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Last Update: June 29, 2009
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Hey. I'm 15/female, and I'd say I have pretty bad skin..
Actually, I have terrible skin. It has scars from past acne and there's always new acne patches on either my forhead, temples, chin, or sometimes all three. I don't think I have the money for a dermatolagist, so I was wondering what foods I can eat/ exercises I can do to help with bad skin? Or any facewashes (besides proactiv, that's expensive) that would help? Thanks! (link)
when ever i get a zit or pimple i use clean and clear face wash and i use their 4 hour vanishing cream. the little tube lasts about 3 months and is only like 6$.
♥LEXI♥


Does anyone know where i can download free ringtones for my cell? I really want the song Whatever Will Be by Vanessa Hudgens but the site i usually go to -phonezoo.com- doesnt have it. I have also looked it up on my phone to buy it but Verizon doesnt sell it. (link)
go to phonezoo.com


i don't mean to laugh or smile when someone dies at all. it's sad, and i mean no happiness towards it. i just can't help but to laugh or smile, even if it's sad.
today, when i heard michael jackson died, it was really sad, and i felt bad, but ... i laughed ... and i have *no* idea why i react like this. i'm not heartless, but i'm just hoping it's a normal emotion / reaction, while others cry or get upset ... i just smile unintentionally. i don't think i'd last at a funeral.. i have no idea why i react like this. (link)
i have the same problem. Like when i pet died i was in tears and i was so sad but i was laughing at the same time. I dont know why it happens it just does.


"How many licks DOES it take to get to the center of the tootsie pop??"

Seems like all my friends are saying that lately, and I started wondering: Has anyone figured it out? Wish I was kidding, but I really want to know How many licks DOES it take to get to the center of the tootsie pop?!

I have tried doing it, but I never ever make it. Has anyone? Ever?

Driving me friggin insane! (link)
the question is impossible to answer. This is because all tounges r different.


F/15

hey i wanna wear high heels to school! BUT NOT STRIPER KINDS LOL like more WEDGES (little ones)

should i or should i not? I wear them in public when i am not @ school but i dont @ school. (link)
go ahead who cares what other people think. just be yourself and do what you want.
♥LEXI♥


I have an env2 and i keep getting prank calls from a number.. how do i block them from calling and texting me.. oh and my service is verizon if that helps (link)
i had that same prob and there is no way to block the caller i had to go into the store and have them change my number
♥LEXI♥


how do i connect my ipod to my car so it can play (link)
if you go to like target wallmart or evan best buy you can get this cord. One end goes into the headphones spot on your ipod and the other goes to the headphone part of ur car


Will jumping on a trampoline everyday help your weight problems? Please and thank you. (link)
It will keep your legs in fit, but it wont do as much as other things would do.


Hey guys! 18/F

I have a group of friends that normally hangs out together, but lately everyone has been separated. Rachel and Sarah have a problem with Danielle and Jessica, and it is apparent. Now, I am close with both "groups", but I am definitely closer to Jessica and Danielle. Today, while I was hanging out with Rachel and Sarah, they said a few things about Jessica and Danielle. Later that night, Jessica called me and I told her a few things that they said. I did not exaggerate anything at all, but Sarah called me upset that I told them and that she expected that I wasn't going to say anything. There's nothing I can do because obviously I can't take anything back (like I wish I could). How do I make this right? I already sent a message to Rachel because I haven't talked to her easily (she's asleep). I said my apologies (I am sincere about them) but I know they will hold a grudge over me and I know I lost their trust. Is there anything I can do to fix it? (link)
if i were you i would bring them all together and tell them how much you love them all. I mean rachel and sara would want to know if something was said about them, and jessica and danielle would feel the same. I would just say that your not going to choose between the two groups. Maybe after you say that they will stop talking about eachother, to make sure you dont say anything to the other group.
Hope i helped!!!
♥LEXI♥


i finally found my perfect guy. we are compatible mentally, sexually, physically, any way really. there's one problem though- his mother hates me.
she'll talk about other girls around him, or try to hook him up with other girls. she thinks i'm not mature enough for him since i'm a bit younger than he is. What can i say to her to make her see that i am actually mature enough for her son? (link)
first of all it should really be none of her buisness. she should be happy as long as her son is happy. Her opinion really should not bother him or you. Plus you shouldnt have to say anything. If he really does like you, he needs to stand up to his "mommy". He needs to tell her that no matter what her opinion is, he would rather be with you.
hope i helped!!!!
♥LEXI♥


okay so my parents divorced when i was about two, and my mom has been married three times (none of them worked). and it's fine now me and my mom are best friends. my dad's been married once more and now has 4 kids.

