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How to be friends after you stop talking ?
I recently stoped seriosly talking to a guy , we were very close to going out but diffrences mades us decide that it would be better for us to be friends , i still have strong feelings for him . Should i try to contuine to be his friend or is it not helping me get over him ? I do care for him alot but is it possible to be " just friends ".
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in my experience, most of the time its pretty difficult to be just friends. either one person isnt mature about it and would rather ignore them or when you do try to talk to them after having the feelings, it starts to feel awkward and forced. if it does feel like there is a pink elephant in the room, its probably best that you give each other some space and its always a lot easier to get over someone that way. you can always try it out again later when youre totally over each other, but at first i would try some distance. but that doesnt mean you should be rude, you know? still give a friendly smile when passing by and that stuff.
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ive been through this many times too! in my opinion the best thing to do is just chilll out, and go with the flow. be his friend. but try to be interested in other guys too so your not just focused on him and wont end up falling for him harder.
hope this helped!!
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It is possible i would know it has happend alot to me in the past not so much anymore. I still talk to all of my friends.
i would advise just trying to be his friend just talk and do everything you used to eventually it will go away or you will both get the feelings and realize you should be together. i cant really tell you what to do but i think you should atleast try to be his friend.
Hope i helped :)
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