Im the bomb like tic tic!
But imma lil fucked up with my sex life lol
Im what they call easy HELP!!!!
Gender: Female
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Age: 14
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Okay so it all started about a year and a half ago! I had just gotten suspended from school for the rest of the year because of fighting. My friend Mariah had ran from her group home and I joined her. After our first night on the run, we were introduced to a couple people, one of them being the boy I would fall in love with, Jason! I can replay the first moment I seen him with perfection, as if it just happened. Here came this loud, adorable boy in his dickies! It was an instant attraction! That night me and mariah stayed at his house and me and him stayed up all night.(justkissing) Did I mention we were EXTREMELY drunk?! Well the next day when I woke up laying next to him, I pretended like that night never happened, even though I had major hickies. He tried so many times to talk to me and until I was again drunk that night I blew him off! Then once I was drunk we were more 2gether, it was crazy! THEN this guy we call "blackboy" came and I found him extremely attractive, and considering how drunk I was I was completely open about that feeling! That night I had sex with him in jasons room! Long story short:: next day Jason was pissed at me but then we talked ALOT and made up and I had sex with him that night, and the next day I left and didnt see him again for a while!!!!! ......About A Month Later..... So i was no longer on the run and my birthday was coming up. And without saying I wanted to see him I was determined to make sure I spent my birthday with him, and I did. That night is the best mmemory of my life, and the night I fell in love!(July10th2009♥). We did not have sex that night but we went on a super long walk together, and spent an AMAZING night 2gether>>WITHOUT SEX!! ..The next day i went home!! .....2WeeksLater.... So I was going to hang out with my friend mario and his homeboys and we were gonna drink! well I got drunk and had sex with 2boys that night! they were cousins, and Jasons good friends, and he showed up the next day. He freaked out on me then left, and about an hour later came back and wanted 2 "talk" and spend the day with me.We had sex that night. If i went on in detail about it would take me a century to write about it BUT our relationship mainly consisted of me sleeping with his friend, him cheating on girlfriends with me, fighting, sex, alot of great memories, and in the end him hating me!!
Now here's my dilema! I put myself in rehab for three months FOR HIM! I cant deal with him hating me. We havent talked in almost 4months. Ive been working so hard to turn my life around for him. AND today I find out he's going to be doing 6 to 8 years jail time for being a look out for a shooting. I LOVE HIM!! My anxiety litterally is hurting me! Please dont give me advice on how, "I dont know what love is" or "What we had wasnt love" or "how to get over him" I NEED advice on how I can work things out with him if i write him or I need to know hotline numbers to talk to someone about this kind of thing.
When you give me advice just consider that i am an EXTREMELY determined girl who is in love and not even slightly considering giving up!!! (link)
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Girl that commented first!
I asked for no comments like that!
Im not giving up!!!
I know i fucked up!
& I didnt fuck 2guys in his room, you read wrong!!!
YES our relationship was unhealthy BUT there was real feeling there I felt it! and i know he felt it too, because he was so good at showing it!
I love this Boy and I refuse to give up!!
so please Ive heard enough negativity about this from other people! Im looking to people on this website to help me!! I know it sounds wierd and may make know sense but all the times I messed up WERE things that happened when i was drunk and i know thats no excuse at all! but as hard as it is to believe, at the begining of each of those days my plans were based on him! hoping if I hung out with his friends he would show up and I would see him! But I am a very complicated and strive for emotianal attention, and so when all those guys went for it with me it was extremely hard for me to say no, so I just give in!! I have made alot of mistakes in my life! but losing him is the one I regret most!
So please people HELP ME??!! I want help advice anything!
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So right now I'm feeling very anxious to see this guy that I like. However, when I do see him sometimes I find myself slightly less attracted to him. Or even embarrassed? But only when other people are around. I should explain.
My last boyfriend had flaws that I suppressed in my mind. He is not the most intelligent person ever (This is in no way to be a snob, but he is more of a party-going guy who doesn't like the idea of school. I live to learn and do really well in school so obviously there is a problem). My parents also hated him because they feared he wasn't "right" for me. And also he isn't what I consider extremely attractive. But I really liked him, and even loved him at one point. However, with all of these "flaws" I would sometimes look at him and suddenly be nearly repulsed (that word is too strong, but the point is that from one day to another my feelings for him would change 180 degrees). It's almost like he was a different person but obviously he hadn't changed, it was me who had the problem. Eventually my "hot and cold" behavior was our downfall. It caused so many problems. I broke up with him several times and wanted him back soon after. And he told me several times that I acted very weirdly and changed: that alone I would be one person and in public another. I had problems with "acting like his girlfriend." He told me that I treated him more like a friend. Eventually he stopped loving me and broke up with me for good.
