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Should i ask him out?
Hi! 14/F
Okay, i found out that my ex ex boyfriend still likes me. That he liked me ever since we broke up, and he apparently feels dumb to ask me out again because he dated my friend, even though i warned him that she likes other guys and she will break his heart he still dated her. She got mad at me because he never talked to her that much,and he always talked to me. Well, i couldn't help that. Well while she was dating him she found someone else, they broke up and i found out that he liked me this whole time after that. Him and my friend broke up about the last week of school and now we are starting a new year. :/ He told me friend that he still liked me, he told her not to say anything though.He was dating his recent girl friend to keep his mind off of me. I know quite silly. They broke up and what i need to know is should i ask him out?? Or wait??
Thanks!
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Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
-Laura (17-f)
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Hey.
Oh boy this sounds so complicated. But I would say, yes ask him out. He's liked you for so long and can't stop thinking about you. And it does make sense why he would think it was weird to ask you out again. I say go for it! :)
Good luck and take care <3.
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I would move on, Did he dump you to date your friend? If so then he isn't worth it. Did you dump him and he went and dated your friend? If so wrong again. If you "heard" that he liked you all this I wouldn't believe it until you actually hear it from him, Even if he did like you all this time the question is "Is he telling the truth" How can he date your friend and still have feelings for you while dating her..Hmmmm? Beats me, If you two were to get back together would he still have feelings for your friend while dating you?! Your answer is as good as mine...I would move on, Plenty of guys out there for you.
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