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Should we do the long distant thing?
17/F... Well me and my bf (19) have only been dating like 3-4 months and things are great. we get along and we always have fun together. I'm the second girl he's has ever dated and the only one he has had sex with. He doesn't really like to share how he feels about me or other things that often(but what guy does). So anyway the problem is that im a junior and he's graduating this year. The college he wants to go to is in chicago for two years. And we live in kentucky. He wants me to try to stay together but the only time I will ever get to see him is when I get my breaks at my school and stuff because he goes all year to school and they hardly ever get out. Should I take the risk if that he wont find someone else in chicago?
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Well I live in the US and this guy I dated for 2 years lives in Canada. We're really far, but at the time we made it work. We broke up a few months ago and still talk off and on. The heartbreak in the end isn't worth going through months and months of hurt being far away from someone you care about. It's hard, but if you think your relationship can take it, try it out. Be aware that he IS going to be in a new place, with lots of other girls. Everything will be new to him, but ultimately you're the only one who can decide.
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Long distance relationships are hard, I'm working on one now. I think you should try it if you really like him, because in the end, it might turn out to be the best decision you ever made.
There are going to be days you want to give up, and there will be days when you thank God you decided to try it, though, so be prepared for an emotional relationship as well as the whole long distance thing.
-Laura (17-f)
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Long distance relationships CAN work, but they take lots of hard work and dedication. You really need to trust the other and believe in them. I think it can work, but you and your boyfriend really need to sit down and talk with each other. See what you're willing to do, and what he's willing to do. The only way you'll know if it works is if you talk to him and try it out.
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Well either you break up now, and have the memory of a good time but wondering if it could have worked or if he did find someone else...or stay together, always waiting for him to find someone else.. these kind of decisions can't be made by me or anyone else because we dont know the realtionship you to have together.. I think you and your boyfriend really need to talk about it.
Sorry I couldnt be of more help. x
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