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player, liar, cheater.


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 2:06 pm

15/girl.

so i liked this guy for nine months and two weeks ago he finally asked me out. i was soo happy even though i knew he was a player and "soo many girls like him, he could have any girl he wanted". and he had told me he had cheated on a girl before but he said he wouldn't do it again and i believed him. and so we were going out for one week and we didn't talk everyday more like every other. and we don't go to the same school. but like one night i was talking to my friend and she was like yaa but he has a gf, and i was like yaa i'm going out with him, and she goes um he's going out with my friend, and i was like um since when and she goes since last night. so she texted him and was like your going out with both...

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My boyfriend's ex and surprise


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 12:05 pm

Alright, my boyfriend and I love each other a lot and then a few days ago his ex calls him. He doesn't know why she wants to talk to him because he hasn't seen her in ten years. She won't tell him over the phone, so yesterday he went to go meet her for coffee.

He has a daughter. She's almost ten and all she wants for her birthday is to meet her father.

I'm not calling my boyfriend a lier because he never knew about his ex girlfriend being pregnant, and I don't think he's lying to me about that because we've always had a very open and honest relationship. He already told me he wants to stay with me, and that his having a daughter changes nothing between us.

My worry is, what if his daughter wants ...

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Does he care


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 12:02 pm

"Does he Care"
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 11:59 am
Hey everyone!
Well to start off,I am 19 years old and I'm still single.What I mean by "still"single,is that I've never had a boyfriend.And that is not because no one has approached me,its just the simple fact that I want somethin serious and I know what I'm looking for.Well this past december I met this guy at a dance,and he asked me to dance with him.After that night he figured to get my number from my knephew who had gone with me.He called me and he started tellin me that he really wanted to talk to me.He liked how I was...now,i let him know that I didnt want anythin at the time,cuz i was talking to someone else.I left to Mexico for the two we...

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What to do?! I really don't know!


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 11:18 am

Firstly thanks for taking the time to read my question :-) Sorry if this is too long! There's quite a few people involved in this so i'll explain now ha ha:
Jordan - One of my friends (he used to have a crush on me for a long time but we're just friends now)
Joe - A guy I met through Jordan who I now like.
Nate - One of my guy friends who has a crush on me.
Rachael - Me, ha ha

To start with, I have had feelings for Joe since around May. We've been friends for a few months before then, we met through one of our close friends, Jordan.

I've always had troubles believing that someone actually likes me, I'm not the most confident person ever, and although people tell me a lot that i'm bea...

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cute nicknames


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 10:38 am

i need some cute nicknames for my boyfriend, baby and babe get boring...
they could be funny too haha
thankss (:

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im so confused. I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT ! & HELP!!


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 9:30 am

im 15 year old girl and a sophomore and my ex boyfriend whos 16 but is this year a senior went out for about 5 months.. we had sex after 2 months and then he cheated on me. he cried about and and everything and i know he truly felt bad but our relationship had been on the rocks.. we broke up and got back together about a month later. we were so in love, he said he would always love me no matter what. we broke up again and he said he still loved me he just couldnt commit with football and school starting again. the whole school year we were on and off friends but he acted like he hated me alot of the time. in january i went over his house and we hooked up and after that he didnt talk to me again but i cold tell that day somethin was weird th...

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He's Worse Than a drug!


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 2:36 am

His name is jason and he's like my drug. Sometimes he makes me happy but in the long run he is hurting me. When Im with him I want to be by him forever. And when we're apart I cant stop thinking about him. The absolute best night of my life! When he told everyone that he liked me so much he thought he was in love. But he's naturally a player and I know he cares about me but Its like he is trying so hard to be "unattatched" but he is slowly showin me and everyone else how important I really am to him. My problem though is that I feel like it could take litterally years before he will completely commit to me. I dont know if I can wait that long. He is hurting me so much with his games. but like I said he is like a drug that I am sompletely addicted to.

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boy down the street..


Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 12:10 am

17/f

their is this cute boy that is living with his grandparents a few houses down from me, we don't talk to them or anything though, but i sometimes see him out. (like once a week or something..) well, i want to talk to him. but i don't how to approach him or when to? i don't want to go up to his door, but i also don't want to walk to his house ever hour of the day. haha. any ideas?

& also, i start school on the 27th. if he was just spending the summer there, don't you think he'd go back home by now? (its august 20.) my mom thinks maybe he is going to the college that is about a mile away from our house. but i'm not sure if he is that old? but if he is younger then me, i'm not sure if i want to date him. d...

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MY PARENTS FOUND OUT FML HELP ME


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 11:34 pm

hi, i am a girl and i was with my friend / gf today. we are lesbians i guess. her parents know but mine didnt. and then my idiot asshole friend, who is a boy, sent me a txt msg talkin about me and my gf. my dad decided to read my txts. he saw it. now im flippin out and so r my parents!!!! my gf and i fear we will never be able to see each other again. MY FUCKING FRIENDS SUCK!!!! what do i do? my gf and i are hysterical and idk wat to do. plz help me :(!!!!

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boy promblem


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 8:43 pm

ok its a boy that i liked for a long time and his nephew said he liked me but when i asked him he said no then i said o then yesterday he txted me hey friend and hey do i have a boy friend and i said no then he txted me is im gone to a boyfriend then i said maybe or maybe not then he said o then he had to go then i said hold on let ask him a question and he said wat then i said do he hav a girl friend and then he said no and he dont want 1 rite and then i said me too then we said bye now do that mean he like or something PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!!!

