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Okay. Well there was this guy that I met through a friend right? And so he and I had been texting for like a few months, and talking on the phone occasionally, but had only talked about seriously going on a date like twice. Well one day, I ran into him totally unexpectedly on a quick run to mcdonalds which really sucked cuz I was in like a t-shirt and a pair of soffee shorts, which where I live are referred to as "slut shorts" haha, I don't know. Plus I had like just woken up so I looked as ugly as crap... But anyway so it was SOOO awkward and since then I haven't texted him because it was so awkward that I just don't have the nerve to, and he hasn't texted me for reasons that probably have to do with my disgusting appearence when he saw me, haha (that was like a week ago). Now I don't know what to do. Becuase even before the meeting I kind of had the impression that he was just going to use me for some action becasue he even asked if I would ever have sex with him, and I said no, but he told me he was totally okay with that. Well now its just even worse, I don't know what to do. Should I call him up and try to get things started agian of just forget about it?... I don't know.
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Honestly, it shouldn't matter how you appeared that day haha. It's not like you were going to a fashion show..he needs to get over it (if it bothered him!).
Usually, guy's don't care if they see a girl without make-up. I'm sure you didn't look horrible. Guy's even say they prefer girls who don't wear a lot of make up on their faces.
He asked if you would have sex with him? Yeah..it's easy to tell he wants to have a "good time", especially at the age of 16! I'm 16 myself, and the guy's in my school..they are always looking for an easy way to get sex, and they're very immature. It's great you told him no though!
I'm not saying ALL he wanted to do was have sex with you. Because, I don't know him and he probably does like you.
It's possible he hasn't texted you and/or called you because he's busy, doesn't feel like it, too lazy, not sure what to say, etc. It's even possible he wants you to make the first move! Who knows. So many excuses guy's come up with!
Should you talk first? Well #1: he SHOULD talk to you, even if you didn't text first. It shouldn't matter. It's very rude of him to not even say anything to you. Now, I'm not sure if you usually text/call first but if you do..then don't text him or anything. Wait for him. However, you can send a text saying "are you alive" (sarcastic). I did that to my guy friend who randomly stopped talking to me. It worked haha.
Now, if you sometimes text him first and he sometimes texts you first (which makes it like an equal thing..) then either you can text first and just be like "Hey, how are you?" or you'll have to wait for him..
If he ignores you, forget about him!
So basically, it's up to you. Depending on who usually texts first..that's how you can make your decision.
Or you can just make it easy and text him a simple "hello" haha.
Good luck, hope I helped :)
Feel free to inbox me if you need anymore advice!
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I think you should just forget about it because this guy seems odd just because he saw you looking a litte unusual he doesnt call and he asked you if you would have sex with him haha i dont know doesnt seem like a real gentleman so i would move on you can so do better so forget him and find someone better who actually likes you for who you are and in any form. :)
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