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16/f
Well me and this guy "nate" went out for 3 months. I had a really good relationship but we had some bumps along the way. He was the first guy i fell in love with. The problem was he kept lying and keeping things from me so i broke up with him about a month and a half ago. After we broke up i tried being his friend. It didnt work because he got a new girlfriend and was showing everyone pictures of her in front of me and it really made me sad. He still tried to be my friend because he said he didnt like his new girlfriend and he still loved me.
So, of course we fought and we both said some really mean things to eachother. He was acting immature at school and acted like he didnt care about me but then he would text me after school and say he is just hiding his feelings. So he broke up with his girlfriend and tried getting back with me. I was so mad at him and i thought i could never forgive him after we broke up because he acted like a jerk. He said he was just hiding his feelings but he really hurt me. My parents hate him.
So, after all this i still really like him and i get jealous if i heaar that he has hung out with another girl. Well, he tells me he loves me everyday but on his facebook, this girl keeps leaving him comments saying, "we need to hang out again, i had fun today." So i know they hung out and the day they supposedly did was the first day he hasnt texted me since we broke up.
It still bothers me that he did that. I get so jealous and sad. Everyone is telling me to move on but i cant. I try talking to other guys but all i think about is him. I know he likes this other girl because his mood on facebook always says "happy we hung out." People say i shouldnt date him again because of what he did before and of course my parents dont like him. So i have no idea what to do. He dosent know i know about the girl and i told him how i felt about him and he said he still loves me and wants to be together again. But what about the girl on facebook?? i know they arent just friends. I still like him but noone wans me to date him and he likes someone else. Help! What do i do?
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if he really does love you and you like him a lot too, then the other peoples opinions shouldnt matter. Just go with what you think is right, and if it turns out bad o well. We learn from mistakes
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well if you still like him and you are guys are trying to be friends you have to communicate. Tell him that you still like him and that if you guys really want to work it out then he has to stop hanging out with girls. But if he doesnt want to i think you should move on. But you do have to consider if he is worth your parents hating him and other things.
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