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He just stopped talking to me!
So there's this guy that I was "talking" to for about maybe 4 weeks.I went on vacation for two of them and he talked to me every single day,for the majority of the day on texts.I came back and we were good for maybe like 4 days and then I noticed he was talking to another girl too,but they weren't going out so i figured i maybe still had a chance.
He hangs out with me and my friends a lot and on the 4th or 5th day after I came back and after him hanging around my friends he said that he just wanted to be friends because it would be "awkward" around our friends if we dated.So that kind of made me feel like crap because I'm wondering what I did.He stopped talking to me on texts and IM's but he still calls to hangout but we are always with people.Should I talk to him about it? I still kind of like him and I want to know what i did wrong or what the deal is? Or will he think i'm weird or what....
help!
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he probably doesn't think your weird or anything and he likes you as a friend. Since you said that he was talking to another girl, then what most likely happened was that he liked both of you but now has decided that he wants to only talk to her and that's why he told you he just wanted you guys to be friends...In any case, you didn't do anything wrong. Its probably just that he likes the other girl hes talking to a lot...
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there wouldn't be any harm in talking to him, communication is key. but it already sounds like he told you the reason: "he said that he just wanted to be friends because it would be "awkward" around our friends if we dated". if you want him to explain that more then sure, talk to him about it. i'm sure if you guys are friends he won't think you're weird, just curious.
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