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I can't tell whether this guy likes me or is just being friendly.?
There is this guy I have a crush on that lives in the apartment under my Aunts house. His name is A.J. and I met him when I was in grade school. I had moved away though, and didn't see my aunt so I forgot about him for a few years. When I moved back I saw him again as I was reunited to that part of the neighborhood. I was leaving after a visit to my aunts and he was staring at me so bad that he almost ran into my mom and then something else too as he walked by. I thought he looked really familiar at the time. I couldn't figure out if he was staring because he thought I was attractive or if he was trying to figure out who I was. I saw him at school and heard the name of his older brother mentioned as well and I immediately remembered who he was. So one time I stopped him and was all "Hey I know you" and he was like "Well I don't know you," so I was like "Im Caroline's niece," and he goes "oh yeah!", and then walks off. So I really haven't gotten the chance to talk to him since then, but every time I have a class with him he smiles at me, or says hi, or something. He said Bye to me recently when I was leaving my Aunts house again. He looks at me all the time too but looks away really quick, and its never a stare more like a glance. I can't tell whether hes just being friendly or whether he has a small crush on me. What do you think? What should I do?
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Don't do anything. Say hi, speak when you see him, be nice, just like you've been doing. If he likes you, he'll approach you about it. If not, he won't. Just live your life. Be yourself and do what you do. Let him make any moves. A girl who makes the first move seems desperate. That might not be fair, but its just the way it is.
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It sounds to me like he has a crush. It's hard to say how it will turn out though cause sometimes that fear of being rejected or hurt can make people deny deny deny! haha but maybe you could do something like invite him bowling or something fun and out in the open like that...Something that could turn romantic if he was willing to go that extra mile and then you sould be able to find out. Good luck!
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