Okay, theres this guy? And like four weeks ago, we dated? and then now he likes my best friend and bad part about it is she likes him too, and he was dating her cousin its like WTF! and i really do love him, and he told me he wants to put me back in his life? But i've tried letting him before and all he does is break my heart all over again and move back to someone else.. and i'm trying to make him realize what he did was wrong, and im telling him things to make him realize that he CAN'T have me right now, and maybe never? and he makes things worst? and i just love him and wanna be with him but i can't stand the things he does? So what do i do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gr8fruit answered Thursday August 20 2009, 11:13 pm: Hey,
If a guy breaks your heart,moves on to someone else and then wants you back; that is NOT treating a girl right. You are not a toy to be played with! Its good you try to make him realize what he did was wrong, he should know better. Talk to him and explain to him he cannot continue doing what he does if he really wants to be with you and that he should learn how to respect. Keep hinting every now and then that you really like him and want to be with him, but assure him you wont be with him unless change happens. Eventually, if he changes for you then you could tell him that you love him. For when a guy is willing to change himself even a little for someone else, it shows he is interested.. and worth your effort ;) Good luck! [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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