I visit him every summer and Christmas to Louisiana, because i live in Florida with just me and my mom and little brother.Every time i come here for the summer it gets harder and harder to stay long and see my WHOLE family over in Louisiana, its all my cousins and grandparents and aunts and uncles over there. So every time I come to visit him i try to see him every time he takes off of work. But for some reason if i ask to go see my cousins or other family members him and my step mom come up with the answer "no" for absolutely no reason! Ive stood up for myself and told them i need to see my family. But it can never get through to them. Also i have an older brother that lives with my grandma, and he's a great kid the best influence and me and him are really great friends/siblings. never ever fight. but when i ask to go see a movie with him, or the mall, or just spend the day with him the answer is still no with a big fight ? don't understand it. and by the way i don't do anything bad, i know right from wrong. No smoking or anything like that. what should i say to them??? It doesn't make since (its mostly my step mom) (link)
ok first of all no one not even your dad or step mom can keep you away from your family. Have you talked to your real mom about this, im sure she could have a talk with your dad. And dont feel bad for getting into the fights with your step mom and dad. Your fighting for what is right. Hope i helped
♥LEXI♥


16/f
Well me and this guy "nate" went out for 3 months. I had a really good relationship but we had some bumps along the way. He was the first guy i fell in love with. The problem was he kept lying and keeping things from me so i broke up with him about a month and a half ago. After we broke up i tried being his friend. It didnt work because he got a new girlfriend and was showing everyone pictures of her in front of me and it really made me sad. He still tried to be my friend because he said he didnt like his new girlfriend and he still loved me.

So, of course we fought and we both said some really mean things to eachother. He was acting immature at school and acted like he didnt care about me but then he would text me after school and say he is just hiding his feelings. So he broke up with his girlfriend and tried getting back with me. I was so mad at him and i thought i could never forgive him after we broke up because he acted like a jerk. He said he was just hiding his feelings but he really hurt me. My parents hate him.

So, after all this i still really like him and i get jealous if i heaar that he has hung out with another girl. Well, he tells me he loves me everyday but on his facebook, this girl keeps leaving him comments saying, "we need to hang out again, i had fun today." So i know they hung out and the day they supposedly did was the first day he hasnt texted me since we broke up.

It still bothers me that he did that. I get so jealous and sad. Everyone is telling me to move on but i cant. I try talking to other guys but all i think about is him. I know he likes this other girl because his mood on facebook always says "happy we hung out." People say i shouldnt date him again because of what he did before and of course my parents dont like him. So i have no idea what to do. He dosent know i know about the girl and i told him how i felt about him and he said he still loves me and wants to be together again. But what about the girl on facebook?? i know they arent just friends. I still like him but noone wans me to date him and he likes someone else. Help! What do i do? (link)
if he really does love you and you like him a lot too, then the other peoples opinions shouldnt matter. Just go with what you think is right, and if it turns out bad o well. We learn from mistakes


do they make such a thing as fake nose piercing? like ones where its ring type thing. where can i get one, if they do? (link)
yea... you can find them almost anywhere in a mall


is it illegal for a 16 year old to be dating an 18 year old? (link)
not if your dating but if you have sex then its illegal


I am starting to get really into photography and i want to learn how to blur the background of a subject. I know that you need a wide aperture, but even at 2.8/f in AV mode the back isnt really blurred much. I have a canon powershot G10. The background does blur in the macro setting. Do I need a telephoto lens or tripod? what else can i do to blur the background? (link)
if you really want a good opinion about photography i think you should go on myspace and look up peace.love.photography. this myspace is made by a pro. she knows everything and you can ask her tons of questions.
hope it helped!!!
LEXI!!!


my friend is the biggest liar ever!!!! she lies about really small stuff that is easy stuff to look over, to huge giant stuff that its shocking someone would even make up these stories. she makes up these huge stories. & she even just told one to me, and i'm her best friend. she told one girl in one of her classes her older brother was fixing her tv one day, and she doesn't have a brother or any brotherly figure. i keep having nightmares about this & i keep dreaming that she'll be really mad and won't talk to me. i don't really trust her with anything, and don't tell her any secrets anymore. i'm not good with talking about feelings and i don't like too. i don't know what to do. :( (link)
first of all you sound like a great friend, but your friend does not. If she was really your friend she would have never lied to you. The worst thing is you can actually tell shes lying. You should confront her in a nice way. And if she does get mad at you then:
1. she isnt a true friend
2. she isnt the type of friend you should have
3. she doesnt deserve to be your friend




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