Gender: Female
Location: United States
Age: 14
Member Since: August 16, 2009
Answers: 32
Last Update: October 3, 2009
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14/f
thhooouuuugh I don't think this is a romantic thing or anything, so it is a slightly different approach...
anyway today we had free time in class and our teacher is awesome so we can sleep till the bell if that happens, and so I was napping a bit and I wake up because someone burped real loud beside me, and I find this boy I've been talking to a little bit for a while watching me with this really sincere grin and so I smile a bit and say, "Hey.. I'm kinda sleepy, haha."
His eyes crinkle up with more smileyness and he says "Yeah, I know. I was..." and then he gets dragged into a conversation with someone else.
Now, some romantic girls may say "Ooohh, how sweet he likes you and thought you were cute sleeping~" but no, I don't think so. He does look at me sometimes, and if I'm talking to another guy he tends to take notice and gets in the middle of it (discretely, though I know he does this on purpose because any time I'm talking with a girl he never pays any attention) and he'll tease me, but the thing is he's a flirt as it is. He's always picking fights with girls to see their reactions and stuff.
so yeah, the main question here is--
......seriously, is a sleeping girl that freakin' funny?
I know I'm not ugly, even though I'm not a beauty queen, I don't snore (according to every family member who has shared a room/bed with me), I don't talk in my sleep, according once again to the family...
so what the heck was so funny or cute or whatever it was that made him smile?
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Guys are weird...he was probly just watching you sleep...guys do that, weird, I know. Just blow it off and keep flirting with him(if you like him). If something was by some chance funny while you were sleeping then he will or probly already forgot so no worries!!!
Hope that was helpful~~~
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I'm 24 years old and my sister is 21. We both work for the same company. The company deals with developmentally disabled adults. She works in the actual office, and I work in the residential homes, taking care of our clients overnight. About 2 weeks ago I went over to her house and she told me something and made me swear once I heard it, that I wouldn't tell anyone because it could cost her her job. She went on to tell me that she stole pills from work. I instantly got mad. She's not this type of person AT ALL! She said she wouldn't of done it if she had known she could only get $1/pill. She told me this three weeks ago and it's been bugging me ever since. In no way do I want her to be unemployed but at the same time what she did was completely wrong. Her reasoning for doing it are ridiculous as well, she says that "it was bad, but not that big of a deal because the pills were going to be destroyed and thrown out." I'm the only one that knows, so if I say anything, obviously it will come back to me. I just don't know what to do! (link)
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Who cares that the pills were going to be thrown out she fed to someones addiction. She may not know what it's like to try to get someone to stop takeing perscription pills but I do. My aunt is addicted to perscription pills and no matter how hard we try she refuses to quit. It has been so hard on our family. I think the best thing to do is talk to her tell her how you feel and MAKE her understand why what she did was wrong even if it means bringing up how it would feel to be related to someone that was addicted and knowing that someone was just selling them pills as if it was nothing. If it continues you should really tell someone because she could be unknowingly killing someone by selling those pills. Yes she would loose her jog but she wouldn't be killing anyone.
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Okay so recently Ive been talking to this guy (I'm fifteen, so is he) we'll call him Mike and he's really nice and funny and sweet and sincere, you get the idea. Well for the past month or so we've just been hanging out as friends, flirting a lot, and a tiny bit of physical stuff. Well I've started to really like him. He's awesome and I think he likes me too. But see theres this like senior girl who likes him (kinda creepy, yeah) and her two friends who are also like okay buddys with me were talking to me about it. They said that Mike had sent their friend (the one that likes him) naked pictures of himself, like no pants... Ew. I asked one of Mike's really close friends/my friend if this was true and the friend said "I knew they were talking but I asked Mike and he said he never sent them." Now I think I can look at this one of two ways. 1. It's true and Mike lied to his friend, and the two girls (who said they actually saw with their own eyes the pictures) are right. or 2. The girls are making it up because they know their friend likes Mike and they know I kinda like Mike so they want to get me out of the picture... I REALLLLLY hope its option two. But I don't know what to do!!! So here are my questions; which option do you think it is, or do you think its something else? and also, what if it is true??? That is something that would really bother me... I don't know if I could look at him the same... And third... How do I deal with all of this??? (link)
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Girls can be mean...honestly she's probly trying to get to you. Go to the source, it might be kinda akward but it's better than wondering...if he says it's not true then it might not be try to trust him especially since he probly wouldn't lie to his friend about that cause thats how guys are. If the girls persist tell her to prove it! If she says she has already deleted it ask her to get him to send it again and if she has some stupid excuse then you know she's obviously a liar! If it is true and ut bothers you that much then he's probly not the right guy for you because as bad and illegal as it is guys who are willing to send pictures generally want some in return. Tell him that's not how you are and you aren't looking for that.
