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what should i do if my family gets me really mad?


Question Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 5:57 am

what should i do if my parents get me really mad and start yelling at me for nuttin? my parents think that my lil sister is more respondisble cuz she lies and she gets away wit everything and i tend to cut my uppper arm and that but i dont know wat i should do instead of cutting my upper arm can u tell me wat i should do?
sincerly

confuse girl in OHIO


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LOL_x0x answered Saturday July 25 2009, 6:33 pm:
Talk to somebody. Talk to a friend, a family member, a school counselor, somebody.


Don't hold it all in because that will only make things worse. If you have nobody to talk to, start a journal. Write down how you feel and what's going through your head. It's much better to let everything out rather than holding it in and cutting yourself. Cutting yourself is NOT the answer.


-Laura (17-f)

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pseudophun answered Wednesday July 22 2009, 7:23 pm:
Don't bottle up how their yelling at you is making you feel. Tell them, or tell your school counselor.

Instead of cutting yourself wear a rubberband. Snap it until you feel better (your wrist turns this awful purple color until you learn to cope with life better and snap less).

Your parents think that you're being an immature idiot for cutting yourself, which is why they think your little sis is more responsible. Don't worry about your little sis. She'll get hers soon enough. Worry about your parents take you more seriously. Worry about stopping the cutting (or no one will take you seriously).

As an excutter, know I say this following statement knowing about what you're going through.

Cutting yourself is stupid because all it does is make people take you even less seriously than they would if you weren't mutilating yourself. The rubberband thing works, but you should talk to your school counselor, or a professional shrink. They won't lock you up, I promise.

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mint2b answered Wednesday July 22 2009, 1:18 pm:
Find another way to release stress? Maybe work out, run, go boxing. Let anger out another way, no reason to cut up ur body, it just leaves scars, that are normally meaningless.. No offence. Just try to find another way to realse stress.. o.O

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