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good guy bad guy >advice anyone?
I swear it was love at first sight, because ever since the first day I met jason he's the only guy I ever thought about. The problem is we're in a non dating relationship and its his choice! One day I went to see him and ran into a few of his freinds who said he was with this really hot girl and I never said anything to him about it because we're not official. But he knows I care about him more than anything in the world but he will not cave he is not going to have a real relationship with me now and maybe ever. I feel like the girl he can fall back on but he says its not like that. He says that he cares about me and im the only girl he does anything with but he's not ready to commit. Now there is this other guy chris he is my ex and we just started talking again like a month ago, we broke up about 8 months ago because he was going through some hard times and he wanted to deal with them on his own and we never got to spend time together. He told me the first day we started talking again that he missed me so much and when I told him that I was dedicated to being with jason he said he would wait until I realized we were meant for eachother. and he is doing exactly that! chris calls me every day and we talk on the phone for hours, he drops his plans for me every time I want to see him, and he tells me every single time we talk that he loves me. This is so hard I love jason and he's the one I really want but I dont think I will ever be abled to have him. Then there is chris my first real love and best friend who does everything for me and makes me feel so special, but sometimes when were together I cant help but think he's not right cause he's not jason. What should I do?
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Have you seen the movie/read the book "He's just not that into you"?
well if you have, id say the guy jason is like the guys in that movie/book. i know when you really care about someone, its hard to just take the advice to dump them and go with the good guy, but its definitely whats best. and its soo much easier for me to say that from the outside looking in. so ultimately, the decision is up to you because i know when you love someone its so easy to look past all the flaws. I think you should just follow your gut..who makes you feel like you can just be you no matter what?
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The same thing happend with me i was talking with a guy named Michael for like 3 years and we were really close friends and i was like completely in love with him but he always felt like dating other people and just not me he just liked having me ((not like sexually but yea)) then i met Jason and he was the sweetest person and cared so much about me and when mike found out about me and Jason talking he got jealous and dropped everthing and told me he wanted to be with me...i had to choose one or the other i chose jason the most amazing & nicest guy i've ever met he loves me and treats me right and i know that it wouldnt have lasted with me and Mike since he was a bad boy and wanted me for sex pretty much.
I'd advise you to go for the guy who treats you right the one who wants to be with you and be there for everything with you.
i cant decide for you but i've never regretted my choice and i dont think you would either.
sorry its so long i figured it would make more sense to tell most of my story so you would have something to go by.
hope i helped :)
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