Member Since: July 20, 2009 Answers: 12 Last Update: July 23, 2009 Visitors: 953
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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
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God? Why does God still have you alive. It's not a ridiculose question. Alot of people ask that question everyday. I'd say that if you believe it is god that still has you alive on this earth, that you have a meaning to be alive... You just haven't gotten there yet. Give it sometime. You're only 18/19. You'll find your way.. My friend say though if you need someone to talk to his Myspace is myspace.com/suffeering_soul
He says he's going through the same problems you are. o.o
But anyways, maybe it's time for you to get your own life, move out of your parents house, and never let what other people think about you effect you, if they can't take the time to get to know you themselves, fuck them!
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is there a way that you can like be more funny and outgoing with your friends even if you are in like a bad mood? i can be REALLY funny and outgoing when i want to and if im with people that im not nervous around. but lets say im with people that i want to be friends with, it doesnt seem like anything funny comes up that i can do or say like there does when i am with people i dont care about. i know this is weird and kind of like stupid. but i dont think my best friend even has that much fun with me anymore because she is one of the people i care about, meaning sometimes i cant act that funny and outgoing. because you know if you like try really hard to, its just to forced. thanks and sorry this is so long. (link)
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Seriously, I'd have to say you just have to continue to be yourself around people. You have to be yourself, and if you're funny it'll come. Other wise.. no.. You can't force funniness.. It probable feel to weird.
Got to learn to forget who people are and just mes around and be silly. if they don't like you the way that you are, oh well. Lol.
Good Luck
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is 6inches long for a penis (link)
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Not really six to seven inches is actually the normal size for a males penis.
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what does it mean to give head ? (link)
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To give head? A blow job? To insert the penis into a female or males (Depending on sexuality) mouth, and suck, and to bob your head up and down which means to take the penis into your mouth. Sucking licking.. etc..
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My gf and i are thinking about having sex both our first time both 16 im really nervous ive got a small penis and my gf did reassure me that she ok with my size i may be worrying to much but i afraid i wont be any good or i wont satisfy her
can you still please a girl with a small penis? (link)
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Size doesn't normally matter, it's how you use it. You can still pleasure her and have a good time. Just don't get to serious to fast, and have fun.. You can also go down on her which deals with fingering, and playing and sucking on the clit... You just have to learn to experience...
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what should i do if my parents get me really mad and start yelling at me for nuttin? my parents think that my lil sister is more respondisble cuz she lies and she gets away wit everything and i tend to cut my uppper arm and that but i dont know wat i should do instead of cutting my upper arm can u tell me wat i should do?
sincerly
confuse girl in OHIO (link)
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Find another way to release stress? Maybe work out, run, go boxing. Let anger out another way, no reason to cut up ur body, it just leaves scars, that are normally meaningless.. No offence. Just try to find another way to realse stress.. o.O
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Well I have only kown him for 3-6 months.I am in 8th grade,and so is he.Im a female and I am 14 he is 15. He used to be in my science class and we used to talk all the time in there and then he was like im moving and did this pouty face thing and I was like WHAT!
Then he was like I have science a different hour.
And now the only time we talk is at the end of the day because he walks home and I ride the bus. So he walks me to the doors and we only get to talk for like 3 mins.
I think he likes me but im really unsure.
Like my friend Morgan said that she saw him watch me walk away, like his head and all till I looked his way then he turned. I didnt notice though.
He gave me his number before break and told me to keep in touch. So I did, I called him but we only talked for like 5 mins. He was at a friends and he said he was running out of minutes and that he would call me back but he didn't. Does that mean he dosen't like me?
Tghen when he is around his friends he is different I know he notice me but he just won't say anything
Im so confussed.
Help me please!!!! (link)
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He's a guy! Of course you're confusied.
Sounds like to me he likes you though, most deffently. I'd suggest not worrying about the him not calling back, maybe he ran out of minutes.. Or something came up or he forgot. He's a male, men for get soo much more then women do. We always worry when a man doesn't call back, it's normal.
Just call him again, and be like really random and try to sound spunky, and ask him if he'd like to get together soon, and maybe go see a movie, or go to the park.. or just hang out at the mall.. Do something fun, you both may enjoy. You have to make a move to make anything of this you and him.
Goood luck!
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Okay so. theres my best friend ever. i can tell her everything AND anything. she gets mad easily and i apparently learned this the hard way. earlier today she got mad at me cause i copied her. and im not gonna lied i DO try to be like her. ONLY cause i look up to her. shes everything i want to be. and then she blocked me on aim. and took me out of her profile. and that doesnt bother me. but now she deleted me as a friend. and i dont have the courage to call her cause trust me. she WILL yell at me hardcore. but anyways. we are best friends and she normally isnt this harsh. and i cant stand it. so please help me.
