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best friends for never?
Okay so. theres my best friend ever. i can tell her everything AND anything. she gets mad easily and i apparently learned this the hard way. earlier today she got mad at me cause i copied her. and im not gonna lied i DO try to be like her. ONLY cause i look up to her. shes everything i want to be. and then she blocked me on aim. and took me out of her profile. and that doesnt bother me. but now she deleted me as a friend. and i dont have the courage to call her cause trust me. she WILL yell at me hardcore. but anyways. we are best friends and she normally isnt this harsh. and i cant stand it. so please help me.
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Alright, in my opinion, I can understand where your friend is coming from. I had a "best friend" who was kinda like you, she copied me, did everything i did, and one time she said to me, "how can I be like YOU." See, that got me really weirded out and pissed. Like, sometimes, people can't deal with clingyness, they just don't like it, I'm one of those "non-liking clingyness" people haha, and so is your friend.
You should definetly give her some space right now, because if she's that heated and blocked you on aim and removed you as a friend, trying to banish you from her life, then she's trying to make a point that she's most definetly not dealing with you trying to be like her. It's nice that you look up to her, but if someone was trying to be liek YOU and did everything you did and dressed like you, you'd be pretty unhappy also. So try talking to her about it in a week or so, let her cool off at the moment. Talking to her right away isn't going to help the situation, it will probably make it worse. So as of right now, try to be yourself. Don't dress like her, or talk like her, or anything like that, show her that you are your own person and she'll respect you for that. The worst thing you could do is repeatedly ask her to not be mad at you and act "desperate" to be her friend again, because that will just piss her off even more. [trust me hahaa]
Good luck, and things will work out in the end, I promise :] you seem like a really chill person, so don't sweat it. hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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You could call to move the process along.. Let her get her yelling out, and then explain to her calmy why it happened, and that you love her as your bestfriend, and how you feel... aka looking up to her, and wanting to be somewhat like her. tell her you'll try not to copy her anymore.. and then you know just ask her to add yah back as afriend..
Now other wise... if you don't want to call you could wait it out.. Maybe she'll come to her sence and add yah back, and unblock u from aim..
It's up to you, these are two things I'd do in a case like this.
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