I HOPE IT ALL IS A LIE!!!
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Okay, im 17/m starting college soon. My sister lives about 2 hours away from me but one of her friends moved down to where i live to go to college but not the same one as me. My sister wanted me to start hanging out with this girl. So my sister came down where i lived and we all met up for the first time and she was kinda quiet, but she seemed really nice. I'm not sure if she just wasnt in to me or if she liked me idk we talked for a little bit but no really too much. I have been thinking about this girl and i do want to be friends with her or be in a relationship with her. I have her number but how should i start talking to her?? And btw my sister wants us to go out lol. But yeah she was on my mind all day and I do not know what to say or start off a conversation with her. (link)
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She might just be scared to talk to you believe it or not girls get really nervous around guys and sometimes dont know what to say. Just call her and ask if she wants to hang out...if she has an excuse why she cant ask her when she can if she says she doesnt know or says she will call you but doesnt most likely shes not very interested in you.
Hope it all works out!
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Okay, I used to be christian as a little kid, I was ALWAYS at church, just having a blast ya know? But now I'm fifteen, and I'm an atheist. I mean, I dont know whwat to believe. I want to believe in Christ as such, but I just don't know how. I feel as if I need PROOF. And that's what it's gonna take to get me into believing again. My Boyfriend is trying to devote his life to Christ, and he's struggling wit me, because I'm not. And not only because of him, but I want to as well start believing again. I just need help.
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I went through the same exact thing. You should never feel like you need to force yourself to believe something. It gets really confusing and annoying at first because you want to believe something but you cant because you haveing been given a reason to. It gets better I promise, its ok not to know what you believe. Lots of people including me turned to earth based religions after they went through this stage (dont take that offensively...just info). Just because your boy friend is religous doesnt mean you have to be...it is up to you and only you what you want to believe!
I really hope this was helpful for you.
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I was wondering today about how many women get abortions each year? I mean, I heard about girls going for abortions ALL the time. I keep thinking about how many lives could have been born if they wouldn't have done those things. Anyway, enough of that pro-life or pro-choice type thing--I just want to know about how many women, on average, get abortions each year? (link)
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about 4000 abortions take place a day which is like 28000 a week, 112000 a month, and about 1344000 a year!!!!!!!!
That is how many legal murders happen every year!!!!
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My advanced biology teacher wants to do a project with us where we will go out into the slough behind our high school and take a population count of the frogs there. He said the best way to mark the little guys is to clip one of their back toes off... I personally dont have a big problem with this as it appears to be the standard way to mark frogs for a population count, but a lot of the girls in the class didnt want to because it was inhumane to the frogs. the class came to a conclusion that we probably shouldnt be cutting the toes off of the frogs just for a class project.
Now the problem is that we have no idea how else we would mark the frogs... we thought of dental floss tied around one leg, or some kind of paint or marking them with a permanent marker. we dont want to hurt them any worse than cutting a toe off, so we're not really sure about the marker choice because that stuff is pretty toxic and frogs can absorb chemicals through their skin... and we dont want to change the frogs color because that could make them easier to catch by predators...
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There are no humane ways to mark a frog the permanant markers and spray paints have harsh unhealthy chemicals in them. PLEASE DONT INJURE AN INNOCENT ANIMAL FOR SCIENTIFIC REASONS....
I would like you to know that i hunt...but that is for food not sciene.
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me and this guy have been texting and he wants to hangout and i want to have sex with him so bad but i don't want to be a slut about it,so how can i tell him i want to with out acualy telling him "hey i want to have sex with you" (link)
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Just when you hang out kinda see where things go and at the right moment it will happen. Just be really careful use birth contol and a condom.
Hope things go well.
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I don't know what kind of stuff to put in the school newspaper! Im in charge of making all the columns. What do i do? (link)
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Im not really an expert on school news papers but what i would suggest is getting input from others at school ask them what they would like to see in the schools news paper...afterall it is them who you want to be reading it.
Hope this was helpful.
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so i have been liking this guy forever now and we talk but we dont talk much. ive heard that he is a bad cheater but i really dont believe that because when he had a girlfriend i tested him and he wouldnt do anything with other girls but we would be talking and he told me that he still liked me and a few months ago we went to the movies and hung out and partied but now we would talk and then he would be talking to this other girl and not text back so idk anymore if he likes me or not. i would ask him to go to activities with me and friends and he says taht he cant go and today i found out that he went a hotel room a few days ago with this girl and her friends that he is talking to now and last night he went to a concert with her and her friends. but earlier i was with a few friends and a friend of mine had my phone because i was gone for a little bit and he texted me and she told him how i felt about him and that i really really liked him and he said wow i didnt know that she liked me that much and all (which i told him alot of time how much i liked him). so idk if he likes me or what!
i really really really like him.
like no other.
but i just dont know!
help me?