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desprate (link)
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You could call to move the process along.. Let her get her yelling out, and then explain to her calmy why it happened, and that you love her as your bestfriend, and how you feel... aka looking up to her, and wanting to be somewhat like her. tell her you'll try not to copy her anymore.. and then you know just ask her to add yah back as afriend..
Now other wise... if you don't want to call you could wait it out.. Maybe she'll come to her sence and add yah back, and unblock u from aim..
It's up to you, these are two things I'd do in a case like this.
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This is my story:I have this guy friend who i've known for 3 years but we used to hate each other before we made out and well the other night he came over to my friends house and he brought a friend too and well him and my friend were kinda hooking up but he kissed me and we werer really wasted so i didn't know what i was doing and the next thing i moticed was the lights were out and i was dry humping with him.... does that make me a slut and could i get pregnate from that???? (link)
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You're not a slut because you we're dry humping a guy, and no you can not get pregnante from that.
If you we're a slut, you'd be sleeping with an entire football team. So until then you are not a slut.
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well...my boyfriend. i've given him many many many chances and recently he told me that he got drunk and almost had sex with a girl but stopped bc of me. i dont know wat to do. i would die if i dumped him i really really like him too much. what should i do about him?? ♥ thankks youu (link)
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"Almost Had Sex with another Chick" Hmm..
To be honest, I'd dump him the next time he messes up. You don't need him, because I'm pretty sure you can probable do 10 times better then him. You could probable fine a guy, who won't get drunk and "almost sex another girl". You can't keep running away from something you're so attatched too, so you'll need to get unattached. He's not worth suffering over. Why do you want to feel hurt everytime he tells you "I almost had sex with another chick?"
Stop giving him chance! He needs dumped, maybe he'll straighten up and come back.. But don't let him step all over you.
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My friend likes this guy I used to sit by.And i really really like him. And me and the boy dont talk to each other much unless were with other people.but he looks at me and then when I look at him he looks away. we flirt when we talk because I cant stop laughing but some times I wonder dose my smile look good do I have bad breath or do i look pretty this second or something Like that and I cant tell if he likes me and if he dose well my friend get mad. And if He likes me well he make a move!! Because Im moving to florida During 6grade and I bummed that I might not ever see him again. When I told him he looked kinda sad and kinda happy because were hangging out that night with my other friend and another boy. Well Im just trying to make my moms deam come true livivg on or by the beach in florida. But my friend says she dosent like him anymore and then she says just a little.I hate her sometimes. and when we sat together she told us to stop flirting.I felt like smacking her but Im not that kinda person.
from: Miss in love (link)
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Awhh Boys...
You're moving to flordia soon, yet still you wish to make a move to remember forever on this one boy, but your friend stands in the way of that. You're unsure if you make a move if it will hurt her or if she'll even care... You could just ask her? If she's a good enuff friend, she'll understand quite well. He probable likes you, he's probable just unsure of how to handle everything.
You should ask'em to hang out again if you like him. It'll be fun maybe...
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hey, i am sixteen and i have dated a guy for 1 year and i absolutley love him..we did so much fun stuff together and we would mail eachother letters and pictures and everything else.. i broke up with him a few weeks ago.. and i realize i love him.. i can't get him off of my mind.. he is all i think about.. and now my best freind is gonna go out with him.. i was so pissed off at her.. she wonders why i am so mad and tells me to get over it.. i still love him.. we were suppose to get back together, but she came along and she ruined it all..she told me it was an accident and she dindt mean it, bullshit.. he told me he still loved me too... then i asked him if he wanted to go back out and he said fuck no.. then he called me a physcho bitch only b/c i was upset that they were gonna go out..i mean a few weeks ago he loved me.. i never felt like this before in a relationship.. we were commited to eachother.. and some best friend she is huh? what am i suppose to do? WE BROKE UP BECAUSE..i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..b/c i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off,i just feel so bad and upset and depressed... i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. well thanks alot... hope you can help me!!!!! jennifer, upset in pa (link)
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Hey Jennifer upset in Pa.
I've been there, actually through growing up .. My best female friend dated like at least 50% of the guys I dated. Just after me. During my time of growing up though, I've always forgiven my bestfriend, and still to this day I would, and will. I love her to death. MEn are just men, there are millions of them.
You should just say fuck it, and be his friend. Do stay friends with some of your ex's? If you do, just be his friend, and be her friend.. But if you want to get even, flirt with him alot.. Stand in the middle of there relationship if they get together. You just have to choose to fuck with'em or join'em.. Or just fuck'em both. You know? You have to decide where you want to stand, and then take charge.
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