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He's Worse Than a drug!
His name is jason and he's like my drug. Sometimes he makes me happy but in the long run he is hurting me. When Im with him I want to be by him forever. And when we're apart I cant stop thinking about him. The absolute best night of my life! When he told everyone that he liked me so much he thought he was in love. But he's naturally a player and I know he cares about me but Its like he is trying so hard to be "unattatched" but he is slowly showin me and everyone else how important I really am to him. My problem though is that I feel like it could take litterally years before he will completely commit to me. I dont know if I can wait that long. He is hurting me so much with his games. but like I said he is like a drug that I am sompletely addicted to.
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I think he's just confused, and maybe in denial a little bit. It sounds like he's never been in a serious relatioship and doesn't know how to act or what to do. If you really are that important to him, then stay. Give him a chance, but put all your cards on the table. Tell him how you feel about him, but also tell him that you can't wait forever and that he needs to figure out what he wants fast.
-Jasmine
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You sound just like me a year ago hun. I know someone that fits that description exactly. There is nothing worse than being in love with a "player" sorta guy. It hurts. But i'll tell you something.. it will hurt so much more if you leave it any longer. You need to speak to him. Don't be pushy, just be really cool about it when you speak to him, ask him where he wants things to go with you. Explain that you aren't trying to rush him into anything, but you want to know if he will ever be ready to commit to you. Some people just need time - maybe he does. I'm not a great believer in the whole "if a guy isn't willing to attach himself to you, he doesn't like you enough" In some cases this is true, but he's made it clear that he likes you, all you can do now is see where he wants this to go. If he doesn't show any signs of wanting to commit, take my advice hun and move on. It will hurt at first, but you will get over it just like I did. Good luck :-) xox
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If you really like this guy try talking to him because if hes not willing to committ to you then he cant feel as strongly as he says he does. Tell him you want to be with him but hes hurting you because you dont think he will ever fully committ to you.
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umm the first question you need to ask yourself is that is he worth all this???if he claims to like you enough he wudnt think of hurting you....and if you think he is worth all your patience then there is no reason for you to turn away from this guy...if you think he's great enough and will keep you happy then trust me ur patience will pay off.all you need to do is hang in there i'm sure he'd finally give up all his mind games for you and open up to you.
amelia
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ugh! I hate men that are like drugs to us females.. It will literally tear us apart and kill us from outside in! I went through the same thing sorta kinda.. except mine is still my drug, I just don't have him.. Techniqually I don't want him. We're always important to them, but when they finally realize we're the one.. that she is the one.. we're already married and on our way to having a life.. We can't backtrack boys.. I mean come on.. But if you want him, and you really think he's going to be the answer to all your prays, the one to father your children, the one to support you when you're old and on your way to death.. so be it, if you think he's not going to play his part well enough you need to find another someone.. another man to play the role of your drug, one who thinks your as much his drug as he is yours.. This may never happen, but if you are waiting what does it hurt to look? Especially if you're not dating your drug, if you are.. you'll have to really consider if you want to wait around forever, or go out and explore what the rest of the world has to offer!
Good Luck
-Ash♥
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