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Guys are confusing....but the best thing for you to do is ask him flat out. Tell him you need to know so that if he doesnt you can move on. If you dont feel like you can ask him face to face ask him through texting or online.
Hope he likes you...but if not youll find someone better.
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First off, I know for a fact I'm not ugly or extremely pretty. I'm average. So I know this isn't cause I look funny.... I think...
Anyway, in English the class assistant, (an assistant is usually sophomore who had the teacher in the past at our school. I'm a freshman) is looking at me alot. He never really talks, but I catch him looking at me alot, usually when I'm laughing with the guy next to me and my other friends. He watches/eavesdrops long enough to know what's going on for sure I know, because I was making a face the other day that for SOME reason everyone loves. And I turn to look for the teacher, and my eye catches is, and I see him smiling a bit, watching me and shaking his head, saying "Oh my god..." playfully.
Does all this watching me mean anything good or bad? Is he just looking for enertainment in a relatively boring class/job and finds me to be a good source of it? (My friends always say I'm funny so it could be.)
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He probly likes you....usually when a guy looks at you alot its because he likes you(it can be pretty annoying). Just have a normal conversation with him maybe it will become clear to you that he likes you. If you like him then thats good. If you dont try to let him know that you dont like him like that.
Hope it all works out
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I have this one friend, not really a friend, i just hang out with her at basketball practice. I really like her, but hanging out with her outside of practice or without the team is really awkward because we have nothing besides the sport in common. she invited me over once and i think we both thought it was awkward. my parents now are always telling me to invite her over. i have gotten out of it so far, but they always say i need to "reciprocate" or "return the favor" how can i explain to them that we arent compatible to hang out outside of basketball?? (link)
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Honestly your best bet is to come right out and say it...just explain how awkward it was when you guys hung out at her house tell them that you just dont have anything other than basketball in common. Im sure they will understand!
Hope that goes well!!!
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Hi,my name is jennifer and I am 23 years old. My husband n I just got temp custody of his neice which is a month old we have had her now for one week. His sister had dhs called on her so we took the baby. They have only been here one time to see her for like 20 or 30 min brought her some things. They are not showin any effort to get there child back. I dont want to take the baby from them for good but they are not compilyin with what the judge said to do. They are just takin there time. We have a three year old and a one year old of our own. We love the baby so much. they had her just so mest up like tryin to feed her chettos. They feed her so much rice that now she has a hernia in her belly button from tryin to go to the bath room and not being able to. What should I do try to contiue to help them or just stop tryin???? Any adive will be apperciated (link)
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It sounds to me like the babies parents arent able to take care of their child. However I can understand that you dont want to take the baby away from them. You should try talking to them tell them that if they really do want the baby they need to start complying with the judges orders. If they do make the effort great! However it doesnt really sound like they will so dont send the baby back into an unsafe environment and parents that dont care enough to do what ever it takes to get her back.
I hope that everything works out for the best...weather that be your niece going back to her parents or staying with you.
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I am a 13 year old girl. I like this boy but he asked out my friend before me but we got really close we talk every night and he says i love you and everything. Im scared to date him cause my friend also hates him cause he liked her. what should ido or say to her? Thanks! (link)
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If you like this guy talk to your friend tell her how you feel about the guy and that you dont want her to be mad at you but you really want to date him. If she is a good friend she wont try to stop you...
Hope everything works out!
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Fifteen, female
Does anyone know any songs about a girl and her ex guy friend?
About hating him, or missing him - either is fine.
HAS to be ex-guy-friend. NOT boyfriend.
OR of a girl liking her guy friend.
Either pop, alternitive, rock, or dance song.
The only country singer I like is Taylor swift, but if you think theres a country song I would like, go for it.
Please refrian from mentioning extremely popular songs. If they're popular, I've most likely heard of them. (link)
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Teardrops on my Guitar by Taylor Swift is about a girl likeing her guy friend....hope thats what your looking for.
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My guy friend and i have been friends for ever but now that we're older i think he likes me. i dont want to go out with him cuz if we broke up i no we wouldnt be friends no more! we r both 13 and i am a female. (link)
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The most important thing here is, do you like him? If you do it might be worth a shot. You both need need to understand that if things dont work out things could go either way...however if you guys are really good friends you should be able to get over a break-up. Dont date him just because you dont want to hurt him. That will just make things worse I have been there and now me and him arent even friends....
I hope everything works out!
