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never satisfied
so, i've noticed that i have never been completely satisfied with any relationship i have ever been in. i always some how end up liking someone else, all the while knowing that the person i am with is great. there perfect, there what i've been waiting for.
so, currently, i am in a relationship.
we've been going out for about five months now.
i know that this person is someone that i could picture myself with for a long while, and this person is really, perfect for me.
but i can't help but like this other person.
we just talk, i've never cheated on my significant other, but i am crazy about this other person. and its all i can do not to just start something with this other person.
all the while, i do know that if i were to break up with my significant other now, to be with this other person, im almost positive that i would find that i want someone else.
this has happend before.
i just cant figure out why im never satisfied with any relationship im in. no matter how perfect the person is for me, and how great they treat me, i always find myself wanting someone else.
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Maybe what you find to be perfect behavior isn't the behavior you want. If your happy with someone you have no doubts. I think you have very high standards and no one has been able to full fill them yet. If you are not completely satisfied with someone than you need to keep looking otherwise you find yourself wasting your time with someone you really don't want to be with. Just keep looking.
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You aren't satisfied because, even though there are a lot of great people out there who might seem perfect, they aren't the one for you!
Believe it or not, you are actually doing things right. Dating is one big hunt for that right guy.
The more different people you date, the better chances of finding the right guy for you.
I suggest you date different people. For now, do not tie yourself exclusively to any one guy. It is perfectly fine for you to date more than one person at a time. Just make sure they understand you are not going to be exclusive right now.
I'd like to add that doing this does not make you a bad person. I know the norm these days is to meet someone in junior high and date until you marry. LOL. I exaggerate but these people are not necessarily doing the right thing.
Don't get in a rut. Go out and have fun until you meet the right guy for you. When it happens you will know you have found him and will be very sure he is the one! Best of luck.
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