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Friend or Boyfriend?
15/F
i've like this guy for a while, since we just started being friends. Since then, we've become much closer friends. Although he is my guy best frien, i've developed strong feelings for him. A few of my other friends say he most likely has feelings for me to, but i don't know whether to believe it or not.Part of me thinks he likes me, but the other part questions that if he liked me, wouldn't he have said or done something about it by now? Should i tell him how i feel in chance that we may have a relationshio together, or should i remain silent, hoping my feelings will blow over and keep our valued friendship? Please help. Thank You :)
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Now, you like him, he might like you or not.
So that's a maybe ...
Some guys would be too shy to actually ask or tell, and some are just scared of rejection, and others are just scared of losing that person.
It's either you keep silent and suffer for a while without him knowing how you feel, and you never know how he feels, you don't want to die without telling him (you can die anywhere, anytime, and anyday)
OR
Tell him and with high rank chances you might gain a relationship but also there is disadvantage, that he might break your heart and with all the awkwardness you might loose the friendship but i don't think that matters because for you it's more than friendship.
Make you decision wisely ...
Good Luck =]=]
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Guys are just as shy about their feelings as girls are. If he isn't saying anything that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Tell him how you feel, if he likes you GREAT! if not then you'll still be friends.
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Personal experience: I've been with my best friend for 5 years now and I'm madly in love :)
But no, if he had the same feelings for you, he would definitely NOT do anything about it. As hard as it is to believe, guys fear rejection a hell of a lot more than girls. ESPECIALLY at your age.
I would personally say something. What's the worst that could happen? He'd say I'm sorry, I don't feel the same way. If you think about it, that's not really a big deal.
But if you feel that connection that he probably is feeling the same way, then I'm sure rejection won't ruin the conversation ;)
Good luck!
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That is always a hard situation being best friends with the guy you also have a crush on. I cant really tell you for sure since i havnt seen how he acts around you butI would give it some more time.See if he is flirting with you more or starts acting different, being nicer than usual. The worst thing is for you to tell him how you feel and him be immature and get distant,that would hurt. But then again i'm sure you dont want to wait for him to find someone else. Maybe have one of your friends ask him how he feels about you. Or better yet, start flirting with him a little,& see how he reacts to it. Make him want you. But remember if you tell him how you feel and he blows it off, then this guy isnt the right one. Good luck. I hope a helped, even a little. :)
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