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24/f. I really would like a new job... but a new job most likely means moving back to the city and about 2:30hrs away from my boyfriend. We've been living together for just over a year, and its pretty great. I love my apartment, and I am very comfortable here. He really would rather not move to a city, nor leave his family. I am not sure what to do! At 24, it feels like such a juvenile question. Do I stay here at a job I don't like and hope something better comes along? Or do I keep applying to jobs far away and hope things work out with him? Either thought upsets me in one way or another... suggestions? (link)
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Its not really that juvenille of a question, but the truth is if you want to stay with your boyfriend you might not want to move because most long distance relationships dont work. At the same time though if you are find a job that you would love to take either your boyfriend loves you enough to move with you or hes not worth staying for.
Hope you make the right decision for you!!
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I have a huge problem that makes me feel very depressed. Everytime I hook up (as in make out) with a boy, I become attached. I've only hooked up with a few boys and every one of them has been a boy I hadn't met before that night. So when I hook up with them I always have an expectation of something happening after (which I know isn't realistic, but I can't help it) and when it doesn't (which it never does) I feel really upset and lonely. So I say to myself, "okay I'm the type of girl who needs a committed boy, not just a random hook-up, so I'll never hook up with a random boy again". But then soon I find myself thinking OMG I HAVEN'T HOOKED UP WITH ANYONE IN A WHILE WHATS WRONG WITH ME I NEED TO GET WITH SOMEONE. and then i'll hook up with another random boy when given the opportunity, and then once again when they don't talk to me or we don't hang out again after (which we never do), i get upset/lonely again. It's like an endless cycle. My first hook-up was 4 months ago, and before that, I NEVER felt like I needed a boy. Like obviously I wanted one because i had never had a boyfriend or even a kiss, but then ever since my first hook-up I haven't felt independant like I used too. Now i feel like I'm always gunna need a boy to make me feel better and not lonely (even though I never actually have one) because once I started hooking up with boys, there was no turning back cause now I'm always dependant. I always told myself I would NEVER become dependant on a boy but i find myself becoming attached to every guy I hook up with. I just wish I could enjoy the moment while I'm hooking up with someone and live in that moment only and just do it for fun at that time,and then when it's over not care if the boy ever talks to me again. But it's not like that at all unfortunately. What can I do to stop this, it's really hurting me :( and please don't say stop hooking up with boys, because if I don't hook up with a boy in more than a month i feel extremely deprived and bored and lonely. and don't say find a boy that you can actually build a relationship with, because i've been trying that for 4 months and it hasn't worked so there is no one i can hook up with and continue hanging out with/talking too after. thanks. (link)
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Obviously the best thing for you to do would be to stop hooking up with guys but you have already tried that and you couldnt. You should look for someone that you like before you hook-up with them and work towards it that way. If you want just keep hooking-up with other guys before you find a guy that you want to be in a relationship with.
Hope that was helpful.
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so i'm new at this school and im beginning to like this guy. i see him every day in one of my classes. the thing is im kind of confused about him and i never really got the chance to talk to him. i started to notice him the first time we had class together and i think he realised that because at the end of class he kind of checked me out before he left. he sits infront of me and yesterday he turned around about 3 or 4 times during class to look at me, i always blushed and looked away and so did he when he saw me looking.
but then when class ends i always try to get closer to him to talk to him but he always walks by me ignoring me not even seeing me. same thing today, during class he turned around twice but ignored me outside class. and later on when school finished he was at the front door, about to leave but he turned around again to look at me and then left. i thought it was really cute so i smiled at him but he didnt smile back cause he didnt see it fast enough. and i know hes really shy and quiet and it seems to me like he didnt have lots of experience with girls. he's a little emo-ish but still talks to all the other groups so i dont think i have to be emo to be liked by him. i do think that he noticed me because i know im pretty etc but i dont know what to do. then again ive only been at this school for one week haha. any tips? (: (link)
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Maybe hes just really shy and doesnt know what to say to you. Being that he turns around in class to look at you he probably does like you. If it seems like he turns and runs everytime you get near him try talking to some people he seems to be close with or write him a note (dont get cought passing it). Tell him that you like him or that you want to get to know him better. In class when you are confused about something that you are learning ask him for help and just say hi accasionally when you see him.
Hope all goes well with him!!!
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so when i try to open up windows media player, zune player, and internet explorer, they all show up for about 2-5 seconds then disappear. it's been really frustrating because like once a week it works normally and thats the only time i can update my mp3 player. please please please help!! i ran a virus scan or whatever and it didnt detect anything so whats wrong??
p.s. i tried reinstalling the programs and that didnt do anything to fix it (link)
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I have had this problem before and I had to dump my entire computer and hard drive it it probably a virus its just that some virus protections dont ditect everything. I have the free AVG anti-virus and I have never had a virus since ive had AVG. If you dont want to looseeverything on your computer on the occasions that you can get it to work back-up everything you dont want to loose.
Hope that works.
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