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It seems as thought I'm the only one who can't get a boyfriend
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 2:28 pm
Hi,I'm 16 years old and I've never had a boyfriend.
I've talked to a few guys but most guys don't see past sex with me.
I know im not bad looking so it's looks aren't the reason.
Guys say im pretty all the time and I take it as a compliment but I just really want to get involved with someone.
For 3 years,one of my guy "friends" would have sex with me all the time and I loved him so much,I thought he liked me too he just didnt ask me out because we were too young and I figured he would do it eventually...I ended up having sex with someone else besides him and he got mad and went out with someone else and stopped talking to me.Finally i found someone new ,and we were "talking" but then he told m...
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Is it too compllicated to have a relationship?
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 1:42 pm
I met a boy on holiday, yeah I know typical. I’ve never had any experience with boys (16/f), but with him i was defiantly comfortable and so was he. When it came to intimate stuff, we could talk openly about things, for example, whenever we tried to lock fingers i couldn’t do it properly and we laugh about it and stuff like that, he is a gentleman. We spent four hours on top of a hill, talking. Hugging. Nothing else. We were alone and he didn’t try a thing. He didn’t want to scare me away, infact he told me all of this.
We have an amazing connection – we both like the same football team – we even went to the same game, he fishes like i do, he goes horse riding like i did, just things like that – these aren’t lies beca...
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I am too far away from him and I can't stand it.
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 12:38 pm
Hey, Im a girl from Europe and I really need help. I have been talking to a guy through msn and we got to love each other, though we have never met, because he lives in the USA. He told me to ask him anything I dont know and anything I want to know, but I am too shy to ask him some questions. He admitted me that he loves me and I told him I love him too. We 'met' in february and now its august..and we got to reach the point to tell this to each other in july. He told me that he would marry me because in his eyes I am perfect and he could live his whole life with me. And when I told him I love him very much and I can hardly stand that I can't express this to him from face to face he told me not to worry about this since we are happy, because...
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people with HEALTHY and HAPPY Relationships please
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 5:51 am
*sorry if it's a little long but I really gotta break it down for the best answer* ok so my guy is wonderful... let me set some stuff up for you: if he has money and I need gas in my car he will let me gas up or take me to gas up. If I want to cook a fantastic meal he will get the groceries. He takes me out to dinner and we go to the movies and stuff like that. Like right now we moved cause he got a job in Iowa and he is paying the rent until I get a job (which he should, my mom taught me that any proper man would do that) He is generally a nice person and we have fun together. but there are some big things and some little things that are making it really hard for me to have a clear mind when it comes to staying with him. ok let's do the bi...
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I forced my boyfriend to say he loves me! Now I don't know if he really does!
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 4:37 am
oh shoot =|
So my bf and I have been happily dating fir 5 months now. He is 19 and I am 18. The thing is, is that I feel that I forced him to say he loves me.
...the reason I feel this??
Well he told me like a month into our relationship that he has never told a girl that he loved them. He says that he takes those words very seriously and he only wants to say "I love you" to one girl the rest of his life. I respected that and thought it was sweet. So then we kept dating and a couple more months go by and I seriously started falling in love with him. I felt that he felt the same way. We would, instead of saying "I love you", say "I like you". It was used as if the w...
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Being dependant/attached to boys.
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 1:35 am
I have a huge problem that makes me feel very depressed. Everytime I hook up (as in make out) with a boy, I become attached. I've only hooked up with a few boys and every one of them has been a boy I hadn't met before that night. So when I hook up with them I always have an expectation of something happening after (which I know isn't realistic, but I can't help it) and when it doesn't (which it never does) I feel really upset and lonely. So I say to myself, "okay I'm the type of girl who needs a committed boy, not just a random hook-up, so I'll never hook up with a random boy again". But then soon I find myself thinking OMG I HAVEN'T HOOKED UP WITH ANYONE IN A WHILE WHATS WRONG WITH ME I NEED TO GET WITH SOMEONE. and then i'll hoo...
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the good girl
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 12:11 am
alright. im an asshole. its as simple as that. im 17, i get with multiple girls at a time, and then get bored and move on. thats just what i do. or did. i dont know. the thing is theres this one chick i really like, or i think i like her alot but theres a problem... she knows me haha. she knows that i play girls all the time, and because of that she wont even give me a chance - not that i can blame her... but still. shes a real good girl. as in, an innocent, clean cut, straight a's, goes to church every sunday kind of girl. not what youd call my usual type. and at first thats why i thought i liked her. she was that innocent girl that i couldnt get so of course i wanted her, but i dont think thats it.. it just doesnt feel like that. i want t...
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I can't tell whether this guy likes me or is just being friendly.?
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 11:05 pm
There is this guy I have a crush on that lives in the apartment under my Aunts house. His name is A.J. and I met him when I was in grade school. I had moved away though, and didn't see my aunt so I forgot about him for a few years. When I moved back I saw him again as I was reunited to that part of the neighborhood. I was leaving after a visit to my aunts and he was staring at me so bad that he almost ran into my mom and then something else too as he walked by. I thought he looked really familiar at the time. I couldn't figure out if he was staring because he thought I was attractive or if he was trying to figure out who I was. I saw him at school and heard the name of his older brother mentioned as well and I immediately remembered who he ...
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Boyfriends
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 10:00 pm
Advice for shy boyfriends
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am i the girl that will make him change?
