My boyfriend and i have been together for 11 months. He leaves for college next week and i'm going crazy. I can't even talk about it without being put into tears. I dont know what to do to make it easier for myself.. help ?
JustJessOx answered Thursday August 20 2009, 9:35 pm: hey there,
I know how hard this can be trust me ive been there theres no way of sugar coating it,it plain sucks.
honestly the best advice I can give you is to keep busy.
distract yourself from thinking about him as much as you want to and it kills you to do so,do the things you love doing take up a new hobbie?
go out with friends basicly just live your live as normal and best you can don't allow yourself to become depressed and mope around the place stay going. keep going.
I know you really dont want to hear this right now but it will make sense life does go on.
the trick is time,over time it will ease I promise im not saying itl happen over night itl be tough but you can get through it surround yourself with friends and family =)
I hope I helped in anyway,and things get easier and better,sorry to hear again.
anymore questions please feel free to inbox me
much <3
Jess
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