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He broke up with me because of flirting..
So me and this guy went out for 2 months, we knew eachother for 2 years almost 3 before we started going out. Just a couple weeks ago though he broke up with me because his friends were telling him i was flirting with them, which is complete bs. I left him alone for a week then talked to him about it. I told him the story which is that his friend was flirting with me and would do stuff like not let me go and say i can fuck you better than your boyfriend, so basicly rude disrespectful things. I couldn't ever get away from him so i would just smile and say anything to get away. I know that sounds bad but its cause hes my ex-boyfriends friend and i didnt wanna be the reason they werent friends anymore. Well i told him that and he will not believe me because another one of his friends told him some more bs. Hes all mad at me and i got one of my friends to tell him they were lieing but hes just not believeing anyone. I dont know what to do i love him and just before all this he finially told me he loved me to. This whole thing is stupid its not like i cheated on him. How do i get him to believe me or take me back?
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Ok you gotta realise his freinds words will always come before yours. If his freinds say you were flirting he's gonna believe it. And this might not make you happy but Ive been through a similiar situation before and the truth is you probably were flirting just didnt realize it. So If you really care about this guy and want to be with him DONT talk or hang out with his freinds when he's not around, because no matter what you do they will find something to say about you. Talk to this guy and tell him the complete truth and if he doesnt believe you then there really is nothing you can do, but if he cares about you too he will be willing to make things work if you prove to him that he's the only one your interested in.
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if i were you, i'd tell him i'm BEYOND serious about this.
however, since he's refusing to believe you while you tell your side of the story, it may mean he's using that as an excuse to break up with you in the first place...
you could talk to his friend and tell him it's his fault your relationship got ruined, and he should fess up to your ex. although he won't. but at least you can tell your ex you went out of your way to talk to his friend and tell him youre angry about this.
i doubt your ex would think you'd go that much out of your way if you were really lying...
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Well, if you've tried talking to him, and he's not believing your story, there's no way to magically get him back.
For now, move on. Eventually he'll come crawling back to you, but by that time, you will have hopefully moved on to someone who is mature enough to trust his own girlfriend when she says something. And he said he loved you? Right. How can he possibly have loved you if he didn't trust your side of the story. I'm frankly appalled that he didn't even ASK for your side of this story. That's what a GOOD boyfriend would have done.
So, get over him; he's really not worth it anyway. There are plenty of guys out there who won't do this stuff to you like this guy did.
--Jack
(17/m)
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