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 9:23 pm
So there is this adorable/hot/cute/sexy/amazing/nice/funny guy. He's 20 yrs old, I'm 17. He and I met 3 yrs ago this thanksgiving. We were basicully together for 2 yrs unofficially. And for one year I was jus so busy with my life we didn't talk. We jus recently started talking. And we both clearly still hav feelings for eachother. He wants to take me out on a date because he misses me and he says he was in love with me. Wich I'm skeptical about since he had a small thing with 3 of my bestfriends -_- anyways he is a big flirt. He tries to have sex with a lot of girls clearly. Wen we talk I jus let him kno I think he's perfect and he always says "I'm jus perfect for you" and I told him that I jus recently got fucked over and cheate...
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teenage relationships
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 7:58 pm
i need some opinions...do you think teenage relationships are pointless? me and my boyfriend are 17 and been together for a year. i'm not the kind of girl and he's not the kind of guy to throw around the "l" word, but we honestly love each other.
he's my other half and i honestly can't remember life before him...we tried breaking up once because we were afraid of getting too attached before college, it didn't work to well since we ended up getting back together....however, this is why i'm worried...
i know its bad to get so attached, especially when college is around the corner...we both don't really know whats happening next year.
so my question is, do teenage relationships act...
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a boy..
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 6:07 pm
ive been having these weird thoughts latley that i just want to make out with this one guy.
he wants to hang out with me and id think thatd be a great oppurtunity. lol.
but the problem is... im gunna feel like a slut.
or something like that.. you know?
ive never kissed anyone.
but he just seems like the type to kiss.
should i forget about it or just straight up tell him i wanna make out?
nothing slutty tho.
thanks in advance!
i hope its not confusing.
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cheated of girlfriend
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 5:53 pm
hi, 17/m
my friend had a party yesterday at a hotel room. At this party, my two friends (who are cousins) were invited. They are amazingly good looking blondes. At this party, alcohol got to everyone- the blonde cosuing started making out, and i was getting rather excited, and amused. My girlfriend saw this and felt uncomfortable and left the hotel room for fresh air.
I talked to her, and she told me that she wasnt comfortable watching them make out, and then we were fine. Also, i kissed both of the blondes. Some of the people saw it, but my girlfriend was not in the room. What do i do? My girlfriend doesnt know. Should i tell her? Or keep it a secret? Obviousely it was a stupid decision on my part, but i was very drunk!
thanks a bunch folks!
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trying to get his attention
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 2:50 pm
so i'm new at this school and im beginning to like this guy. i see him every day in one of my classes. the thing is im kind of confused about him and i never really got the chance to talk to him. i started to notice him the first time we had class together and i think he realised that because at the end of class he kind of checked me out before he left. he sits infront of me and yesterday he turned around about 3 or 4 times during class to look at me, i always blushed and looked away and so did he when he saw me looking.
but then when class ends i always try to get closer to him to talk to him but he always walks by me ignoring me not even seeing me. same thing today, during class he turned around twice but ignored me outside class. ...
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Is He Worth It?
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 12:04 am
Hi,
I am a 17f. Theres this guy I met and have known for several months. He is 18 and he is the absolute sweetest guy ever, which is why I like him. We have hung out a few nights and cuddled a little. The problem is, I know he has another girl that he feels strongly for. He told me about her and hes told me he loves me, but its not the same love that he has for this other girl. Then he tells me later that he just loves me. He also said he wants to kiss me to see if theres 'a spark', I didnt think that would be right so I didnt let him. I dont want to get closer to him, expecially knowing he has another girl. Everyone thinks we are dating and I keep telling them NO WE ARE NOT. I think I really like him, Im just unsure. I think hes ...
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Why do men cheat?
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 11:01 pm
Why do guys always seem to cheat? I just don't understand it. You give them everything they could possibly want and then you find them flirting with other women and junk. What am I doing wrong? It's like nobody can be faithful anymore
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I dont knoww!!
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 9:34 pm
Okay, theres this guy? And like four weeks ago, we dated? and then now he likes my best friend and bad part about it is she likes him too, and he was dating her cousin its like WTF! and i really do love him, and he told me he wants to put me back in his life? But i've tried letting him before and all he does is break my heart all over again and move back to someone else.. and i'm trying to make him realize what he did was wrong, and im telling him things to make him realize that he CAN'T have me right now, and maybe never? and he makes things worst? and i just love him and wanna be with him but i can't stand the things he does? So what do i do??
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boyfriend
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 8:05 pm
My boyfriend and i have been together for 11 months. He leaves for college next week and i'm going crazy. I can't even talk about it without being put into tears. I dont know what to do to make it easier for myself.. help ?
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What should I do?
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 5:24 pm
I have been in a relationship with a musician since I was 14yrs. old now I am 25. We have two girls and I am pregnant now again.Occasionnally we like to have threesomes. Now just found out he went back to one of the girl's and made out with her. She told me they kissed and well almost had sex, but didn't happened because her mom was coming home. She told me he wanted her to call him so they can hang out once in a while. She couldn't bare the pain and ended up telling me. I asked him and of course he blamed everything on her. Now the only part is He was the one that showed up at her house, so obviously he wanted something else other than his girlfriend/ fiance back at home. I don't know what to do,...I want to leave him, should I? OH, AND an...
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Planning a Trip
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 3:26 pm
my bf 18th b-day is on Oct. 30, and i want to plan a vacation trip for his birthday!! i wanted some advice on where to take him ...i want like a 5days vacation. im willing to spend like no more than $1,000, its ok if it's a lil over..can someone gives me vacation package deal websites and places to go..It will be only me and him.
Also, we been together for more than 4yrs so its not like i just meet him..im 19!
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