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trying to get his attention
so i'm new at this school and im beginning to like this guy. i see him every day in one of my classes. the thing is im kind of confused about him and i never really got the chance to talk to him. i started to notice him the first time we had class together and i think he realised that because at the end of class he kind of checked me out before he left. he sits infront of me and yesterday he turned around about 3 or 4 times during class to look at me, i always blushed and looked away and so did he when he saw me looking.
but then when class ends i always try to get closer to him to talk to him but he always walks by me ignoring me not even seeing me. same thing today, during class he turned around twice but ignored me outside class. and later on when school finished he was at the front door, about to leave but he turned around again to look at me and then left. i thought it was really cute so i smiled at him but he didnt smile back cause he didnt see it fast enough. and i know hes really shy and quiet and it seems to me like he didnt have lots of experience with girls. he's a little emo-ish but still talks to all the other groups so i dont think i have to be emo to be liked by him. i do think that he noticed me because i know im pretty etc but i dont know what to do. then again ive only been at this school for one week haha. any tips? (:
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Maybe hes just really shy and doesnt know what to say to you. Being that he turns around in class to look at you he probably does like you. If it seems like he turns and runs everytime you get near him try talking to some people he seems to be close with or write him a note (dont get cought passing it). Tell him that you like him or that you want to get to know him better. In class when you are confused about something that you are learning ask him for help and just say hi accasionally when you see him.
Hope all goes well with him!!!
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I'll give you a few tips to help you out with this guy :).
Tips on how to get him to notice you more:
-Smile and make eye contact!(You site behind him..so this will probably be easy. Just make eye contact and smile at him when he turns.)
-Establish communication (Say hi to him! Don't be shy. You even said yourself that you think he's a little shy. So, be the first one to just start the conversation)
-Become friends with him. (It will get you noticed and this often can lead to a serious relationship)
-And finally! Get to know him better. (When you do start talking to him, eventually, start finding out things about him! Ask him questions based on what you already know about him. However, I'm sure that's not much. So..just ask him the simple things first. Guy's don't like being asked TOO many questions. But, I'm sure they don't mind some. For example, ask him what his hobbies are, or his favorite things to do, what kind of music he likes,etc. Maybe even try doing some of the stuff he likes with him! Make sure you also add in some of your experiences that relates to what he's saying. What I mean is..if he say's he likes to swim or something..if you like doing similar things, tell him! This will make for good conversation and for you both to get to know eachother.)
Yes, it is true..the first thing a guy notices is how you look. However, you said you're pretty and new to the school, so it's possible that's why he's looking at you. But, of course, I don't know him so I wouldn't know how he is with girls. The only way you can truly find out if he likes you is to get to know him. I'm sure once you do all this, you'll figure it out. It does seem like he does have an interest though, especially because he turns often to look at you. I'm sure it'll all go great!
Here's a link to a site that may help you figure out if he likes you:
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Good luck, Hope I helped :)
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hey hey!
okay sooo i have totally been in this situation only mine ended tragically! the boy i liked sat in front of me on the bus. he too always turned around--but it turns out he turned around soo much because he thought it was creepy that i was always staring at him! and the whole time i was like "ooh this kid is totally looking at me!" and yeah he was but at the same time I was always looking at him--therefore he was thinking "why is this chick always staring at me when i turn around--weird!" so yeah i toaly embarrassed myself.
to save you from this situation--whenever he looks at you DONT LOOK. pretend to be too busy to notice him looking--for instance look down and start writing or readiong something or be looking at someone else when he begins to turn to look at you. just feel his eyes on you instead of making eye contact.
as for after class--if you give off an attitude of being pristine and too cool he may begin to notice you. im not saying like be bitchy or snobbish-just kind of whimsical.
make him take your bait and come to you.
also-to boost my confidence before school i would take extra time in getting ready. i know it seems i was conceited but i wasnt. i just wanted to look cute and have my hair and makeup done so i wouldnt have to worry about the way i look--id focus on what i was doing or saying to the boys lol
good luck girly!
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