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To move, or not to move?
24/f. I really would like a new job... but a new job most likely means moving back to the city and about 2:30hrs away from my boyfriend. We've been living together for just over a year, and its pretty great. I love my apartment, and I am very comfortable here. He really would rather not move to a city, nor leave his family. I am not sure what to do! At 24, it feels like such a juvenile question. Do I stay here at a job I don't like and hope something better comes along? Or do I keep applying to jobs far away and hope things work out with him? Either thought upsets me in one way or another... suggestions?
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Well, it really comes down to which one is more important. Does he have a job? Does he make enough money to support you? If so, then a job may not be as important at this time IF you are planning on spending your life with him. However, if you think there is going to be a big chance of you two breaking up in the near future, you may not have anything when he leaves, so you may want to try to get a better job, or try to find one where you live now, there may be one you passed up.
Best of luck, my friend!
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Its not really that juvenille of a question, but the truth is if you want to stay with your boyfriend you might not want to move because most long distance relationships dont work. At the same time though if you are find a job that you would love to take either your boyfriend loves you enough to move with you or hes not worth staying for.
Hope you make the right decision for you!!
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