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just confused .


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 8:27 pm

there's this guy whom i really like or i think i like. i'm not going to justify that because i don't want to get hurt. well, last year my friend called him up and asked if he'd date me, and he told her no. also he and i weren't so close then. we argued a lot, but were friends. now i talk to him a lot more, and we laugh more than argue. we're the same in many ways. i don't really see him much outside of school. i will not admit my feelings to him because i don't want to ruin our friendship, and he may be doing the same. i'm not really sure what kind of girls he goes for. i know one girl he crushed on last year but they didn't work. he's black and i'm white, but he acts white. haha. what should i do? pursue my feelings? or ignore them to keep...

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Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 8:12 pm

Okay. Well there was this guy that I met through a friend right? And so he and I had been texting for like a few months, and talking on the phone occasionally, but had only talked about seriously going on a date like twice. Well one day, I ran into him totally unexpectedly on a quick run to mcdonalds which really sucked cuz I was in like a t-shirt and a pair of soffee shorts, which where I live are referred to as "slut shorts" haha, I don't know. Plus I had like just woken up so I looked as ugly as crap... But anyway so it was SOOO awkward and since then I haven't texted him because it was so awkward that I just don't have the nerve to, and he hasn't texted me for reasons that probably have to do with my disgusting appearence when...

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arousing boyfriends


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 7:13 pm

i dnt knw how to keep my boyfriend intrested cuz all we do is txt an we been only goin out for 3 mnths an we cant really go on dates becus im not aloud to so we're just talkn on the fone an txtn but i go bck to school in 5 days an i really wanna make him go like (damn im lucky to hav dis gurl) an i want him to be the one who i have my first kiss with ( an yes i havent had it yet ) but its not like hes my 1st bf an i dnt wanna make the same mistakes frm past relationships

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should i like him or not?


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 6:27 pm

okay, well theres a guy, matt, hes known for a player, ive known him since before kindergarden. and believe it or not, i liked him SINCE kindergarden. i dont know what it is but i just cant get over him. i talk to other boys to get my mind off of him, but everything comes back to him. now he has a girlfriend(name will stay unknown) and shes known for doing stuff with guys, i have a feeling hes using her for her reputation. and i have another feeling that he might use me. ive told myself before that i love him and i think im right. what do i do. =/

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Should i ask him out?


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 5:08 pm

Hi! 14/F


Okay, i found out that my ex ex boyfriend still likes me. That he liked me ever since we broke up, and he apparently feels dumb to ask me out again because he dated my friend, even though i warned him that she likes other guys and she will break his heart he still dated her. She got mad at me because he never talked to her that much,and he always talked to me. Well, i couldn't help that. Well while she was dating him she found someone else, they broke up and i found out that he liked me this whole time after that. Him and my friend broke up about the last week of school and now we are starting a new year. :/ He told me friend that he still liked me, he told her not to say anything though.He was dating his re...

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drugssss.


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 4:32 pm

So, my boyfriend is on probation, for drugs. I am seventeen and he is nineteen and we have been together off/on scince i was fourteen and he was sixteen. Well weve both always sorta done pot but him on a much more extreme level then me. When he gets off probation which is in like jan. He plans on spending over a thousand dollars on drugs and booze. I dont like that at all b/c i stick to weed and he does like everything. I dont want him to get addicted to anything. Thats not the kind of life that I want for us. How can i tell him that with out sounding bitchy i feel like i always bitch cause ill be like are you gonna pass your drug test? so yea...

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strech marks !!


Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 1:51 am

okay i recently discovered that i have freaking strech marks on my tummy & my sides & its sooo ugly i dont wanna take my clothes off around my boyfriend because of them. i kno that he doesnt really notice them cause they're not that bad but its bad enough wat can i do ??

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never satisfied


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 11:31 pm

so, i've noticed that i have never been completely satisfied with any relationship i have ever been in. i always some how end up liking someone else, all the while knowing that the person i am with is great. there perfect, there what i've been waiting for.

so, currently, i am in a relationship.
we've been going out for about five months now.
i know that this person is someone that i could picture myself with for a long while, and this person is really, perfect for me.

but i can't help but like this other person.
we just talk, i've never cheated on my significant other, but i am crazy about this other person. and its all i can do not to just start something with this other person.
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be in charge .


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 9:59 pm

15 year old female . & i want to be in charge of the relationship . my boyfriend lately has beeen in the i dont give a crap mood and he talks to girls and he gets mad about everything . he is always making fun of me and stuff in front of his friends and he always treats me bad and makes me feeel like if i was his dog or something. is there any way that i can stay with him , but make me be in charge ? and stop him from treating me this way ?

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How to find the right guy?


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 9:46 pm

Hiya..


Well a about a month ago my ex and i broke up. It didn't last long. He found someone else, and i cant find anyone. Well there's this one guy named Chris he likes me but he has a gf and he likes her more than me.He told me if he wasn't dating her he would of asked me out. He's in a long distance relationship and he says it sucks. He calls me practically everyday i don't know what to do. I told him that i would wait for him but i don't think i can. HOW CAN I FIND THE RIGHT GUY!lol im 14 and next week i start back into school. There also is another guy who likes me, he tells my friends and tells them to keep quite about it. He's dating this girl to get his mind off of me. i have no clue what to do anymore and im so tired of it. PLZ help me!

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