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I'm dealing with my own craziness!
I'm a 19/f, and I've been with my boyfriend (also 19) for almost a year. While this isn't my longest relationship (yet), I feel very deeply for him, and I trust him with everything in the world. We've had our share of fights, but we've always been able to work things out. We're talking about starting to save up for an apartment in the future, and we have my parents support, as long as we're ready.
the problem is, that lately ALL I've been thinking about is how badly I want to have a baby with him. I KNOW this is crazy, because I'm still in community college and we're not even talking about marriage yet, but I keep doing research on childcare and newborns. Is this my hormones? Or am i just nuts?
PS- we practice safe sex and we don't take risks. Even though right now I THINK I want a child, I know I'm not ready. So what's wrong with me??
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No, you're not nuts. This is normal, especially since you really do feel deeply for him and that you're absolutely sure that he's the one for you. Does he favor having a baby with you too? Just make sure you both would like the same thing. It may possibly be too early to be having a baby but never too early to be "thinking" about having one. If you two agree and would both like to have a baby then all you've gotta do is set future plans(= Nonetheless, education is always the #1 priority and priorities must come first! So stay together for the sake of your love life, get through school, get careers, and live happily ever after! Good Luck!
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okay theres absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. its totally normal and your not crazy!
the good thing in this situation is you KNOW your not ready,still that doesnt stop you feeling like you want a baby its just your feelings towards your boyfriend are so strong right now you feel you have to express them and you get that feeling of wanting to have his baby.
its the baby bug alot of girls get it once and a while as long as your rational about it and dont act on it when you know your not financally or emotionaly ready.
I think it is down to just hormones and feelings your not nuts =]
This feeling might go away after a while and you find other ways to show how much you really love him,or it might stay with you until your both ready and want a child,either way your completely fine trust me :)
hope I helped good luck
Much <3
Jess
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