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How to find the right guy?
Hiya..
Well a about a month ago my ex and i broke up. It didn't last long. He found someone else, and i cant find anyone. Well there's this one guy named Chris he likes me but he has a gf and he likes her more than me.He told me if he wasn't dating her he would of asked me out. He's in a long distance relationship and he says it sucks. He calls me practically everyday i don't know what to do. I told him that i would wait for him but i don't think i can. HOW CAN I FIND THE RIGHT GUY!lol im 14 and next week i start back into school. There also is another guy who likes me, he tells my friends and tells them to keep quite about it. He's dating this girl to get his mind off of me. i have no clue what to do anymore and im so tired of it. PLZ help me!
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Don't wait for Chris. He's telling you he'd be with you if he wasn't with his girlfriend because he probably wants to keep his options open once his relationship is over. Stay away from him. He's not worth it.
You're 14. You're not going to find the perfect guy right now. Wait for a bit, and you might. But if you keep jumping from guy to guy, you're just going to end up heartbroken. It's ok to not be dating anyone. Plenty people are single and are doing just fine.
--Jack
(17/m)
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If you like the guy who likes you but is dating someone else to get his mind off of you go for him!!! Whatever you do dont over step your boundaries by flirting to much because he does have a girl friend. If you really like him and are not affraid to tell him how you feel then do it, you have nothing to loose if he already likes you.
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First of all, don't ever tell anyone you will wait for them! Especially when they are in a relationship! You already said you know that he likes her more than you, so why would you wait for him when you could be with somebody? Talk to this guy and tell him that you're going to, of course, date other people. But, if he's single and your single..then it may happen.
The other guy who doesn't want your friends telling you: it's pretty obvious he likes you! However, dating someone to get his mind off of you? Um, yeah, not a good idea haha. I've been in your situation a lot. It's possible he's just too nervous and shy to ask you out! So, try talking to him and, if you have feelings for him, tell him you do. Guy's can't mind read! It makes it so simple just to straight out tell him how you feel. And, hopefully, he'll realize he doesn't have strong feelings for his girlfriend like he does for you (if that's true).
YOU'RE 14! You're not going to find "mr.right". When you're young, you need to date a few guys so you can figure out who your mr.right really is! It's hard to find a really good guy in high school. All they really want at a young age is sex. So, the best advice I could give you is to make sure you get to know these guys and/or any guys you ever want to date before you do anything with them. I see too many younger girls hurt because their boyfriend cheat on them.
Good qualities you can look for in a guy?:
-Great sense of humor.
-Faithful/Loyal (very important!)
-Respects you.
-Good communication skills! (also, very important!)
-Affectionate/Caring.
-Appreciative and Forgiving.
-Confident.
And finally!
-Loves YOU for YOU!
Good luck, hope I helped :)
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