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should i like him or not?
okay, well theres a guy, matt, hes known for a player, ive known him since before kindergarden. and believe it or not, i liked him SINCE kindergarden. i dont know what it is but i just cant get over him. i talk to other boys to get my mind off of him, but everything comes back to him. now he has a girlfriend(name will stay unknown) and shes known for doing stuff with guys, i have a feeling hes using her for her reputation. and i have another feeling that he might use me. ive told myself before that i love him and i think im right. what do i do. =/
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I don't really get what you're asking. If you're asking whether or not you should "like" him, you can't control it. If you like him, you like him. If you don't, then you don't.
Just follow your heart, but don't get involved in his current relationship. Don't mess things up between them, because you'll just be known as the girl who got in the middle. Stay out of it and let this girl realize her mistake (if that's really what it is).
-Laura (17-f)
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Well you can't stop liking someone by sheer force of will, believe me I've tried...
If he's with someone now, then there's not much he can do. But if he ever asks you out or you have the chance to be with him, then take a chance on him. Maybe he's not what he seems, or maybe you'll bring out the best in him. "What ifs" are never fun.
-Jasmine
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Well you dont really know that hes a user he could be someone really loving so i would give him a chance and you really should talk to him and get to know him more because you dont really know much about him and if you love someone you should go for it and take your chances with them so go for it talk to him and maybe you guys will end up going out and if not then you should move on because hes obviously not the right guy for you.
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