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gawsh help me out!
well...my boyfriend. i've given him many many many chances and recently he told me that he got drunk and almost had sex with a girl but stopped bc of me. i dont know wat to do. i would die if i dumped him i really really like him too much. what should i do about him?? ♥ thankks youu
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He got drunk, and almost had sex with another girl. I don't care if he stopped before he went full on. He still did stuff leading up to it and is using alcohol as an excuse.
Dump him. You're probably young, and you can do much better. You shouldn't want an asshole for a boyfriend. You deserve better and should want better for yourself when it comes to guys.
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You need to break up with him. Yeah, it will suck for a while and you'll miss him. But anyone who's willing to almost have sex with a girl just cos they're drunk doesn't really care about they're gf all that much. It's good that he stopped for you, I guess? But if he really cared about you, he wouldn't put himself in the position to have to stop for you. He wouldn't have even started for you. I'm guessing this isn't the only problem you've had with him either because you've said that you've given him tons of chances.
If you keep giving him chances, he's going to think that he can do whatever he wants and you'll just give him more chances. I mean, really, it sounds like he just wants to start a fight with you or something. It seems like he wouldn't even bring that up if he hadn't done anything with the girl. And what does it mean to 'almost have sex with someone'? Does that mean they were close to being in the act and they stopped, or they were halfway in the act and they stopped, or they were taking their clothes off and they stopped or does it mean they didn't do anything at all?
Either way, you're probably setting yourself up to be hurt if you're constantly having to give him more and more chances. Save yourself the major heartache and take a break from this guy for a while. At least talk to him and tell him that you're not going to give him any more chances. Tell him that if there's one more incident like this, you'll be breaking up with him.
Good luck,
Darby
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"Almost Had Sex with another Chick" Hmm..
To be honest, I'd dump him the next time he messes up. You don't need him, because I'm pretty sure you can probable do 10 times better then him. You could probable fine a guy, who won't get drunk and "almost sex another girl". You can't keep running away from something you're so attatched too, so you'll need to get unattached. He's not worth suffering over. Why do you want to feel hurt everytime he tells you "I almost had sex with another chick?"
Stop giving him chance! He needs dumped, maybe he'll straighten up and come back.. But don't let him step all over you.
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