine, because he just wants to be in a relationship with me again. He said he wants to take it slow and not jump into a relationship, but ease back into it. He said he wishes he could do anything to get my trust back.
What do I do? Please help me. I want to give him another chance because I really had feelings for him, but I can't get hurt by him again, and I'm not sure if I've moved on completely. (link)
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If you keep going back to the same guy, you might never move on and find someone else.. you had your chance with this guy and if you really wanted to get back with him you would know that and wouldnt be questioning it.
But i dont know your full history so i cant be sure, but sometimes you have to do what is best for you.
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hey does anyone know the name of the song that goes don don ( sound effects lol) your microwave oven ..............colored tv... its like a old rock song thanks (link)
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dont know.. but if you ever have lyrics to a song you dont know, just type into google (eg: your microwave oven colored tv lyrics) and it usually comes up, if not just search a little more :)
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So me and this girl have been talking online a lot lately and texting, and I really like her. I'm getting some signals that she may like me back, although I'm not exactly sure. She's gone for the summer but she'll be back in about a month. Anyway, I'm kind of shy, which is why I prefer texting and chat, but people say I should call her. Do you think I should call her? What kind of stuff should I say? Does it matter if its really short or will that make her mad? (link)
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Call her! Girls love getting phone calls, makes us feel special haha, and she isnt going to get mad at you if conversation doesnt flow.
If it starts getting akward just make some excuse that you have to go but will text her later.. but make sure you do text her.
Also, if you tell her you are going to call, you can't chicken out and not call because then she will get the idea that you are unreliable and have no time for her.
I hope at least one of us has helped someway or another :) xx
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okay. im a 7th grader. and all the 7th grade guys are basicly complete assholes. and i just like as friends. i met some 6th graders. and there really nice and cute and pretty cool. this one likes me and i wanna go out with him. but hes in 6th grade and all the 7th grade guys are now always like "omg hes a fag he tries to be cool" and stuff. idk what to do! (link)
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if they are assholes why do you care what they say??
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13/m sorry its so long
ok so i like having my hair down to my shoulders and i always grow it to about there but apparently it looks like a mushroom (how i dont know) to all my friends and they like always comment about it and its really annoying.
so what do people recommend for a haircut for a 13 yr old boy with curly(not really curly but like little ringlet kind of things at the back but not really the front) and hair that always puffs out but i use this tre'semme hair stuff in my hair to make it less frizzy or something and i have a kinda wide nose so if theres anything that goes with that oh and ive got tan-ish skin
thanks btw ive never really had short hair cause it makes my nose look wider haha and people tease me for it sometimes haha well i think that it makes it look wider
and if its possible can u stick the url or something of a photo of what you are talking about
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Go to the hairdresser and just ask them to thin it? or layer the top bit.. or just go in and tell them what you just told us and ask them to help you fix it.. they are professionals, they should know what your talking about and how to do it :)
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Okay well I am a 14 year old girl and he is a 15 year old boy (soon to be 16). So we met awhile ago and we always say we want to hang out but we've never gotten around to it... We text all the time and at night we will talk on the phone for like hours. I feel like I really know him and I really like him. But we STILL haven't hung out. I don't get it. He goes to a different school too, so I don't know, it's wierd. Like a week ago he told me that he really liked me and could see himself dating me, and he used to flirt like 24/7 with me. But recently he's been giving one word answers, when I bring up hanging out he's just like "Yeah" and it just seems like he's not interested. I directly asked him "do you still want to hang out?". He respnoded with "I want to"... Okay? Like what now? I just don't know how to like make a date I guess?? I don't know, I don't want to be pushy so I don't want to bring it up again, but I feel like he just lost interest. What should I do?
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ok.. well it seems that maybe he has lost interest,maybe because the game feels over to him, he was chasing you, now that your caught, its boring.. maybe try to make him chase you again, dont txt or message him first, if he wants to talk to you, he has to make some effort. Since his one word answers started, have you begun wanting to talk to him more.. scared that he will lose all interest?
if thats the case, then you either need to make him interested again, like making him chase you again, you dont want to come off as the eager and easy to get girl.
Or.. he might have a girlfriend or someone else at his school and feels bad to tell you about it because he knows that you two used to have something going on, he may be trying to lose (ditch) you nicely..
But i dont know him, so im really not sure. Sorry love.. I hope Ive helped..x
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