Now I like another boy. And by his behavior I get the idea that he likes me as well. I don't find myself repulsed by him but rather uneasy. I told my friend that I liked him and now whenever I talk to him during class I feel like she is staring at me. I can rationalize that no one really cares and that even if did something stupid and people noticed it wouldn't matter. I'm usually not that self-conscious of myself in general in public. This tends to happen only with crushes or relationships.
I don't know why this happens and am honestly afraid that my last relationship will repeat itself with just a different face. My attraction for this new guy is completely different (he's smart, polite, my parents would like him, etc.) but I'm still afraid that this will happen. I thought that I'd gotten over this issue (it's been 7 months since I ended the last relationship) but I realize that I've just pushed this all under the rug and now it's coming out again. Am I psychologically disturbed? I don't know, but this is very aggravating. :(
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You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know
And you
Over-think
Always speak
Cryptically
I should know
That you're no good for me
Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You!
You don't really want to stay, no
You!
But you don't really want to go-oh
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down
We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now's a dead battery
Used to laugh (used to laugh)
Bout nothing (bout nothing)
Now your plain (now your plain)
Boring (boring)
I should know (I should know)
you're not gonna change (change)
Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You!
You don't really want to stay, no (woah)
You!
But you don't really want to go-oh (ohhh)
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no (no!)
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down (you're down!)
Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bi-polar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can't get it off this ride
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down
You're wrong when it's right (When it's right)
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up (We make up)
You're hot then you're cold (Ohhhhhhhhhhhh)
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out (Oh!)
You're up and you're down (Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh)
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white (Oh!)
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You!
You don't really want to stay, no (woah)
You!
But you don't really want to go-oh (ohhh)
You're hot then you're cold (Cold)
You're yes then you're no (No)
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down (Dooooown)
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So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (: (link)
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WELL TO EVERYONE THAT ANSWERED ME WITH STUPID ANSWERS!!! screw you all cuz im havin a baby
prego as of 3wkx ago (:
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18/f.
my boyfriend is a somewhat famous singer, & we have been dating for a while now. i'm on tour with him right now & i keep getting really jealous, because all these girls throw themselves at him & he like kisses their hands & cheeks, and i know he doesn't actually like them, but you never.. some of the girls are so pretty, & you never what could happen, when my back is turned. Also, i kind of did something really bad. well i was really jealous because he kissed this girl on the cheek & then she grabbed his dick & i was like freaking out on the side of the stage. & so, i got really mad and i stormed off & his best friend was back in the tour bus, so.. me & h is best friend kind of had sex. & his best friend said he doesn't want to tell him, but i feel guiltly, but i don't want to tell him either, because it might ruin our relationship. he told me this was his first honest relationship in a long time, because he has gotten lied to alot in the past. we have been dating since last november. & i love him soooo much, but i just don't know if i can deal with all the jealousy and stuff. & he just recently signed a really big record deal soo.. another good reason not to break up with him. i love him with all my heart, & i know i made a mistake.
what should i do?
i can't break up with him. (link)
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you dont deserve him! thats what famous ppl do show love to their fans! your obviously ungreatful and self centered! and your not in love cause you wouldnt have had sex with his best freind. and i agree with the other guy what the hell does him signing a really big record deal have to do with anything? thats gold digger shit!
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So me and this girl have been talking online a lot lately and texting, and I really like her. I'm getting some signals that she may like me back, although I'm not exactly sure. She's gone for the summer but she'll be back in about a month. Anyway, I'm kind of shy, which is why I prefer texting and chat, but people say I should call her. Do you think I should call her? What kind of stuff should I say? Does it matter if its really short or will that make her mad? (link)
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Yes! if you guys chat and text alot whats the difference between talking on the phone other than you get to hear her voice. I know as a girl that we hate to call the guy because we figure if they wanted to talk to us they would call us. so to show her that you care you should call her
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16/f
I apologize in advance if I sound really naïve for asking this
Have any of you ever just made out with a friend but then simply continued your friendship afterwards? Can you explain to me how such a thing could happen? Like, I can kind of get how it would start if the mood and setting were right, but then what about after you were done? Wouldn't there be a sense of awkwardness between you two, or an unanswered question of a possible relationship? It just seems like it would be really awkward after that.
