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Should I call her?
So me and this girl have been talking online a lot lately and texting, and I really like her. I'm getting some signals that she may like me back, although I'm not exactly sure. She's gone for the summer but she'll be back in about a month. Anyway, I'm kind of shy, which is why I prefer texting and chat, but people say I should call her. Do you think I should call her? What kind of stuff should I say? Does it matter if its really short or will that make her mad?
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Call her! Girls love getting phone calls, makes us feel special haha, and she isnt going to get mad at you if conversation doesnt flow.
If it starts getting akward just make some excuse that you have to go but will text her later.. but make sure you do text her.
Also, if you tell her you are going to call, you can't chicken out and not call because then she will get the idea that you are unreliable and have no time for her.
I hope at least one of us has helped someway or another :) xx
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Yes! if you guys chat and text alot whats the difference between talking on the phone other than you get to hear her voice. I know as a girl that we hate to call the guy because we figure if they wanted to talk to us they would call us. so to show her that you care you should call her
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As for your specific situation, I think you should call her. It will show that you're confident and (obviously) that you're interested in her.
Besides, what have you got to lose? Just go for it and take a chance. Life's too short not to. And who knows, it could turn out to be the best decision you've ever made! :)
-Laura (17-f)
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Its always good to be aggressive , atleast try if it messes up what yall got going it will be in the same postion you are now . And you will see if she really dose like you , dont wait around remember your the guy take the lead .
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You should definately call her, that will "light the flame" haha and send her the signal that you like her too, and it will reassure both of you. You can just call her as friends if you are shy, ask her how her summer is going, ask her about where she has gone, where she is staying, if she met any friends, how long she is staying for, and if all goes well and the vibe is good, finish off the convo with "well maybe when you get back we could hang out?" or something like that. then you will both probably start texting alot, and looking forward to seeing each other.
Good luck!!!
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I think you should call her. One day when you guys are texting or talking online be like can i call you later. Most likley she'll say yes. & then comes the hard part. Ask her whats up, how is life, just talk about what you guys normally talk about in text. The worst thing is an awkward conversation where no one is talking. Ask her things about herself. Get to know her more.Maybe even get the courage to ask her out. & if its your first call, I think it shouldnt be really short. Make it at least 20 mins. & it all depends on the girl if she would get mad at that,but most likley again, she wouldnt.Good luck though. :)
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