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be in charge .
15 year old female . & i want to be in charge of the relationship . my boyfriend lately has beeen in the i dont give a crap mood and he talks to girls and he gets mad about everything . he is always making fun of me and stuff in front of his friends and he always treats me bad and makes me feeel like if i was his dog or something. is there any way that i can stay with him , but make me be in charge ? and stop him from treating me this way ?
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Guys PMS just like girls do. They have their off-days, their bitchy moods, and even their 'leave-me-alone' moments. A guy, however, who can't handle his own PMS-Syndrome and can't see what amazing things he has in front of him, is an untrained guy.
My advice to you: throw on the pants from your relationship for a day. Throw on some sexy clothes, change your usual hairstyle for a day, and make yourself look completely sex-able.
Meet him with his friends and be completely wanted. Flirt a little with his friends in front of him (don't over-do that, of course) and make him see exactly what he saw in you when he first asked you out.
Show him what he's missing, and be the sexiest girl you can be. Wink at him once in a while, and from time to time, lick your lips. Touch him when you talk to him, and make sure he wants you more than ever. I promise you that no man can resist it. I'm pretty sure that'll get his blood pumping again!
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The only relationships that are about who is 'in charge' are the relationships between bosses and employees, parents and childrens, and humans and animals.
You want a rommantic relationship? Give up the idea of being 'in charge' of the both of you.
You are only in charge of you.
If you don't like what he is doing, the ONLY thing you can do, is decide what your response to his behavoir is going to be.
If he treats you bad, call him on it, tell him exactly what you don't like about it, and tell him what will happen if it continues.
If it keeps happening, remind him firmly about what your reponse will be.
If it keeps happening, dump his ass.
There are two things you can rationally think when a guy wont be respectful and treat you decently:
One. He's a moron who doesn't know how to behave, and is refusing to learn.
or Two. He doesn't like you enough to treat you decently.
Either way, no amount of being 'in charge' will change that. That is the kind of guy you just dump.
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