You see, the whole idea of just making out with a friend and then going on with the friendship completely baffles me. I've always thought that making out was something special that should only happen between people in a relationship...I mean, I understand the idea of a hookup, but isn't that usually not between people who are considerably good friends?
The reason that I ask is that there is one particular guy friend that I have in mind that I know made out with one of my friends a month or two ago and they didn't even know each other that well [not as close as me and him]. That's what kind of got me thinking. We might be hanging out soon and I don't actually like him like a crush but there's some interest and I could do with a nice snog because I kind of miss it. I just don't want it to be weird between us afterwards because he's a really fun guy and I don't want us to not be friends after it because I feel weird. It's not that I'm uncomfortable with the idea of making out with him, I'm just uncomfortable with what might happen later. Any advice?
P.S. Sorry for the length (link)
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I once made out with my best freind. and I thought that it would change everything. But instead our freindship re,ained the same it was like it never happened except for the times we would joke around about how funny it was. I guess it just all depends on your guys relationship
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So I like this guy a lot and He claimed to like me... So he fingered me and I gave him a handjob and now it's like he doesn't like me anymore we talk sometimes still and He's still nice to me but still what do I do ! ? (link)
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Oh girly sorry to tell you this but you guys will never be together. he is a hit it and quit it type of guy, and you'll probably deal with alot more during your life. But basically if you hook up with a guy and then you guys dont talk much after that or he acts like it never happened then thats what he will always do so you really shouldnt even try.
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Me and my bf have been going out for almost 4 months we makeout and stuff but i want to stick my hands down his pants, at a movie he kinda feeled me up barely just kinda my arm and a little of my chest barely how do i get him to feel me up? how can i get him 2 know i want to stick my hands down his panst without telling him?
Got any movie flirting ideas? (link)
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well dont do it in a movie theatre!
but he's a guy.. dont tell him just do it..I promise you he wont stop you!
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what is the easiest way to make money fast legally or illegally and not get caught (link)
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haha go to a corner!
lol
nah sell some dope!
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Hey, i have this friend and she is not liked very much by other kids @ our skool! But she dosent know this. And everyone is always asking me why i am her friend. sometimes i dont stand up for her behind her back when people ask me that because, they think i am cool when i say i dont really like her when she is like my best friend! What do i do?? i like her alot BUT no one else does? ?
What do i do?? LOST AND CONFUSED?
sincerely: MMR (link)
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ughh Imma say this strait up! If you like this chick and want to be her freind and if she's a good freind to you then you should do the same. stand up for her everytime some one asks you why you like her. If that means they dont think your cool then thats there problem because who you are should not be changed by the freinds you have. Its your choice who you like no one else's!
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So me and this guy went out for 2 months, we knew eachother for 2 years almost 3 before we started going out. Just a couple weeks ago though he broke up with me because his friends were telling him i was flirting with them, which is complete bs. I left him alone for a week then talked to him about it. I told him the story which is that his friend was flirting with me and would do stuff like not let me go and say i can fuck you better than your boyfriend, so basicly rude disrespectful things. I couldn't ever get away from him so i would just smile and say anything to get away. I know that sounds bad but its cause hes my ex-boyfriends friend and i didnt wanna be the reason they werent friends anymore. Well i told him that and he will not believe me because another one of his friends told him some more bs. Hes all mad at me and i got one of my friends to tell him they were lieing but hes just not believeing anyone. I dont know what to do i love him and just before all this he finially told me he loved me to. This whole thing is stupid its not like i cheated on him. How do i get him to believe me or take me back? (link)
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Ok you gotta realise his freinds words will always come before yours. If his freinds say you were flirting he's gonna believe it. And this might not make you happy but Ive been through a similiar situation before and the truth is you probably were flirting just didnt realize it. So If you really care about this guy and want to be with him DONT talk or hang out with his freinds when he's not around, because no matter what you do they will find something to say about you. Talk to this guy and tell him the complete truth and if he doesnt believe you then there really is nothing you can do, but if he cares about you too he will be willing to make things work if you prove to him that he's the only one your interested in.
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